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sorry for the other Thread i made, called Thread. something weird happened

anyway, here's an odd question. it's totally attention-whoreistic so and having to do with girls so... leave if you must now

i don't know if this girl is attracted to me or not. everytime she passes through my window i wait for her and i know she knows i'm there, waiting for her. i know i'm attracted to her. and i really want to find out what she's like. but give me some advice. tomorrow is maybe my last chance i could get to know her. i have church tomorrow... meaning that i'm gonna go with a suit and elegant and shiz. so that could be a plus. and a minus, because my mates are going to be there. i said it's a chance because before we go IN the church we have to wait a while outside, girls and boys combined.

anyway my plan is to get there real early to.. .get ready. so i'm gonna be there, waiting. by the time she arrives a lot of people might've already shown up. when i see her, i'm gonna go up to her and say... something.. but what?

hey
-uh... hi
yeah
-...

so it's going to be reeeally awkward if i just show up and speak, unless i choose really wise and honest words (help me out:D) i know i can't wait anymore or postpone this because she'll probably lose interest...
 
Tell her what do you feel when you see her. Something like "Everyday I see you through my window and at this moment, I can't think of anything except being with you"

I am too good for this.
 
what's that?

anti, i feel that way, but it would just be... strange.
 
Can you be more specific on the window situation? Does she fly through the window or simply pass through it?
 
she jumps.

jk

well, at school, the girls' building is away, and all the girls pass through our building's window when the girls need to go to lab class, because the girls don't have lab classroom in their building, but we do.

it's nothing really significant though...
 
Treat her as you would an acquaintance. Ignore the fact that she is a girl, and imagine that you want to become friends with her, just as if she were a typical guy-friend. That is, you want to be friends for the sake of hanging out, doing interesting things together, and in general, having somebody you can depend on. In this case, that person just happens to be of the opposite sex.

Don't try to overthink things. Start things off simple. Don't even think of the word "relationship". Just think of "friend". Get to know each other. This way, you will know if you feel more comfortable about wanting to progress the relationship into a more romantic one. That's all there is to it.

A fierce generalization, but a very positive, and effective way to look at early attraction.
 
i agree with seeky, try to get to know her first before you go up and say i LOVE YOU !!
 
Give her a $20 ;)

It depends a lot on the people involved, yourself included. I've found treating them mostly like anyone else usually works pretty well, but some girls want more attention, some want...something...else. Yeha.

Just make sure you do it. I know from experience that it's easy to plan and plan and plan, and then not do it. And you regret it a long time after. Very long.
 
:thumbs: Tell her that you seem to notice her passing by your class all the time. Mention that you like her sparkling hair, the smell of the Herbal Essences is quite strong and is invigorating. Her eyes reminds you of something majestic; it's like looking at the stars in the countryside night. Tell her that her voice captures your ears like a soothing melody tune of yer favorite song. Tell her that you're looking forward to see her in the future, as a friend, but something more than just a friend.
 
ailevation said:
:thumbs: Tell her that you seem to notice her passing by your class all the time. Mention that you like her sparkling hair, the smell of the Herbal Essences is quite strong and is invigorating. Her eyes reminds you of something majestic; it's like looking at the stars in the countryside night. Tell her that her voice captures your ears like a soothing melody tune of yer favorite song. Tell her that you're looking forward to see her in the future, as a friend, but something more than just a friend.
then wake up and just try to hang out with her more often.
 
Be a man. Rape is the only real option.
 
The Dark Elf said:
wow and your the one who cried when someone mentioned baseball bats..

They told me your son squealed like a girl when they nailed him to the cross...and your wife moaned like a whore when they ravaged her again... and again... and again :devil:
 
Bad^Hat said:
They told me your son squealed like a girl when they nailed him to the cross...and your wife moaned like a whore when they ravaged her again... and again... and again :devil:


I wouldn't insult the General like that...
 
So you havent talked to her before? Do so then. Think up of an excuse to do so if your nervous. If not just go out and tell her you like meeting new people or whatever
 
this is guaranteed to work. buy her a green thong. gets em every time
 
Thread said:
sorry for the other Thread i made, called Thread. something weird happened

anyway, here's an odd question. it's totally attention-whoreistic so and having to do with girls so... leave if you must now

i don't know if this girl is attracted to me or not. everytime she passes through my window i wait for her and i know she knows i'm there, waiting for her. i know i'm attracted to her. and i really want to find out what she's like. but give me some advice. tomorrow is maybe my last chance i could get to know her. i have church tomorrow... meaning that i'm gonna go with a suit and elegant and shiz. so that could be a plus. and a minus, because my mates are going to be there. i said it's a chance because before we go IN the church we have to wait a while outside, girls and boys combined.




anyway my plan is to get there real early to.. .get ready. so i'm gonna be there, waiting. by the time she arrives a lot of people might've already shown up. when i see her, i'm gonna go up to her and say... something.. but what?

hey
-uh... hi
yeah
-...

so it's going to be reeeally awkward if i just show up and speak, unless i choose really wise and honest words (help me out:D) i know i can't wait anymore or postpone this because she'll probably lose interest...

say, "hey pretty lady, how bout dinner and a movie sometime"?
 
Just go up to her and say something along the lines of "hi, sorry to disturb you, but i see you walk by every day, and i cant help but thinking that i'll be missing out if i dont come and speak to you". Then use your quick wits and natural charms, and you'll be elbow deep in her in no time :P
 
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