Longest you've been with someone?

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I was just dumped by my first love after three years, and I'd really like to hear some stories about people who were dumped after a really long relationship and didn't come out completely fu<ked up, cause this shit hurts, especially since we live together
Make me feel better! Share your tales of misery
 
One year and one month.. still counting.
 
9 years, 3 kids, still counting...
 
Come on guys, tales of misery only! No happy endings!
It's 2.30am here, haven't slept more than three hours in the last three nights.
Argh
 
One month..***mors around school and people trying to break you up = bad. Also...relationships based off of sexual stuff is off to a bad start anyways. 4 or 5 relationships all under 1 month = bad.
 
about 1.5 years... then found she was cheating on me...
=/
 
WhiteZero said:
about 1.5 years... then found she was cheating on me...
=/
Heh, two years, and the same thing. What a crazah goddamn psycho.

Hopefully the current one will surpass that. :)
 
About a year and a half... then got dumped/cheated on.

About a year... then got cheated on/dumped. (again..what good judgement you have, bliink)

You get over it.. kinda.

Those are only my long-term ****ed up relationships :laugh:;(
 
Erestheux said:
Heh, two years, and the same thing. What a crazah goddamn psycho.

Hopefully the current one will surpass that. :)
Yeah, I'm with someone right now that I think could be right.
^^
 
bliink said:
About a year and a half... then got dumped/cheated on.

About a year... then got cheated on/dumped. (again..what good judgement you have, bliink)

You get over it.. kinda.

Those are only my long-term ****ed up relationships :laugh:;(
Most people change drastically after a year or so. You can't really blame yourself for "poor judgement."

You can get over anybody with enough time (and that "enough time" for me was like, 7 months)... but if the relationship really meant anything... there is always a piece that's messed up...
WhiteZero said:
Yeah, I'm with someone right now that I think could be right.
^^
Good luck :)
 
Erestheux said:
You can get over anybody with enough time (and that "enough time" for me was like, 7 months)... but if the relationship really meant anything... there is always a piece that's messed up...
Good luck :)

When it comes to long term relationships, I am increasingly cynical and pessimistic. It doesnt really bother me though.
 
9 months. Then she dumped me and wanted me back a few months later. I said no and dated my current girlfriend. I've been with her for over 5 months now :) <3
 
Only been with my hand for 23 glorious years. We're very close.
 
1 year. That was fun. SHortest? 1 month! weee
 
Having an awesome first relationship at 9 months now and hopefully much longer.

Fact comradebadger had a big hand in sorting it out for me those 9 months ago, no not a literal hand ;)
 
Despite avoiding serious commitment like a plague, I'm actually quite good with advice :D
 
i've been with alot of people, but my longest relationship was only about 3 months. in fact it was my only relationship. other than that it's just one night stands and sex-buddies etc - (which is not something i ever thought i'd have, i certainly didn't plan on it.)

i'm the kind of guy that does want a relationship, i just don't see any reason not to have fun while your waiting for one.
 
3 1/2 years... then she became a cold bitch and manipulated me into ending it....
 
Jintor said:
No time at all. I'm 14.

Good man. Stay away... stay far away ;)

Actually, don't plan on a LT relationship until you're in college; the high school ones don't work out 90% of the time. The ones that do tend to work out are between people who were already wiser than their age (I know some couples who got married).

So while you're in high school, expect the short term ones if you're into that. I'm not, personally. This is my senior year.
 
that's why i'm waiting till i go to college. right now, i'm not even thinking about relationships.
 
shortest: 15 minutes (long story, ended with hilarious consequences)

longest: 4 months and a day! still going strong :D

and to the thread starter, heartbreak hurts like hell obviously, but you will feel better in time, until then just have as much fun as possible with friends and family
 
One month exactly now \0/
On January the first,2007 , we'll be together for a year :D
(I do hope it will last that long D: )
 
longest - just short of 5 months
shortest - does a few hours count :E
 
longest: coming up to 10 years

shortest: hmmm a few minutes?
 
Longest is four years. Broke up with her, and that's when the shit hit the fan. I found out she had cheated on me like four times! D:

Shortest is overnight. One night stands are fun!
 
Beerdude26 said:
One month exactly now \0/
On January the first,2007 , we'll be together for a year :D
(I do hope it will last that long D: )
hehe i starteed a relationship on the new year too. lasted five days D: but she's my best friend and that's apparently the only way it should be... weird vibes.

my longest is four or so months.
 
Ennui said:
hehe i starteed a relationship on the new year too. lasted five days D: but she's my best friend and that's apparently the only way it should be... weird vibes.

my longest is four or so months.

Actually, I just started dating one of my best girlfriends a few weeks ago. It was kind of wierd at first, but actually now it's not. We made it over the hump!
 
I have put off dating until I was atleast 16 and have a driver's lisence and a job (soon.......)
I was planning on waiting till college, because it seems that none of the girls my age now are as mature as I seem to be ( selfish bitches :/ ).
However, there is one now that I'm starting to like and she likes me (from what I'm told)

I can vaugely hear myself in the future telling me a relationship at this age is doomed horribly. F*ck you future me, you were a horny teenager once too.
 
OvA said:
I have put off dating until I was atleast 16 and have a driver's lisence and a job (soon.......)
I was planning on waiting till college, because it seems that none of the girls my age now are as mature as I seem to be ( selfish bitches :/ ).
However, there is one now that I'm starting to like and she likes me (from what I'm told)

I can vaugely hear myself in the future telling me a relationship at this age is doomed horribly. F*ck you future me, you were a horny teenager once too.

Im 16 but far from horny
 
longest: 1 1/2 years, the bitch cheated.
shortest: 1 hour
current: 5 months
 
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