*sigh*

[burnzie]

Ok if you sent someone flowers, you'd expect some sort of a thankyou?

i sent to them to someone who i had been, well a bit of a bastard to lately (dont ask) but i appoligised and we spoke after so its not like there ignoring me and that said person was feeling sick this whole week so i thought it would be a nice thing to do along with a card. alteast some responce would be nice.

they were ****ing expencoive to get delivered to the door and its not like i just send out flowers to everyone.

its starting to get on my nerves, if i dont get a responce by the end of the weekend im gonna be rather annoyed...

well maybe im being petty, i should just be happy that the flowers would have cheered them up. i didnt do it for the thankyou. But it would have been nice to atleast know they got them and the flower joint just didnt rip me off.

 

[CyberSh33p]

maybe you should go see them? :\

 

[burnzie]

nah, i dont think so :|

anyway, i saw the person yesterday...

 

[CyberSh33p]

when did you send the flowers?

 

[burnzie]

2 days ago I organised them.

i was told they'd be long there by now...

 

[Letters]

Aye... not unreasonable to expect a 'thank you'... would be quite rude of them not to...

 

[burnzie]

Aye... not unreasonable to expect a 'thank you'... would be quite rude of them not to...

yeah well i thought so...

 

[Dr. Freeman]

nah, i dont think so :|

anyway, i saw the person yesterday...

u saw this person yesterday and there was no mention of the flowers? hmm...
did u make ur name was given with the flowers? what i mean is theres the technique of the secret admirer sending flowers.. and in that particular case, one cannot expect a thank you note for obvious reasons

 

[Revisedsoul]

maybe you will get sexual favors when they are not sick

 

[burnzie]

maybe you will get sexual favors when they are not sick

Hmmm i doubt we'd get back to that to that stage, if you catch my drift...

(|)​

 

[burnzie]

5 o'clock now, if she has got them, then im a little disapointed, if she hasnt, then im gonna go slap the florist...

 

[Edge]

Well without knowing the woman in question I would say it is rude. I have noticed though that alot of women expect these gifts and take them for granted sorta like it is expected.

Wish you luck. I would be upset if I did not receive a thank you for a gift.

 

[burnzie]

if i get through tommorow without recognition i can tell im gonna get pissed off...

 

[Edge]

if i get through tommorow without recognition i can tell im gonna get pissed off...

Well I heard a quote once that is very wise.

You cannot control how others act you can only control how you react.

If she is not acknowleding your gesture don't get worked up about it. She is not giving your feelings a second thought don't waste any energy getting upset about her actions of lackof actions.

She did you a favor. You don't want someone in your life that will take your kindness for granted.

 

[Revisedsoul]

ahh i see. i had a friend in some sort of the same situation. lives in aussie land too. but instead of ignoring it. she gave the flowers to her new bf

 

[burnzie]

If that happend, id belt the shit outta the new boyfriend and get my money for the flowers. Though she doesnt have a boyfriend (as far as i know)

the flowers wern't a last ditch effort to get back together or anything, cause thats not what i want. i was trying to fix the friendship (that she broke initally, but i continued out of spite... long story)

 

[Edge]

If that happend, id belt the shit outta the new boyfriend and get my money for the flowers. Though she doesnt have a boyfriend (as far as i know)

the flowers wern't a last ditch effort to get back together or anything, cause thats not what i want. i was trying to fix the friendship (that she broke initally, but i continued out of spite... long story)

Well honestly the man is never to blame. Bitches decide who they are gonna ****. Men don't have any say in that. It is ultimately a womans choice. So you shouldn't be upset with him.. he is a man he is gonna tap any ass he can

Guys + Girls never = friends. Especially if you had sex with her.. it will never work. Men and women were never meant to be friends.

 

[burnzie]

yeah i know, its not even the situation, so no use getting worked up about it. belting him one (not that he even exists) woulndt solve anything apart from making me look like a ****ing nut. (unless he was being an arrogant c**t about it, then he'd have it coming)

i gotta go now but i'll post any news as it comes...

 

[Edge]

i gotta go now but i'll post any news as it comes...

no pun intented I hope LOL

 

[burnzie]

no pun intented I hope LOL

:naughty: ......... ;(

stupid ****ing internet i got type this post again because it disconected half way through sending...


Ok i got it. (my acnoligment and thanks).

She came into work and asked me if i sent them. Apparently the name tag fell off cause the stick was there, but no card. My own card was still there with it (but my name wasnt on it) it was the one explaning some things. i would have thought that would have been enough but apparently she's also fighting with another friend. :roll:

But the conversation i had was weird. it was only short but it was just like old times (before we broke up). where just the tone of her voice was different (happy to see and talk to me) and hearing her made me feel good all over. Just like it used to. Havent felt that way in over 2 months. (its not like we never spoke for that 2 months, but it was always forced on my part, and she was always afraid i was gonna bite her head off) This time was different.

/me hits head on desk

no no no, i dont wanna fall for her again. I gotta snap out of it...


on a lighter, unrelated note is it wrong i actually spent time making this smiley earlyer...

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im a little distubed myself...

 

[CptStern]

just ask her ...maybe she didnt get them, maybe the card fell off so she doesnt know who sent them ..maybe she thought the flowers were a sign you're still interested and it made her uncomfortable ...instead of getting mad, just ask her.

 

[burnzie]

Have you read my above post :|

 

[CptStern]

Have you read my above post :|

heh at the time I wrote it ...no

see I'm at work and what happens sometimes is that I begin typing a response but then I'm called away and when I get back I hit send ...well as you can expect sometimes it leads to embarrassing situations ....so there ..that's my excuse and I'm sticking with it good luck

 

[burnzie]

thanks anyways

 

[moppe]

Guys + Girls never = friends. Especially if you had sex with her.. it will never work. Men and women were never meant to be friends.

2 of my best friends are both female, and they're great fun to know.
Shut up.

 

[ComradeBadger]

I have one girl best mate.. I fancied her for ages, but I'm over that now, and we're really good good mates.

And Burnzie, burn her house down, that'll learn her!

 

[burnzie]

And Burnzie, burn her house down, that'll learn her!

Yar! I be plunderin that wide screen plasma before I do...