A bunch o' family moved in, so I need to move out...

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before they all drive me insane!!!

It's finally time I do something to get the hell out of my parents basement. I'm tired of paying rent only to put up with the bullshit drama my sister and her family brought along. They got evicted from their home and they have three kids and one on the way. Her husband can't find work and I'm expected to, "pull my own weight" when I already do so much shit for them already. No matter how much I do or how much money I give, it doesn't seem to help. She's totally stressed out, which stresses my parents out, which in turn stresses me out, and...I CAN'T F**KING TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!!. Sorry helplife2.net, I just needed a way to vent my frustrations.


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Not living with your parents: feels good man.
 
TollBooth Willie said:
Homicide.
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Nah, that would probably piss my father off. The only man in this crazy world I respect, and I don't want to do that ya know? Besides, he was graceful enough to let me come back for several months as long as I helped fund the cause and keep his grass cut.

I wanted to move back to Jacksonville FL since I had plenty o' friends out there, but shit I bet they all are married or some shit and too busy with their own lives to do anything anymore. I might give someone over there a buzz.

Qonfused said:
Not living with your parents: feels good man.
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I think I've finally reached the threshold of tolerance in this totalitarian communist regime that is my dad's house. It's indeed time to leave it all behind and only come back on holidays.
 
Craigslist it up. I'm moving into my first apartment next month, and we's gonna have a kitty cat. I'm really excited.
 
Does your parents know of something called CONDOMS???

Why on earth would they have 3 kids and ONE ON THE WAY if they cant support them? The **** is wrong with people? Hit your dad in the crotch and pour acid in your moms vagina. Problem solved.

or just buy them condoms. Either way works.
 
Aren't you like 30something Saturos? Da fuk u still livin in yo parent's house for yo?


Also, what happened to that big foolproof plan of starting an internet salesman thing you were planning on doing?
 
Krynn72 said:
Aren't you like 30something Saturos? Da fuk u still livin in yo parent's house for yo?
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25, and yes it's embarrassing. I need to get the f**k out


Krynn72 said:
Also, what happened to that big foolproof plan of starting an internet salesman thing you were planning on doing?
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That requires money to invest, just like any brick and mortar business. I have a few hundred put away, but being stuck here and paying for other shit has slowed me down alot.
 
Jesus ****ing titty christ. I'm out of here as soon as I"m graduated (23 that is) and never, ever come back. And to think it's not that bad at all at home.
 
Darkside55 said:
Holy shit do you actually live in your parent's basement? And you pay RENT for it?
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Sorta a figure of speech tbh. I don't actually live in the basement.

Ravioli said:
Does your sister & her husband know of something called CONDOMS???

Why on earth would they have 3 kids and ONE ON THE WAY if they cant support them? The **** is wrong with people? Hit your sister's husband in the crotch and pour acid in your sister's vagina. Problem solved.

or just buy them condoms. Either way works.
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He lives in his sister's bedroom.

hugeknockersetc.
 
Ravioli said:
Does your parents know of something called CONDOMS???

Why on earth would they have 3 kids and ONE ON THE WAY if they cant support them? The **** is wrong with people? Hit your dad in the crotch and pour acid in your moms vagina. Problem solved.

or just buy them condoms. Either way works.
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Saturos said:
It's finally time I do something to get the hell out of my parents basement. I'm tired of paying rent only to put up with the bullshit drama my sister and her family brought along. They got evicted from their home and they have three kids and one on the way. Her husband can't find work and I'm expected to, "pull my own weight" when I already do so much shit for them already.
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char.
 
I live with my folks for the time being but I love it! I share a pool and the kitchen...but I have my own bedroom, computer room and bathroom. Food is read for me when I get home from lunch usually. and I don't pay rent. I love my folks and I'll probably live here for just 1 more year but I'm really loving it. when my friend moves back, were going to go 50/50 on my sister in laws old house, $750 a month, all utilities, a garage, and about 15 acres to share of woodlands. can't wait
 
I'm getting out of this house as soon as I finish college (sadly that's almost 6 years away) and never moving back. I love my parents and all that, but I'll be damned if my parents pay for anything when I can get myself a job. I despise dependence. That's the reason I'm going into the military: guaranteed employment.
 
Krynn72 said:
Aren't you like 30something Saturos? Da fuk u still livin in yo parent's house for yo?


Also, what happened to that big foolproof plan of starting an internet salesman thing you were planning on doing?
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There are even older people than that shacking up with their parents in this economy.

http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcon...parents_23bus.ART.State.Edition1.39b12a7.html

MILWAUKEE – After being laid off from her job as an events planner at an upscale resort, Jo Ann Bauer struggled financially. She worked at several lower-paying jobs, moved to a new city and even declared bankruptcy.

