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So here's the deal. I live in a frat house, and one of my friends brought a girl over around graduation to hang out. I thought they were old friends just meeting again to catch up, so I talked to her a little, apparently too much for my friend's liking. I talked to him about it later, he told me to "do whatever" and I took him at his word. Added her on facebook and started chatting. The next day he got mad at me and started saying I'm a cockblock, that he didn't want me talking to her, and started bringing up other instances which I hadn't even known about. Anyway after that blow up, the next day he said it was all cool. She called me at work that night and we talked for an hour. The next day we talked again and decided to go to dinner. My friend found out and got really mad, basically told me I betrayed him and is now talking to everyone else in the house about what happened, telling them that I was taking "his girl" on a date, and got a couple guys mad at me too. I tried talking to him about it and he wouldn't talk to me. Instead he's been pulling stupid malicious pranks and is not talking to me (he's got a very passive aggressive personality).

Just wanted to rant and find out if anyone had been through this before, if you have let me know.

And on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being Gandhi, 10 being Hitler, how big of a douchebag am I?
 
If he said 'do whatever' that gives you free reign.

Make sure your friends know he told you this, so you don't get a bad rep.
 
Find a way to talk to him. He will mostly get over it within a couple weeks if you keep him as a friend.
 
douchebag factor of 5.9

you're still cutting his grass.
 
Bros before hoes. But your buddy is being a bit of a douche too, he should have just talk you straight up to back off. And if he was handling his business she wouldn't be all over you. But you should still drop it.
 
If you like her go for it. Your friend sounds like a jackass. If you asked him about it and he didn't have any objections then, it's his loss.
 
You "friend" should have been straight with you and told you back off if he is interested in the girl. Instead he is giving you mixed messages like a chick. His ****ing loss. Have at it man.
 
He doesn't sound like such a good friend tbh.
 
He sounds like a prat. I think he said 'do whatever' just to dig you into this hole a whole lot deeper.

If you like her, email him as such, and ask him why he said 'do whatever' and then suddenly got angry.

If he doesn't respond, **** it, have her.
 
He doesn't seem like much of a good friend. I think he's just doing this to be a dick. I've had people do this to me before, and it's pretty shit.
 
Look, bottom line is, she doesn't want to be with him, so that's tough shit. He will have to get over it.
 
but when she decides she no longer wants to be with MiccyNarc he'll be short one girlfriend and one friend
 
Frat houses are cool, I wish I lived in one. We don't have them over here in Ireland.
 
No Limit said:
Girls come and go; good friends don't. Even if he was a bit of a douche who sometimes isn't?
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True, however he doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. He could of been up front about it and asked him to stay away from her. Like CyberPitz said, I think this guy was just looking for an excuse to act like an asshole. Malicious pranks? WTF?
 
Yeah. It's also generally pretty clear though at the same time when I bring a girl over to our halls that she's for me like.

I dunno, I think Miccy Narc was probably wrong to hit on the girl like that. When a guy brings an attractive girl over clearly they're not just old friends. Guys don't have pretty female friends. They have girls they want to **** but haven't told the girl yet. So you should have first asked your buddy.

You didn't and your buddy got pissed off at you and himself because he couldn't get the girl but you did. Then he acted like a child and you should both apologise to each other and agree to be more honest with each other in future.
 
Yup what Solaris said, Miccy ****ed up too; they were both douchebags from the sound of it. If I bring a girl around man law states your friends don't hit on her unless I say it's okay. And the first time Miccy suspected there was a problem he should have backed off. No friend is perfect. If he has your back most of the time I say it's worth sticking with your bro; as I already said, good friends are hard to replace, random girls aren't.
 
Let's play spot the mysogenist.

Finishing your sentence with the word "like", that's like so belfast like so it is. -.-
 
No Limit said:
Yup what Solaris said, Miccy ****ed up too; they were both douchebags from the sound of it. If I bring a girl around man law states your friends don't hit on her unless I say it's okay.
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The guy said to do 'whatever'. That seems to me like he was saying go for it.
I think Miccy isn't a douchebag, the friend is.
 
dekstar said:
The guy said to do 'whatever'. That seems to me like he was saying go for it.
I think Miccy isn't a douchebag, the friend is.
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But Miccy should have never put him in that position in the first place. First, if a guy brings a girl somewhere it is assumed he is trying to hook up with her. Second as soon as he got a hint that the friend wasn't cool with it he should have dropped it.
 
I have to agree with No Limit. the unwritten rule is no homing in on other people's racket. break this and you might as well be the weasel who talks to your giurlfriend behind your back in the hopes of scoring brownie points/have a relationship with said girlfriend

I'm not saying MiccyNarc is a weasel just that it's never ok to hit on your friend's girl
 
Perhaps not the best thing to take her out on a date when you knew she and your friend had a thing and you knew he would be pissed.
 
dekstar said:
The guy said to do 'whatever'. That seems to me like he was saying go for it.
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Or it's called trying not to treat the girl like an item by saying "she's mine"...

He should've read between the lines and stayed away. There are plenty of other girls in the world.
 
I love it how guys think girls are something you trade each other.

