Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend/wife?

[CptStern]

self-explanatory. Please leave out names, places, details that may get you hung

 

[Lemonking]

self-explanatory. Please leave out names, places, details that may get you hung

no never. but my ex girlfriends did..... ;(

 

[CptStern]

sorry to hear that

 

[KoreBolteR]

u gonna confess something stern

 

[Hectic Glenn]

yeah stern put 'quite a few times' im pretty sure.

 

[CptStern]

no, heh I'm quite open actually


I've cheated on every girlfriend I've had except my wife ...but then again none of my previous girlfriends were all that serious ..and it was almost always at the end of the relationship ..and they knew ..so it's not really cheating

 

[ray_MAN]

I've never had a girlfriend. ;(

 

[CptStern]

holy! man so many of you voted you'd never cheat ..I guess that comes with youth ..personally I dont think people should be in committed serious relationships till they're in their late 20's early 30's ...but that's just me

 

[KoreBolteR]

if you get in a serious relationship at youth, you get bored and want to try diff things/diff women,,, lol.

mostly anyway.

 

[short recoil]

Never, ever............never even thought about it.

 

[KoreBolteR]

Never, ever............never even thought about it.

having a girlfriend?

 

[CptStern]

I just dont think young people should waste their time in serious relationships ...you're just discovering who you are, you're doing a dis-service to yourself by concentrating on someone else when you should be living your own life

 

[CptStern]

ok would someone who's cheated fess up so I dont look like the only cheater here!!! (lie if you have to) come on guys there has to be some of you that strayed a bit

 

[ray_MAN]

Cheating on your girlfriend is one thing. Cheating on your wife and kids is a whole different thing.

 

[CptStern]

Cheating on your girlfriend is one thing. Cheating on your wife and kids is a whole different thing.

I agree ..I have no respect for people who do that ..I never have and never would ..why bother getting married if you're going to do that


btw a friend of mine cheated on his wife-to-be on his stag night ...needless to say they're now divorced (ironically enough he caught her cheating)

 

[KoreBolteR]

stern, you didnt really cheat man... so you should have put "never"

 

[CptStern]

well there was a few occasions that were "iffy" on the morality scale ...I was young :E

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

Even...pleasing myself, when shes not there, feels like I'm cheating her...
So no, I never have and never will.

 

[baron insig]

i saved u stern, kinda

Basically i had jsut asked out this girl, we went out with all my mates, she was like completly Plank of wood with me, ended up getting it on with a mate and basically cold shouldering me.

i got pissed off, found the fittest lass in the group of ppl who came out found out she wanted me, got with her 30 to 40 minutes later * slap* only time ive ever cheated ona girl

Edit Yay 100th post!!

 

[CptStern]

thank you ...although I still look like a cheater ...little boys and girls point to me on the street screaming "CHEATER CHEATER!!"

 

[Hectic Glenn]

Believe me, all of those people who voted 'never cheated' if you knew me...that would be a different story

(oh and stern you especially *wink* *wink*)

 

[CptStern]

hmmmm ....I have a kid on the way ...so you keep your Bedroom eyes to yourself :naughty: :E

 

[el Chi]

self-explanatory. Please leave out names, places, details that may get you hung

Stern, I thought we were going to leave this to the hotel roo- I've said too much.

I was sort of "seeing" this girl fairly recently; I didn't consider us to be "going out" as such, and I certainly didn't think of us as exclusive. However, she did, I think.
Anyways, whilst we were "together" I pulled three other girls. She didn't find out, and it wasn't the biggest deal in the world, as far as I'm concerned; if she'd pulled someone else, I probably wouldn't have cared.
I didn't feel guilty, so this pretty much rang alarm bells in my head that we shouldn't carry on as an item. Two of those girls I'd liked more than her and for a lot longer than her. Not that that's an excuse as such, but some sort of an explanation.

If we'd been properly going out I would've felt guilty, I think. I sort of felt guilty that I was with her and not one of the other girls, which was a tad odd.

 

[Hectic Glenn]

awwww congrats! I'll leave you be then, but you call me if it goes sour

I'd say when i'm older i probably would cheat if the opportunity came along, even though now its against my morals. I just dont think i have that control sadly. ;(

 

[SimonomiS]

Im the only one whos cheated and regretted it?

 

[MuToiD_MaN]

1 1 14 1 1. Nice symmetry.

I don't think necessarily that I would cheat, but then again, I've never been presented with the opportunity so I don't know. So I went with the 4th to be safe.

 

[SimonomiS]

1 1 14 1 1. Nice symmetry.

I don't think necessarily that I would cheat, but then again, I've never been presented with the opportunity so I don't know. So I went with the 4th to be safe.

Kinda looks like a middle finger sideways...ish.

 

[KoreBolteR]

im not in a serious relationship atm.. i just want to have fun.. and why not, im only 17 ..lol

 

[CptStern]

Stern, I thought we were going to leave this to the hotel roo- I've said too much.

I was sort of "seeing" this girl fairly recently; I didn't consider us to be "going out" as such, and I certainly didn't think of us as exclusive. However, she did, I think.
Anyways, whilst we were "together" I pulled three other girls. She didn't find out, and it wasn't the biggest deal in the world, as far as I'm concerned; if she'd pulled someone else, I probably wouldn't have cared.
I didn't feel guilty, so this pretty much rang alarm bells in my head that we shouldn't carry on as an item. Two of those girls I'd liked more than her and for a lot longer than her. Not that that's an excuse as such, but some sort of an explanation.

If we'd been properly going out I would've felt guilty, I think. I sort of felt guilty that I was with her and not one of the other girls, which was a tad odd.

a few questions for you chi:

does "pulling" mean sleeping with?

and does "hotel room" mean you'll take up my offer? :naughty:

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

Pulling just means...pulling.

I don't think it necessarily leads to sex. Just getting someone to be interested in you. At least thats how I see it.

 

[CptStern]

ok now I'm even more confused ....do you physically pull the person ...is this what young people do now-a-days? when I was young all we did was get naked ...none of this pulling stuff :E

 

[Bad^Hat]

I cheated on someone over the phone with someone over the internet. True ****ing story.

 

[CptStern]

hmmmm sticky mouse and telephone ...your poor mom!

edit: I just realised how that sounded ...I meant your poor mom who has to clean things ....ummm I just better shut up

 

[Bad^Hat]

What's with this whole sticky mouse/keyboard myth? Don't people have any self-control?

 

[CptStern]

kleenex?

 

[xLostx]

I had 2 gf's at once, it was crazy lying to each one of them so much lol, i got caught twice, the first time was just funny and I lied my way out of it and the 2nd time I just said **** it and was like later girls. Too much work to go through again

 

[ComradeBadger]

I'm a slag.

 

[CptStern]

oh there you go with that brit-speak ...what the hell is a slag? ...slut?

 

[SimonomiS]

oh there you go with that brit-speak ...what the hell is a slag? ...slut?

Yes. Y'know people always say theres like "the one" out there for everyone? Well say you meet this "one" person, and you have something really really special. Then you **** up and cheat on her. What then? Eternal damnation?

 

[CptStern]

yes

the "one" is the one you'll never cheat on ...I could never cheat on my wife ...I just couldnt face her or my son