Hate my life

[RTFMy]

Yes I do. Let me explain why.

First thing that comes to mind is a girl, a girl that I deeply have feelings for. She has flirted with me alot lately, I've made every possible sign and remark that I have these feelings for her, either she hasn't picked up on them or she just doesn't care. Before I go any further this girl is very attractive and has been dating someone thats not even "her type" this guy is one of my best friends to. They don't talk about much, and her boyfriend doesn't even seem to care or take advantage of benefits of having such a beautiful girlfriend. I don't understand it, this girl decides to date somebody that hardley pays any attention to her but in the end he still gets her goods (you know what I mean). Why pick an asshole over somebody that cares for you?

If that wasn't enough on my mind (which it is 50% of the time) I also have to deal with forty minutes of nothing but running twice a week (part of a class I decided to take) yes I think the benefits are quite great, but the problem is i'm with people who are about six months ahead of me, which bugs me alot. My teachers seem to hate me for no reason, I'm nothing but nice since I came to this school (fresh start is great) always saying "please" and "thankyou" doing my best to keep a good attitude when I'm talking to them, and I'm always doing more than I should on my work. You would think this would get me pretty far with them right? Wrong, they treat me like shit, and for what?

Now the last the last piece. Not to long ago I used to love working with my hobbies, checking out women, lifting weights, running, walking my dog, messing around on the computer, and just playing games. About a month ago this stopped, now I hate everything I used to love. I can't find anything that I like to do, and when it seems like I'm enjoying something I just start to think about things like where will this get me in life? I hate everything now.. Woman, games, tv, sports, and my life.

All I can ask is why am I being treated like this? Why am I the nice to woman and I get nothing, why am I so nice to teachers and get shit in return, why does society suck, and why does my life suck?

 

[Orcone101]

You're passive, don't be.
If you're getting shit from teachers, challenge them, you may think it makes them hate you more, but they respect you. Believe me, I know.

Tell this girl you think she should be treated better. But I doubt you know the full story between those 2. Be careful, it could seem like you are intruding.

Hobbies come and go, find a new one or get a new perspective on your old ones. Instead of overclocking, try making your computer look cool. Instead of running, why not ride a bike?

 

[Neutrino]

why does society suck, and why does my life suck?

This is somewhat of a generlization, but I think it's part of being a teen. A lot of people go through a time when things change, they question things, and it's often hard to deal with. It will work itself out eventually though.

In the meantime, perhaps try talking with your parents or a close friend about it. Just discussing what your feeling and/or going through can be theraputic.

 

[RTFMy]

Tell this girl you think she should be treated better. But I doubt you know the full story between those 2. Be careful, it could seem like you are intruding.

She treats me great, we talk alot.
I just think I actually have feelings for her and my friend doesn't which my friend tends to prove alot. What makes this even harder is she doesn't live but 100feet from me.

Edit : misread what you said, I do not know the full story between them, so I really wouldn't know what to say.

 

[kingthebadger]

you aint the only one pal, both my brothers are now in same prison

one got sent down earlier on today.

my dad gives me shit, sometimes the teachers pick on me, but thats now al sorted, i love doing weight lifting, but i have no money

and when i play games, i get crap from my dad, calling me stupid etc...

 

[RTFMy]

you aint the only one pal, both my brothers are now in same prison

one got sent down earlier on today.

my dad gives me shit, sometimes the teachers pick on me, but thats now al sorted, i love doing weight lifting, but i have no money

and when i play games, i get crap from my dad, calling me stupid etc...

Sorry to hear about that, just another example of life being a bitch.

 

[kingthebadger]

yea dude, trust me, ive been thru more shit than that, pretty much shit all my life, i try to entertain myself by playing games when im wee bit happy lol

 

[Cons Himself]

mate, dont worry about teachers, just give em shit back.

and as for women at the end of the day, all women want dick. they just dont want to look like sluts asking for it . some women also like being treated like 'shit' up to a point, if you are always running after a woman like a soppy puppy of course she wont be interested. tease the girl, take the piss out of her a bit, joke around, and if shes that kind of girl make norty comments too

for most girls, the thing to do is act like an asshole to get em, then if theyre worth it, open up to them and get close trust me

 

[Alan Freeman]

I dont know what to say, i am in the same boat with you .my dad doesnt like me playing games, hes saomtimes says im gonna go to hell for that,but my moms ok with it . My bro wants money from me , my sister owes me money that she borrowed $2,000 for her car payments and rent and stuff like that. and im the little brother of the family(23). God doesnt give us more than we can handle. Just take it one day at a time.