Seriously? Are you people really saying this stuff? If the chick decided to go out with you, then that's her call. If your "friend" is too much of wuss/nerd/idiot to bring his A-game and show her why she should go out with him instead of you, it's his own damn fault. Neither you nor him can tell her who to see.

To me your friend sounds like a butt-hurt loser who wouldn't have ever had a chance to begin with.

Oh and I agree, get the hell out of that place. A frat house? Seriously? Pranks? Pop him one in the face and then get the hell out of there man.
 
Rico said:
I love it how guys think girls are something you trade each other.

Seriously? Are you people really saying this stuff? If the chick decided to go out with you, then that's her call. If your "friend" is too much of wuss/nerd/idiot to bring his A-game and show her why she should go out with him instead of you, it's his own damn fault. Neither you nor him can tell her who to see.

To me your friend sounds like a butt-hurt loser who wouldn't have ever had a chance to begin with.
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That's the point, you don't trade girls; but you can claim girls. If you bring a girl to your house you are probably trying to hook up with her, if your roomate starts hitting on her without asking that's some serious douchebaggery. I agree that the guy probably wasn't going to get with her either way as I said above; but that doesn't give Miccy a right to slide on in there especially if the friend has an issue with it (why wouldn't he have an issue with it? He still thinks he has a chance). You don't hook up with girls your friends are trying to hook up with, period.
 
Rico said:
I love it how guys think girls are something you trade each other.

Seriously? Are you people really saying this stuff? If the chick decided to go out with you, then that's her call. If your "friend" is too much of wuss/nerd/idiot to bring his A-game and show her why she should go out with him instead of you, it's his own damn fault. Neither you nor him can tell her who to see.

To me your friend sounds like a butt-hurt loser who wouldn't have ever had a chance to begin with.

Oh and I agree, get the hell out of that place. A frat house? Seriously? Pranks? Pop him one in the face and then get the hell out of there man.
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lol, so naive. it has nothing to do with the girl, and has everything to do about respecting your friends
 
CptStern said:
lol, so naive. it has nothing to do with the girl, and has everything to do about respecting your friends
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Naive? Explain to me how believing women have free will, and are not property waiting to be claimed, is naive?

I never said don't respect your friends, but it's fairly obvious that MiccyNarc (if he tells us the truth) already took that into consideration, and the guy was just a retard. Don't try and talk to me about respect if you can't even respect your significant other enough not to treat them as property.

Respect is earned, not given. But maybe things are different in Canada.
 
Significant other? Never mind on that...

But again, it's not about what the girl wants; she can do whatever the hell she wants to do, nobody is forcing her to do anything. The point is if your friend was trying to hook up with her even if it didn't/isn't working out for them you have no right to try to hook up with her.
 
Significant other means chick/guy you're dating or are married to...

And why exactly are you talking about this point? I don't disagree with the idea, but it seems exceedingly clear to me that he had already done enough to determine whether his friend was ok with it or not. If his friend tells him to "do whatever" that seems more than enough reason to me to "do whatever".

If his friend doesn't have the marbles to speak his mind then that's not his problem.
 
Rico said:
Significant other means chick/guy you're dating or are married to...

And why exactly are you talking about this point? I don't disagree with the idea, but it seems exceedingly clear to me that he had already done enough to determine whether his friend was ok with it or not. If his friend tells him to "do whatever" that seems more than enough reason to me to "do whatever".

If his friend doesn't have the marbles to speak his mind then that's not his problem.
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A lot of people don't speak their entire mind, that's no excuse to throw your friend under the bus. This conversation between him and his friend should have never even took place, he should have never hit on her from the start. But even after that was done he had a lot of hints and probably knew damn well his friend was not cool with this, "do whatever" isn't really "hey, yeah, go try to bone that chick I was trying to hook up with".
 
StardogChampion said:
He should've read between the lines and stayed away. There are plenty of other girls in the world.
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Hey when you get food delivered to your house that's not yours, you'd still eat it, right?

I REST MY CASE!
 
I'll admit I should have been more careful in approaching her in the first place. My bad on that point, I was kind of a douche.
Things seem to have kind of smoothed over..my friend is leaving for california today or tomorrow. Still debating what to do at this point, but I'm not going to stop dating her. Just wish issues like this didn't have to come up so consistently, heh.
 
Ok om not really sure at this point.
There is the bro code to take into consideration. But I was under the impression that the friend said it was okay, and then changed his mind?
I only have like 3 friends anyway, and 2 of them have girlfriends, so this is new ground for me.
 
MiccyNarc said:
Still debating what to do at this point, but I'm not going to stop dating her. Just wish issues like this didn't have to come up so consistently, heh.
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I bet $20 that in a month your friend no longer talks to you and you are no longer with this chick. Deal?
 
Friend is a passive-aggressive idjit. "You talked to this girl I brought home too much and now she likes you so I'm going to be like, 'fine, whatever, I don't care' and then pull faget pranks on you." Fuck him and fuck everyone in this thread talking about shit like "bro code." Someone like that isn't worth being a friend to.

Seriously, the girl likes you and apparently doesn't like him. That's his problem not yours. If he calls that 'betrayal,' fuck him.

I say, sleep with the girl and take pictures and then tape them all over the guy's door. Put a little note on there too that reads, "LOL I PRANK U"
 
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