Oh CptStern, I have been dignosed with everything from neurosis to ADD to Avoidant Personality Disorder to learned helplessness to Asperger's syndrome to autism to depression, and now borderline psychosis. I just don't care about labels anymore. Call it Freddy's disease or whatever you want. I...
solaris you are a blind. there is nothing worse than the blind man who does not want to see. no one cares about NLP. it does not work, and if it does, at least you can find solace in knowing that you don't have a weak mind. Or maybe you do?
My bullshit detector just went off. I CAN talk to women, I just don't talk to them because I disagree with ALL the mating rituals established by society which lesser minds take for granted. You are in self-denial, which is typical for "AvPDs". How do I know this? Because if you were so sure of...
You don't get it, Ennui.
He is subconsciously rejecting girls because he thinks they are going to reject him anyway. Instead of waiting helplessly for what in his mind appears unavoidable, he chooses to reject them first because this gives him a sense of control. By rejecting women, he...
I know you are not gay, you have "avoidant personality disorder". Basically, your shyness is not normal. You think it is but it isn't. Either solve it yourself (I almost solved my problem last night) or seek professional help
You sound very insecure
No wonder you never get laid
You come across to me as an average frustrated chump
You need to re-evaluate your values and direct all that (sexual) energy towards something more rewarding and concrete.
I just don't get it. If I look at a penis I don't feel attracted to it. It is not beautiful, I don't want to hold it, I want to look away. The only exception is my own penis but I still don't find it cute, I just see it as another part of my body. So I don't understand why a woman (or a...
I was reflecting about the thread where I mentioned that I was going to kill myself. I know it was wrong to post that thread, it's just that I was not feeling well at that particular moment and for some reason beyond my understanding I had an impulsive need to express my feelings in a dramatic...
I don't assume anything, I go there with an open mind. Yes I know it is extremelly likely that they will reject me (I know this from past experience) but I don't think about that when I approach them
Let me recap the entire thing. I can't approach women because they don't like me. There must be something about my persona that they don't like (that, or I am the uggliest man in the world) and I want to figure out what that is so I can change my demeanor.
I felt it was a waste of my time and I quit going to therapy. I'd rather talk to an online friend. My real life friends are gone Why? Because I have avoidant personality disorder. Yes I self-diagnosed but I know Iam right. I mean, it's common sense. There is nothing the psychologist can say...