I like to play games that keeps me happy so i buy the BEST hardware that i can afford. if you like what you do get the best.

 

[DiSTuRbEd]

Why am I the nice to woman and I get nothing

All I can say is join he club...I'd like to know too...

 

[RTFMy]

tease the girl, take the piss out of her a bit, joke around, and if shes that kind of girl make norty comments too

Thats what I've been doing, I was even hitting on her infront of her boyfriend and I heard nothing but giggles from her.
I don't think I could really be an asshole to someone I like so much. I don't think it would get me very far either.

 

[kingthebadger]

everyone has a different personality...

 

[DiSTuRbEd]

I don't think I could really be an asshole to someone I like so much.

Ahhh yes, neither could I to the girl I liked, but her boyfriend was a big enough asshole though.....

Yes lets dump her because I am over her and go for another girl, oh that new girl won't put out, must go back to other girl, oh she will even take me back, how lovely, now I can get more action!

I am sick of the kid, half tempted to Gabe-smash him. :flame:

 

[RTFMy]

Ahhh yes, neither could I to the girl I liked, but her boyfriend was a big enough asshole though.....

Yes lets dump her because I am over her and go for another girl, oh that new girl won't put out, must go back to other girl, oh she will even take me back, how lovely, now I can get more action!

I am sick of the kid, half tempted to Gabe-smash him. :flame:

I see stuff like that all the time at my school, some relationships are lucky to make it past a week and most are based on nothing.

 

[DiSTuRbEd]

I see stuff like that all the time at my school, some relationships are lucky to make it past a week and most are based on nothing.

Thing is this is when "we" are supposedly able to make adult decisions at our age (18) for me and her boyfriend(pretty sure hes 18) But hes still in little child mode...I should be an asshole, maybe I will get a girl, who knows...I know me being nice hasn't gotten me shit, accept the shit end of the stick, I love it so much.

 

[Dr. Freeman]

this is mainly just a generalization but i think society in general over the past 20 years has gone down the crapper honestly.
the value of a good friend, honesty and the mindset of "pulling through" i feel has deteriorated over the years.. and this has affected the boy meets girl type relationships the most IMHO.

now what makes a guy cool is ignorance, the occassional abuse (verbal or pyhsical) and just that general bad boy image... it saddens me really.. i wasn't brought up that way.

i know quite a few girls who admit to liking the bad boys and sticking with them even through whatever rough times they go through :|

 

[RTFMy]

Thing is this is when "we" are supposedly able to make adult decisions at our age (18) for me and her boyfriend(pretty sure hes 18) But hes still in little child mode...I should be an asshole, maybe I will get a girl, who knows...I know me being nice hasn't gotten me shit, accept the shit end of the stick, I love it so much.

You would probaly get a girl, but a decent girl? Who knows.
Being nice hasn't got me much either, it always seems like the royal assholes get everything they want and then some.

 

[nicknitro]

nice guys finish last lol

 

[RTFMy]

this is mainly just a generalization but i think society in general over the past 20 years has gone down the crapper honestly.
the value of a good friend, honesty and the mindset of "pulling through" i feel has deteriorated over the years.. and this has affected the boy meets girl type relationships the most IMHO.

now what makes a guy cool is ignorance, the occassional abuse (verbal or pyhsical) and just that general bad boy image... it saddens me really.. i wasn't brought up that way.

i know quite a few girls who admit to liking the bad boys and sticking with them even through whatever rough times they go through :|

I completely agree, and what makes it even worse is that there is nothing you can do about it.
I dread what society will be like in the next 20 years, probaly much worse.

 

[Cons Himself]

god you guys sound like old men.

what, you think there wasnt crime 50 years ago. people didnt swear? people didnt kill each other in the, ooo, millions?

no one is talking bad boy or beating up women here. just playing it cool and aloof and confident will get you places with women. its a genetic thing - alpha males and that

 

[DiSTuRbEd]

And that has gotten me to where???? Oh yeah, still no where.

 

[Cons Himself]

i dont know. im not your personal relationship counsellor. maybe youre doing it wrong. maybe youre out of your league. and you cant pretend - women will sense that, you have to really believe in your own abilities

 

[Dr. Freeman]

god you guys sound like old men.

what, you think there wasnt crime 50 years ago. people didnt swear? people didnt kill each other in the, ooo, millions?

no one is talking bad boy or beating up women here. just playing it cool and aloof and confident will get you places with women. its a genetic thing - alpha males and that

well then, thats how it might be where u live...but the girls i have talked to are dating guys who get into trouble, ignore the girlfriends and in some cases use verbal or pyhsical abuse... why these girls put up with something like that.. well i don't know.. but thats what i see these days.

edit: btw just for the record, i am not 50 years old but just cause i choose to respect a woman doesn't neccessarily mean i am not boyfriend material.

