Abortion.

[MiccyNarc]

Oh yeah, kill the baby because it's inconvenient, what a GREAT plan.
If you absolutely can't care for the baby, there's thousands of people who can't have kids of their own out there looking for a baby to adopt.
My half-sister and her husband were two of them.

So yeah, today I, I mean we, will find out if my girlfriend is pregnant or not. So yeah, yay I am scared shitless because neither of us can afford of raising a kid or give him/her a good atmosphere of growing up (college student duh!). Ah I am going to hell...

Good luck man, I wish you the best.

 

[MiccyNarc]

no but seriously abortion is the best thing if neither of you can take care of it..

I just want you to explain to me why it's a better option than adoption

 

[Zerimski]

Good luck.

Whatever happens, you'll make the right decision.

 

[The Monkey]

I just want you to explain to me why it's a better option than adoption

Beacouse then the mother don't have to carry the baby for nine months.

 

[Dr. Freeman]

I just want you to explain to me why it's a better option than adoption

well i did not say it...but hey, if i was a child given up for adopotion...i dunno later on when im older.. for some reason i would feel pathetic.. or something to that affect thinking that i wasn't good enough for my parents or some such.

and im sure adopoted kids (when they are older) go through something like this at some point.. and yes its not the kid's fault but the kid still feels bad right?

okay it still may not justify abortion but just telling u my side.. i'd feel very wanted.

oh and hey, time to change the name to Papa Reak? :E j/k!!

 

[MiccyNarc]

Beacouse then the mother don't have to carry the baby for nine months.

Why would you choose one person's life over the comfort of another?

and im sure adopoted kids (when they are older) go through something like this at some point.. and yes its not the kid's fault but the kid still feels bad right?

But they'll get over it, and at least they'll be alive, instead of flushed down a sink in a clinic.
EDIT: And food for thought:
Abortions can phsycologically damage the mother.

 

[CptStern]

guys, please no one here has any right to decide whether anyone should have an abortion or not ..until you have to decide yourself you really cant grasp the enormity of the issue. He'll do what is best for everyone involved

 

[MiccyNarc]

guys, please no one here has any right to decide whether anyone should have an abortion or not ..until you have to decide yourself you really cant grasp the enormity of the issue. He'll do what is best for everyone involved

Sorry, I'm just sick of the people saying "kill it".

Pisses me off.

 

[CptStern]

ya but that's for the couple to decide ..trust me, no one here would make that big of a decision based on what someone wrote ...at least I hope not

 

[Zerimski]

guys, please no one here has any right to decide whether anyone should have an abortion or not ..until you have to decide yourself you really cant grasp the enormity of the issue. He'll do what is best for everyone involved

If we had reputation enabled on this board, you'd now have the highest possible rating. It's posts like that which restore my faith in forums.

Thank you.

 

[Gray Fox]

Sorry, I'm just sick of the people saying "kill it".

Pisses me off.

It's not alive yet, it's just a fetus, It has no feelings no consious, no personality,to me killing of a rat is far more disturbing than an abortion or a cat or dog or any farm animal that is slaughter for our food, killing something that is allredy breething, can feel pain, thinks is far more disturbing, but tell me MiccyNarc are you a vegetarion.

 

[CptStern]

If we had reputation enabled on this board, you'd now have the highest possible rating. It's posts like that which restore my faith in forums.

Thank you.

heh, no, thank you ...I'd suspect my reputation would fluctuate wildly, especially if the politics forum accounted for anything :E

 

[Ikerous]

It's not alive yet, it's just a fetus, It has no feelings no consious, no personality,to me killing of a rat is far more disturbing than an abortion or a cat or dog or any farm animal that is slaughter for our food, killing something that is allredy breething, can feel pain, thinks is far more disturbing, but tell me MiccyNarc are you a vegetarion.

Thats a pretty interesting view on the subject...

 

[MiccyNarc]

It's not alive yet, it's just a fetus

That's what many want to believe.

It has no feelings no consious, no personality

Baby's Development
Baby is approx. 5.5cm/2.5" weighing less than 1 ounce.*
The baby is fully formed:

*
All the vital organs are present.
*
The teeth are developing in the gums.
*
The baby's sex organs are well developed.
*
Even the soft nails have formed.

That's at 12 weeks. You're saying that it's less than human?
What about partial birth abortion, do you think that's less disturbing than killing a cat?

but tell me MiccyNarc are you a vegetarion.

No, I hate 90% of fruits and vegetables. Bread and meat for me.
Maybe an occasional carrot. Corn is good.

I think there's the difference between killing an animal and murdering a child.

 

[CptStern]

alright guys this is not appropriate ...do you think someone who's struggling to make a choice about his fututre wants to hear what you guys think about the morality of abortion? give the guy a break and take this to the politics forum

 

[MiccyNarc]

alright guys this is not appropriate ...do you think someone who's struggling to make a choice about his fututre wants to hear what you guys think about the morality of abortion? give the guy a break and take this to the politics forum

Gladly. I'd appreciate it if a mod split the topic.

 

[KoreBolteR]

well how can we discuss on this, its totally up too the couple to decide. But if it was me, id keep the baby. NO abortion, NO adoption.
but i want a child when im 25-30 tbh.
what age do you all want a child?/what age was you when you hada child?. :O

 

[Gray Fox]

First I'm sorry to go of topic
Secondly, to anwser korebolter's question, at age 30/35.

 

[firemachine69]

It's not alive yet, it's just a fetus, It has no feelings no consious, no personality,to me killing of a rat is far more disturbing than an abortion or a cat or dog or any farm animal that is slaughter for our food, killing something that is allredy breething, can feel pain, thinks is far more disturbing, but tell me MiccyNarc are you a vegetarion.

I love the hypocracy of so many here.

It's ok to kill a breathing, feeling, emotional animal for food.

It's ok to crack a couple eggs in the morning over the range for breakfast.

But it's not ok to get rid of an egg in a person.

OOOOOOOOOKAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY...

well how can we discuss on this, its totally up too the couple to decide. But if it was me, id keep the baby. NO abortion, NO adoption.
but i want a child when im 25-30 tbh.
what age do you all want a child?/what age was you when you hada child?. :O

I'm actually extremely mature for my age when need be.

It's just I don't want to be a parent yet.

Alot of that comes from stemming from a broken-off 2 year relationship. Many broken plans for the future, they be.

But one thing's for sure, I do want children later on in life.

 

[el Chi]

guys, please no one here has any right to decide whether anyone should have an abortion or not ..until you have to decide yourself you really cant grasp the enormity of the issue. He'll do what is best for everyone involved

Bravo, Stern.
One thing I would like to say in defense of abortion (not that this is my only reason for defending abortion, but just go with it) is this: It's going to happen, this is simply a fact. However, which is a better option - an enduced termination in a sterilised medical environment carried out by professionals, or some random person asking for lots of money to do horrible things with a knitting needle or coat hanger in unsanitary conditions and thus endangering the mother's life.

 

[The Monkey]

Why aren't all the posts in the thread moved?

 

[MiccyNarc]

But it's not ok to get rid of an egg in a person.

It is NOT an egg.
It's a growing, developing human being. The egg state = prior to fertilization.

 

[Absinthe]

I'm going to open a seedy restaurant in an alley somewhere. Pregnant women walk in. Baby Baguettes come out.