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... and I didn't have sex last night.

That sentence may seem kinda odd to you, but ever since I came to university, I've gone a bit nuts - 5 1nighters in like 3-4 weeks.. sometimes with girls I know from my course, sometimes with girls I've picked up in a club or whatever. I decided that I'd had my fun, I knew I could do it, it wasn't hard for me to go to a club and chat some girl up and go back to hers/mine. I guess I just wanted things to mean a little more than 'just sex'.
So I took the last girl I'd slept with out for a drink last night.. had a great time.. went back to hers and just cuddled/kissed and went to sleep. Even if this leads nowhere - it's still been a good exercise in self-control.

Sorry, just had to vent :D
 
oh poor you, my sympathies .........






ps: always wear condoms
 
I pity the fool who can't have sechs!

But respect to you that you could control yourself :)
 
I have a similar situation when I'm with my girlfriend. Must....not....make...a...move......aaargffhgble. Whenever we're together I always make it a goal to spend more "quality time" than "necessitating bed repair" time.
 
i find it challenging to not make the first move, i find that girls just wait for the guys to make the move first, but it's funny when you know the girl wants it just as bad but wont do anything
 
i find it challenging to not make the first move, i find that girls just wait for the guys to make the move first, but it's funny when you know the girl wants it just as bad but wont do anything
i hate that and even worse they don't make it easy for you either - dodging kisses, being coy
grrr
the reality is she won't make a move even when she has more right to do so
you want to make a move but she plays hard to get and then its hard to know where you stand
*sigh* women
So I took the last girl I'd slept with out for a drink last night.. had a great time.. went back to hers and just cuddled/kissed and went to sleep. Even if this leads nowhere - it's still been a good exercise in self-control.
arggh what were you thinking!!!!!!!
 
john3571000 said:
arggh what were you thinking!!!!!!!

Nah, spot on I say, always good to know you're in control of the situation
 
there's time enough for that when you're old and decrepit methinks
 
ComradeBadger said:
... and I didn't have sex last night.

That sentence may seem kinda odd to you, but ever since I came to university, I've gone a bit nuts - 5 1nighters in like 3-4 weeks.. sometimes with girls I know from my course, sometimes with girls I've picked up in a club or whatever. I decided that I'd had my fun, I knew I could do it, it wasn't hard for me to go to a club and chat some girl up and go back to hers/mine. I guess I just wanted things to mean a little more than 'just sex'.
So I took the last girl I'd slept with out for a drink last night.. had a great time.. went back to hers and just cuddled/kissed and went to sleep. Even if this leads nowhere - it's still been a good exercise in self-control.

Sorry, just had to vent :D

Just calm down when you reach 30. In the meantime, enjoy it. And listen to Stern: be safe.
 
ComradeBadger said:
... and I didn't have sex last night.

That sentence may seem kinda odd to you, but ever since I came to university, I've gone a bit nuts - 5 1nighters in like 3-4 weeks.. sometimes with girls I know from my course, sometimes with girls I've picked up in a club or whatever. I decided that I'd had my fun, I knew I could do it, it wasn't hard for me to go to a club and chat some girl up and go back to hers/mine. I guess I just wanted things to mean a little more than 'just sex'.
So I took the last girl I'd slept with out for a drink last night.. had a great time.. went back to hers and just cuddled/kissed and went to sleep. Even if this leads nowhere - it's still been a good exercise in self-control.

Sorry, just had to vent :D

university is a strang place for relationships, frankly i apploaud your self control
 
I read the title of it and I thought you had gotten yourself in trouble again :p
Then I start reading about some lass you met and then started thinking :
"WTF? He's going to beat her or something?"
Luckily that wasn't the case :p

CB, you've always had a knack for having weird thread titles :D
"What a strange night out" ... Can't get any vaguer than this
 
For those who care: I've used protection every time :)

But yea, for me it's important to perhaps be moving towards something more meaningful... I've been slagging it around for the past year or so, and I'm willing to give relationships another shot. If I don't get far with this girl.. it's not like I don't have any options.
 
ComradeBadger said:
For those who care: I've used protection every time :)

But yea, for me it's important to perhaps be moving towards something more meaningful... I've been slagging it around for the past year or so, and I'm willing to give relationships another shot. If I don't get far with this girl.. it's not like I don't have any options.


slag some more, dont get tied down now that you're in university man!!






ps: always wear condoms
 
Jesus Christ badger I never knew you were that promiscuous in the first place :O
 
He's decided to go into a long term relationship with me. Sorry guys.

-Angry Lawyer
 
OH WOE IS ME!!

Stupid exams have put a halt to the limited social and sex life I used to have at Uni.

Badger... Your a machine. But just remember that all machines need to be maintained or parts could start breaking. For now though I shall remain jealous.
 
wait til the exams hit him tee hee
then we shall have our revenge
 
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