 

[RTFMy]

I'm usually "on the ball" when talking with attractive woman, but that doesn't mean I got in their pants or was asked to dinner.
This just reminds me of an article "Nice guys finish last" it seems that it has always been like that and it always will be. Which is something I will never understand.

 

[Lemonking]

you aint the only one pal, both my brothers are now in same prison

one got sent down earlier on today.

my dad gives me shit, sometimes the teachers pick on me, but thats now al sorted, i love doing weight lifting, but i have no money

and when i play games, i get crap from my dad, calling me stupid etc...

some times I think ur Hardcore Gangsta or something

 

[Cons Himself]

well then Dr. Freeman, obviously these girls you have been observing are trailer trash idiots.

wait until you go to university to at least meet women with some modicum of intelligence....

and as for the 50 yr old comment, i was referring to the guy saying how society has got sooo much worse and will continue to get sooo much worse. heard it all before....

oh and just because i have a gameplan for getting women, doesnt mean i dont respect the good ones. like my current GF of 3 years. dont assume so much.

 

[RTFMy]

well then Dr. Freeman, obviously these girls you have been observing are trailer trash idiots.

wait until you go to university to at least meet women with some modicum of intelligence....

and as for the 50 yr old comment, i was referring to the guy saying how society has got sooo much worse and will continue to get sooo much worse. heard it all before....

oh and just because i have a gameplan for getting women, doesnt mean i dont respect the good ones. like my current GF of 3 years. dont assume so much.

I really don't think the difference in woman between highschool and college would be so different.
This is a person I really have feelings for, and it feels shes out of reach..

 

[Ikerous]

Not to be particularly off topic
But what does the y in your name mean?

 

[Danimal]

this is mainly just a generalization but i think society in general over the past 20 years has gone down the crapper honestly.
the value of a good friend, honesty and the mindset of "pulling through" i feel has deteriorated over the years.. and this has affected the boy meets girl type relationships the most IMHO.

now what makes a guy cool is ignorance, the occassional abuse (verbal or pyhsical) and just that general bad boy image... it saddens me really.. i wasn't brought up that way.

i know quite a few girls who admit to liking the bad boys and sticking with them even through whatever rough times they go through :|

I agree with you 100%

To be 'cool' now you have to smoke and and do underage drinking, it is rather sad. Whatever happened to the old days when people were treated with respect for accomplishing something other than smoking weed or hurling eggs/rocks/dead animals at cars...


****en media...

 

[Ikerous]

I agree with you 100%

To be 'cool' now you have to smoke and and do underage drinking, it is rather sad. Whatever happened to the old days when people were treated with respect for accomplishing something other than smoking weed or hurling eggs/rocks/dead animals at cars...


****en media...

Whats wrong with smoking weed or drinking :-/
Relatively harmless passtimes...
Definitely dont go in the same category as vandalism

 

[Vegeta897]

God I hate it all.

 

[Dr. Freeman]

Whats wrong with smoking weed or drinking :-/
Relatively harmless passtimes...
Definitely dont go in the same category as vandalism

hey, drinking, smoking and drugs are part of that "cool" image nowadays.
if u aren't doing these things...suddenly ur not with the "in-crowd"

i don't smoke, i don't drink and i have never tried any drugs unless i was prescribed by my doc and guess what? i am not popular amoung my peers... i will give u pple a wild guess as to which pple are the cool and popular ones :|

 

[alco]

It seems kinda ridiculous when people complain about their life, if you've actually seen unimaginably poor living conditions in other parts of the world.

 

[Incitatus]

Yes I do. Let me explain why.

First thing that comes to mind is a girl, a girl that I deeply have feelings for. She has flirted with me alot lately, I've made every possible sign and remark that I have these feelings for her, either she hasn't picked up on them or she just doesn't care. Before I go any further this girl is very attractive and has been dating someone thats not even "her type" this guy is one of my best friends to. They don't talk about much, and her boyfriend doesn't even seem to care or take advantage of benefits of having such a beautiful girlfriend. I don't understand it, this girl decides to date somebody that hardley pays any attention to her but in the end he still gets her goods (you know what I mean). Why pick an asshole over somebody that cares for you?

