Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all
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Better to love and lost.
That way, you'll be prepared next time you're ****in' dumped. You'll learn a lot more about yourself and you'll be a better person. And you'll date someone nicer and better, if you know what you're doing yet. And all the memories and all that crap-- after a while they stop making you feel like shit and they start making you happy again.
Course when the only reason the bitch talks to you any more is to get a ride somewhere, then you get pissed and want to tell her to **** herself. And her dirty sniveling cheating bastard boyfriend who looks as if he was beaten with some ugly-ass metal rod every day and night for 10 years is constantly around her when you want to see her. And you just can't beat the shit out of him, because then she will treat you even more like shit. And for some reason, deep down inside, you still care for her even though she is a completely different person than the person you dated for close to two years.
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*ahem* Yes, better to have loved and lost.
That way, you'll be prepared next time you're ****in' dumped. You'll learn a lot more about yourself and you'll be a better person. And you'll date someone nicer and better, if you know what you're doing yet. And all the memories and all that crap-- after a while they stop making you feel like shit and they start making you happy again.
Course when the only reason the bitch talks to you any more is to get a ride somewhere, then you get pissed and want to tell her to **** herself. And her dirty sniveling cheating bastard boyfriend who looks as if he was beaten with some ugly-ass metal rod every day and night for 10 years is constantly around her when you want to see her. And you just can't beat the shit out of him, because then she will treat you even more like shit. And for some reason, deep down inside, you still care for her even though she is a completely different person than the person you dated for close to two years.
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*ahem* Yes, better to have loved and lost.
Its very true...
Even though after my divorce... it took me 2 years to partially recuperate, it has totally defeated every sense of myself, every fiber of my being was distraught... but slowly but surely, i will get back up.
And yes, i have fond memories which bring a tear to my eye, and i know what true love is all about, so i did gain a lot through all of this hardship... And just FYI, my ex is still one of my best friends, has been and always will be.
Even though after my divorce... it took me 2 years to partially recuperate, it has totally defeated every sense of myself, every fiber of my being was distraught... but slowly but surely, i will get back up.
And yes, i have fond memories which bring a tear to my eye, and i know what true love is all about, so i did gain a lot through all of this hardship... And just FYI, my ex is still one of my best friends, has been and always will be.
Loved and lost and never love again
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Loved and lost and love again
Because I'm confused by the replies. If its the second one then loved and lost by far, but for the first I think ignorance is bliss. But that might be because I'm still pretty bitter and can't get over her. Any tips?
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Loved and lost and love again
Because I'm confused by the replies. If its the second one then loved and lost by far, but for the first I think ignorance is bliss. But that might be because I'm still pretty bitter and can't get over her. Any tips?
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Pesmerga said:
infatuation ...real love is something deeper ...it can probably occur but I dont see how it can mature beyond the infatuation stage when the love is one sided
btw the baby in your avatar ..yours? he's extremely cute
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The ability to write a poem on a blank page with the blood that leaks out of the wound your lover has given you is one of great significance.
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I'm in love... hope it isn't lost.
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Absinthe said:
I love myself, if that counts :smoking:
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SimonomiS said:
Im kinda getting back with him, I cant help it. Loves love.
My sister said nothing tops your first love, you never get that feeling again. So I shall pester and persue to keep that feeling.
Its an amazing feeling isnt it.
azz0r said:
It is. Or was. I don't think it was love, not true love anyway, or else I wouldn't have ****ed it up, but its the strongest infatuation I've ever felt. And it hurts when we're mates now and she tells me about someone else she likes now, as if to rub it in that she's over me and I'm not over her...
BF2slut said:
*BF2slut goes and finds a good porno sight...*
But seriously, if you didn't love in the first place, you wouldn't know what it was, or what you were missing, and would be perfectly happy. And love leads to attachment, which leads to jealousy. And the shadow of greed, that is. :sniper:
Erestheux said:Better to love and lost.
That way, you'll be prepared next time you're ****in' dumped. You'll learn a lot more about yourself and you'll be a better person. And you'll date someone nicer and better, if you know what you're doing yet. And all the memories and all that crap-- after a while they stop making you feel like shit and they start making you happy again.
Course when the only reason the bitch talks to you any more is to get a ride somewhere, then you get pissed and want to tell her to **** herself. And her dirty sniveling cheating bastard boyfriend who looks as if he was beaten with some ugly-ass metal rod every day and night for 10 years is constantly around her when you want to see her. And you just can't beat the shit out of him, because then she will treat you even more like shit. And for some reason, deep down inside, you still care for her even though she is a completely different person than the person you dated for close to two years.
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*ahem* Yes, better to have loved and lost.
Love, not infatuation.
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Hey asshole, so you know everything about me then? No, I'm sorry, you don't know the f*cking slightest thing about me. I know what f*cking love is, and I had it, and I have it again. It wasn't an infatuation, it was love, but people change. So you can seriously go f*ck yourself, okay?Teh_Poet said:
You see, I didn't even touch on the fact that I did indeed love her more than anything, and she loved me, for two years before she just turned into someone completely different. How about you know what you're talking about next time you post, mmkay?
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Teh_Poet said:
I've loved and lost, and I agree.
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Im going out with a girl atm, don't know if i love her or not, i like her a lot but... who knows. Thing is i've just had to get over a girl i really really liked (not sure if loved) as she now is with my really good mate, surprisingly im cool with them together, no grudges or nuffin. Don't know if there is any point in this post just sharing my current situation which is is don't know if i love my girlfriend or not, though it may be that im unwilling to commit myself to loving her and possibly having my heart broken or breaking her heart.
Just hope that doesn't sound to emo... meh doesn't really matter if it does or not i 'spose
Just hope that doesn't sound to emo... meh doesn't really matter if it does or not i 'spose
