Ugh... decisions, decisions.

[MrWhite]

Alright, well my girlfreind and I are really happy together (5 months without a single problem) but we are both really flakey and wishy washy...

Our plans often go about like this

"So what do you want to do this weekend?
"Hmm... I don't know, whatever you want to do"
"Well... I wanna do whatever you want to do."

and this saturday I made myself a promise I would take action and think of something.

Well im an idiot, and I cant.

So we're both going to make a list and combine them so that we can just look at it and decide on something from it, so can anyone give me some ideas?

Anything will do, and more than 5 things

 

[Kyle2]

have sex?

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

Well, what type of person is she? What does she enjoy?

I mean, i would suggest sky diving, but thats just me and its not likely that you would go and do that.

 

[MrWhite]

Okay, besides that.

That's just for whenever we happen to be in the bedroom

 

[MrWhite]

Originally posted by Farrowlesparrow
Well, what type of person is she? What does she enjoy?

I mean, i would suggest sky diving, but thats just me and its not likely that you would go and do that.

I would, but I'm not sure if she would... see we both just enjoy alot of things... and I don't think I could get the money for skydiving, and I only have 50 bucks, which some of it I cant spend

Edit - We both have some social anxieties, we both really love The Vines, and The Strokes, The Beta Band, Coldplay, etc. and it really doesnt matter what we do we still always have fun... I dunno if that helps, but it might

Dance clubs are not an option. I am canadian.

 

[ray_MAN]

Take her to a movie.

 

[Kyle2]

go bowling, than have sex

 

[nw909]

"x", then sex

while x =

bowling
movies
rent a dvd
have dinner somewhere
etc.

 

[MrWhite]

Alright, thats helping, anything else? (i had already thought of those)

Oh and no repeats, just add to the list

 

[MrWhite]

Oh and she's also a musician/artist, if that might help

we'd do things sometimes like both work on a painting or something....

lets get creative

 

[Mr.Reak]

See, this is a problem. Things like this should happen in first month of your relationship. Don’t know what I am talking about? Well, take for example your best male friend, you guys often think on the fly what you will do, or you do nothing, just ****ing around. Well, back to your girlfriend, you thinking long and hard, when it should come natural.

As for the list of things, here is some:

1) Go shopping with her
2) After that, take her to the dinner, if it during the day, fast food will work. If it’s evening, it’s dark outside, take her to restaurant, more romantic.
3) After that, walk around (you live in the big city?), kissing in front of the people gives you a nice feeling.
4) Take to the movie, back sit. Most of the time when I do that, I have no idea what’s movie was about
5) Or you can take her to the dance
6) Take her somewhere (depends on what she likes, by now you should know)
7) Now, from here it depends what kind of relationship you guys have. If it’s deep, have romantic night together

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

Do a painting?

How about you go out to a gallery, then go shopping for some equipment, then come home to do some art. Then do something from before like watch a film then....

 

[Fender357]

Take her to guitar center and play with all the instruments.

 

[MrWhite]

Good suggestions, and @ reak, yeah we've got a really really good relationship... we're not... hmm... a typical couple so we don't worry about what we do too much... but once in a while its good to do something really nice

 

[Kyle2]

have sex, in a museum

 

[ShinRa]

Have sex in your parents bedroom....god I miss my girlfriend.

 

[MrWhite]

K enough with the sex, I got that covered

 

[ShinRa]

Are you sure you have it covered? Ok fine. How about sex? Anyone mention that yet? I think you should have sex. Sex is good...yes...sex....mwhahahaa..sex sex sex....SEXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX HAVE ****ING SEX.....ok enough
















































sex

 

[Kyle2]

you could have sex at 5 different places in 5 different positions 5 seperate times

 

[MrWhite]

The last peice of art we worked on... was an interrupted canvas of a hand holding a cigarette that I drew and she painted... and I painted the part she couldnt get done which wasnt that much... hmm... it was really good, the hand emitted this light blue glow thing on dark blue back base colour

 

[LoneDeranger]

Oh wow .. so it's normal to say "I don't know what to do" to a girl? I've been trying to avoid that like the plague, which was really hard for me cause I'm not really the type of guy who tells other people what to do.

 

[Mr.Reak]

Originally posted by LoneDeranger
Oh wow .. so it's normal to say "I don't know what to do" to a girl? I've been trying to avoid that like the plague, which was really hard for me cause I'm not really the type of guy who tells other people what to do.

Lone, yes it is normal to say anything to the girl. Try to relax , it's not like they will think you are stupid or something.

 

[JohnnyBeverage]

Go ride go carts, and play miniature golf.

 

[LoneDeranger]

Hmm .. ok


Well anyway the idea I came up with is to take her on a boat .. either a speedboat or one of 'em slow tour type things. The problem is I'm not sure if she gets seasick or something like that.

 

[MrWhite]

Haha, it all depends on the girl Lone, my girlfreind is really... laid back and its nice, then the last girl I dated was preppy and if I said the wrong thing she would hit me

 

[dfc05]

go to a concert... since y'all like music...?

 

[Prince of China]

Ohh, I think I should stay out of this thread.

 

[Javert]

Ever tried mini-golf?

Do you guys have a skate rink nearby?

Or just browse the mall.

Look in the newspaper for festivity listings and see if something interests the two of you.

Above all, Have Fun!

 

[oldi1knoby]

I personally have stopped the entire "what do you want to do" thing with anyone. If ya love her, just spend time talking to her. No need to make out in a movie theatre. Save the 20 bucks and do it in your home. No reason to consume the flesh of dead animals together. Just be together. In my opinion, basing a relationship on entertainment, like movies, eating out, etc, etc, will give you a false image of what your marriage(if any) will be. I'm not saying DON'T go out together, just don't stress over "what to do."

I'm tired, and not making much sense, so just ignore this. Go to a park and play on the toys. Go to a club and "dance the night away."

Here's a good one. Decide what her favorite hobby is and go do something that has to do with it together. She likes shopping? Go shopping? Then take her to something you like to do. You like Anime? Take her to a film. You like Video Games? Go play video games with her. You like football? Take her to play football.

What are your hobbies?

 

[simmo]

Kyle2 can you just stop saying SEX!!