If that wasn't enough on my mind (which it is 50% of the time) I also have to deal with forty minutes of nothing but running twice a week (part of a class I decided to take) yes I think the benefits are quite great, but the problem is i'm with people who are about six months ahead of me, which bugs me alot. My teachers seem to hate me for no reason, I'm nothing but nice since I came to this school (fresh start is great) always saying "please" and "thankyou" doing my best to keep a good attitude when I'm talking to them, and I'm always doing more than I should on my work. You would think this would get me pretty far with them right? Wrong, they treat me like shit, and for what?

Now the last the last piece. Not to long ago I used to love working with my hobbies, checking out women, lifting weights, running, walking my dog, messing around on the computer, and just playing games. About a month ago this stopped, now I hate everything I used to love. I can't find anything that I like to do, and when it seems like I'm enjoying something I just start to think about things like where will this get me in life? I hate everything now.. Woman, games, tv, sports, and my life.

All I can ask is why am I being treated like this? Why am I the nice to woman and I get nothing, why am I so nice to teachers and get shit in return, why does society suck, and why does my life suck?

What you seem to be going through sounds like pretty standard stuff, it passes. But it is important to have something you enjoy, something that you can totally loose yourself in, I'd recommend music.

as for your teachers, why give a **** what they think. As long as you're getting the marks you want at school, a teachers opinion of you is an insignificant spec of dust floating around in the cosmos that is one's life.


...ooh well said inci...

 

[poo poo head]

Cheer up buddy, trust.

I have gone through a crappy time too. I have been diagnosed with depression, i have girl trouble all the time, a lot of people in my family forget who i am (no joke) I got to a school i never wanted to go to (now i'm used to it), some people see me as odd because i do things differently and i'm always criticized for that. I've also had tons of family problems i can't mention.

But did it get me down, yeah, but i know that it seems like the world is against me when i'm going through stress. I remember one time someone asked me its amazing that i haven't commited suicide yet, but i tell them why woud i? Because i know at some point my life will get better.

 

[DoctorGordon]

Stop the mindless pursuit of females, theres alot more to life. That'll solve alot of your problems.

Cheer up buddy, trust.

I have gone through a crappy time too. I have been diagnosed with depression, i have girl trouble all the time, a lot of people in my family forget who i am (no joke) I got to a school i never wanted to go to (now i'm used to it), some people see me as odd because i do things differently and i'm always criticized for that. I've also had tons of family problems i can't mention.

But did it get me down, yeah, but i know that it seems like the world is against me when i'm going through stress. I remember one time someone asked me its amazing that i haven't commited suicide yet, but i tell them why woud i? Because i know at some point my life will get better.

What if it doesnt?

Your reason should be:

"No point in solving the problem if you also eliminate the need to solve it"

 

[Ikerous]

i will give u pple a wild guess as to which pple are the cool and popular ones :|

The people that arent conservative sticks in the muds?

 

[Dr. Freeman]

The people that arent conservative sticks in the muds?

ooh we have a wiseass here

It seems kinda ridiculous when people complain about their life, if you've actually seen unimaginably poor living conditions in other parts of the world.

well nobody in this thread was comparing problems they have vs what others are going through around the world.. that also doesn't mean that pple, while living a decent life (generally speaking) still can't be frustrated or annoyed at how things around them are changing..

 

[h00dlum]

Girls are stupid...well most of them are. They always fall for the assholes. I have asked my girlfriends and they agree. I remember when i was younger.
I was really cocky and kind of a hoodlum(the nick has stayed with me since that time). Back then i got a shitload of girls to fool around with. When i got older and got more mature and nice to people its a f-ing desert

 

[Dasparov]

ooh we have a wiseass here




well nobody in this thread was comparing problems they have vs what others are going through around the world.. that also doesn't mean that pple, while living a decent life (generally speaking) still can't be frustrated or annoyed at how things around them are changing..

Well in the first post he said something like "why does my life suck?".

My friend is a asshole to his GF, shes pretty hot, but he's pussywhipped, and completely different around different crowds, my brother liked a girl, while he was leaving with a binch of other people the girls started rating them, but the girl he liked didnt rate him...he thinks its his looks, rings me up and tells me he's gonna commit suicide. After he calms down goes back to his mates house ect, still thinks it must be his looks. What he dosen't realise is that he is pretty shy, and has a anger problem (would never hit a girl, but would shout) he never talks to this girl the way he thinks he does, ect..... anyway, you might think your flirting and that but in her categories your just having a light chat. Also saying things like "My life sucks" over that just seems desperate, you have a life, use it to the fullest :cheers: