Looking for certain type of games!

[Gargantou]

I'm looking for recommendations on games that focuses on management of personnel etc, for example I take B-17 Flying Fortress, Silent Hunter 3 and 4, the old Star Trek games where you had a crew in your ship that you interacted with.

Basically, games that let you manage crews in the game, I'm not really looking for an RPG unless it is very open-ended, the type of games I'm looking for are strategy games(think X-Com for an example of a game where one grows attached to ones soldiers), simulations(Like B-17 Flying Fortress or Silent Hunter 3), and space-themed games.

Also as noted, it requires for you to actually be able to interact with your crew and for your crew to evolve too, and not just be static characters you have limited conversations with.

I miss the days when I played X-Com and had my veteran soldier(Whom had been fighting in my force since the day I started the game, and was the oldest surviving member, also the highest rank) became mind-controlled and started attacking my crew, it felt so sad having to put a bullet in him since he had been such a faithful and loyal part of my organization.:<

I'm looking for games where you can get something akin to that attachment, and where people aren't magically revived by potions and shit, but they stay mother****ing dead.

Thanks for any good recommendations you can come with despite my messed up request!

 

[Bad^Hat]

Having never played it, and based entirely upon past recommendations, Jagged Alliance 2.

 

[PriNcE oF SpAcE]

there's a x-com deal on steam right now in case you don't already have all the games.