After struggling for four years, Jo Ann Bauer moved back in with her parents, Bill and Shirley Smith, in Eden, Wis.
Then in December, she finally accepted her parents' invitation to move into their home – at age 52. "I'm back living in the bedroom that I grew up in," she said.
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Aw man I was so happy that there was someone in the world who really lived in their parents' basement, and I was so happy that it was you

Okay really though, family is one thing, but you can't be expected to put up with psychopathy. There are times when it is your absolute duty to help people (I mean they are your family) but where their shrill-voiced need for help will make it impossible for you to do so from too close by. If you are already pulling as much 'weight' as you can handle it's not fair for you to stay around being terrorised into putting your back out pulling more. I've never really been in such a situation, but friends have. It's not pretty. Yeah, move out. Scope out your old hood to see if anyone might be looking for a housemate.

Also, I dunno how useful this is, but if you keep giving money to your sister and that never actually helps, maybe you should assess how it's being spent and how you could make sure in the future it gets spent better.
 
Sulkdodds said:
Aw man I was so happy that there was someone in the world who really lived in their parents' basement, and I was so happy that it was you

Okay really though, family is one thing, but you can't be expected to put up with psychopathy. There are times when it is your absolute duty to help people (I mean they are your family) but where their shrill-voiced need for help will make it impossible for you to do so from too close by. If you are already pulling as much 'weight' as you can handle it's not fair for you to stay around being terrorised into putting your back out pulling more. I've never really been in such a situation, but friends have. It's not pretty. Yeah, move out. Scope out your old hood to see if anyone might be looking for a housemate.

Also, I dunno how useful this is, but if you keep giving money to your sister and that never actually helps, maybe you should assess how it's being spent and how you could make sure in the future it gets spent better.
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No, actually I give money and such to my parents and just do a crap tons of favors for my sister. I've nothing against her or anything and I'd love to help, but she's a "daddy's girl" and those are tough to live with. I pretty much have no voice in the house and it's bothering me.
 
The only thing I'd hate about moving out is living alone, and all my chums around here are either married or have a gf living with them and I'd feel awkward asking to move in with them tbh. Still thinking about contacting buddies from my old hood as Sulk suggested though.

No matter how much my family irritates me, at least they're there to fill that void, but things have been so ludicrously insane around here lately I'm beginning to wonder why I'm exposing myself to this mental torture.
 
Maybe you should find more stuff to do elsewhere, out of the house. That's how you meet the ladies too. If it's the place you like chances are you'll find ladies that like similar things too.
 
go to a bar and bring a bitch home, works almost every time when your down on your luck
 
Man, i've been going through the same stuff. Lets be roomies. :D
 
You've been here since august, have made two replies, one of them being a smartass remark.

You, sir, disappoint me.
 
i moved out a while ago but i'm currently having some girlfriend problems so i'm at home for the moment. it has it's benefits but it makes you feel like a freeloader.
 
I feel that this is as good a time as any to mention that my parents live in the cellar of their house, whilst I am living in another country.
 
Saturos said:
25, and yes it's embarrassing. I need to get the f**k out


That requires money to invest, just like any brick and mortar business. I have a few hundred put away, but being stuck here and paying for other shit has slowed me down alot.
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I'm 24 and still living with my Parents but I am currently looking for places to stay. The only embarresing aspect is when your on a date and your expected to say something about where you live, either that lie about your own age -6 years

Other than that my friends know and get along with my parents so its not much of a problem.
 
Move out. It's not that hard. Living alone would be nice I think, you can have a whole room dedicated to dragons/dragonshirts!
 
I am moving out in September of next year cause I plan to go to Uni! Whoo. I know it's not proper moving out but my family drive me mad so a break will be much needed.
 
As soon as you move out you'll wonder how you ever lived with them in the first place. If you don't want to live alone, find some strangers to share a house with. That's how most single people in the UK live until they're practically 30 because property is prohibitively expensive.

I lived on my own for a year and it wasn't that great really, especially as it was in a sleepy little village 10 miles away from even a shop. So I went looking for a houseshare, and now I live with three cool people and made loads of friends through them. It's definitely a good option if you're moving somewhere new, you'll meet loads of people so long as you choose wisely who you live with.
 
Howard Campbell said:
I complain on internet forums about living with my family
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repiV said:
As soon as you move out you'll wonder how you ever lived with them in the first place. If you don't want to live alone, find some strangers to share a house with. That's how most single people in the UK live until they're practically 30 because property is prohibitively expensive.

I lived on my own for a year and it wasn't that great really, especially as it was in a sleepy little village 10 miles away from even a shop. So I went looking for a houseshare, and now I live with three cool people and made loads of friends through them. It's definitely a good option if you're moving somewhere new, you'll meet loads of people so long as you choose wisely who you live with.
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Moving in with strange people over here is dangerous. Americans aren't bunch of cheery blokes like in the UK.
 
Buy sound cancelling headphones and a bunch of My Chemical Romance albums.

****.
 
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