Well I just made my dad cry

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for the second time ever in history.... I told him I wouldent no matter what go to this attention testing thing because I already and fseck'd up enough with depression and anxiety..... long story short I kinda told him we have relatioship issues and need to spend more time together.... he is a good dad, pretty damn good. but im sick of being the family freak. sick. and he thinks im more mature then I am... after all how mature can I guy who posts his problems on hl2.net be?

well im a winnar cuz i just posted this on the halflife2 forums :thumbs:
 
WAYYYYY TO SHORT, Tell us the entire story and background so we can give better feedback

Zakat said:
Not really, because no-one cares :P
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Really outtta line dude. Keep it to urself
 
bAbYhEaDcRaB said:
for the second time ever in history.... I told him I wouldent no matter what go to this attention testing thing because I already and fseck'd up enough with depression and anxiety..... long story short I kinda told him we have relatioship issues and need to spend more time together.... he is a good dad, pretty damn good. but im sick of being the family freak. sick.

well im a winnar cuz i just posted this on the halflife2 forums :thumbs:
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I advise that you go from personall experience.
 
Zakat said:
Not really, because no-one cares :P
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That was uncalled for. Nobody wants to hear such comments from you.


And babyheadcrab, more details?
 
People have real issues you know Zakat. I am sure they don't appreciate your opinions. So buzz off and ruin some other less serious threads.
 
well the whole story is when i was a wee baby I never cried never made my parents move or do anything really and they spent all there time with my siblings whom are all A achievers whom are wholesome and not pc nerds, i however was quite until recently in about seventh grade they realized I didnt give a fnuck about school and didnt want to do my work, after this I stopped going to school because I hated it and felt it was useless i was later diagnosed with depression because i felt like life was pointless until i got older, and on top of a long lasting anxiety problem ive always had i was turning into the demanding child with problems..... theres alot more to it but now i feel like this is just one more thing he wants to ad to my list of odd ball traits but I guess he feels REALLY strongly about this and thinks it could help alot... i am :sleep: about it but to make him happy im going to get a.d.d tested.. I cant stand makeing my dad cry (who can) and it was just kinda wierd and upsetting..... im going now I guess hope they find 29382 things wrong and throw me in a mental hospital....... oh and I forgot i go to school now consistantly and achieve better then f's im just not really all that motivated... (i do want college so im going for at least c's)

ps. thanks for shooing of zakat :borg: I appreciate that alot guys, viva la hl2 buddies :cheese:
 
Its good to hear your achieveing now, thats always a good thing i guess.
I really don't have a clue what to say to help. But I hope you get through what your goin though.
 
Seeing/Hearing one of your parents' cry is one of the worst things in life...
 
marksmanHL2 :) said:
Its good to hear your achieveing now, thats always a good thing i guess.
I really don't have a clue what to say to help. But I hope you get through what your goin though.
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you already helped :)
 
haha dude, I just got reminded of when stuey tries to comfort peter (is it) and hes like..hey there... how you doin??? you wanna soooooda?

and hes like DAMNIT i tried, man I love that show
 
bAbYhEaDcRaB said:
haha dude, I just got reminded of when stuey tries to comfort peter (is it) and hes like..hey there... how you doin??? you wanna soooooda?

and hes like DAMNIT i tried, man I love that show
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That part is teh funny.

"How ya doin' big guy, you ok?, You want a soda? Well damnit I tried"
 
maybe if you werent so mean to me your dad wouldent cry.
 
The only time I've seen my dad cry is when his parents and his dog died. After his dog died my mom didn't wanna get another one because he was all depressed for like a week then he insisted on getting another one. I don't wanna be around when this one dies.
 
My friend can make anyone cry just by saying stuff to them. Its truly amazing.

He made this one jerk off in PE cry in like less than 10 minutes, the guy was arguing with him about...somthing...and my friend Ryan told him how no one could ever posibly like him, everyone who says they like him are lying, he will never have a gf and he will die alone.


And Ryan's made his dad cry.....and his dad is scarry. He's like 6' 5", a plumber, and he's been in just about every biker gang there is. Most notably, the Hell's Angles.
Ryan has made his dad cry a couple of times.
 
You're friend sounds like a tosser :/

Only time I saw my Dad cry was when his mum died - he gave a long speach at the funeral, i've never been so proud ...... takes balls to stand up there and do that.
 
Fender357 said:
my friend Ryan told him how no one could ever posibly like him, everyone who says they like him are lying, he will never have a gf and he will die alone.
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What a sucky, generic insult. How the **** get that get anyone to cry?!
 
Fender357 said:
And Ryan's made his dad cry.....and his dad is scarry. He's like 6' 5", a plumber, and he's been in just about every biker gang there is. Most notably, the Hell's Angles.
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If I wasn't so tired right now I'd make some wise-ass comment about you typing Hell's Angles instead of Angels...
 
Hell's Angle = -90 degrees (-pi/2 for you radian peens (haha, new word I learned!)) AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
 
Snakebyte said:
If I wasn't so tired right now I'd make some wise-ass comment about you typing Hell's Angles instead of Angels...
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But you just did?!


As for what my friend said to the fat ass in PE..thats not exactly what he said....thats what I remember the general jist(SP?) of it was. And it was 10 or 15 minutes worth of stuff
 
I feel your pain baby Ive gone through the exact samething my entire life. Although my dad never cried about it he just yelled and got somewhat abusive.
Does your dad ever tell you you arent going to grow up to be worth a damn because of whats going on? My dad has been sayin that most of my life, cause I dont do what he wants me to do with my life. I always say I want to go into NHB fighting more than anything, but he tells me I wont make it and its better to just train for baseball like he did when he was young. I still deal with that everyday but Ive just learned to turn that around and use it as motivation so I can throw it back in his face once I get into NHB.

**Im not trying to bitch just giving some advice...whatever that might be...**

:cheers:
 
only time i've seen my dad cry what when his mom died(i was too young to remember my grandfather die), and when our family pet died a couple weeks ago. hell i even saw myself cry to that. ;(
 
My dad has really similar problems to myself, we both get really upset in anxious social situations, it's a crippling weakness. He has a real hard time in jobs, went to one at a Post-Office, came back that night, walked in the door and cried for like half an hour straight. It was a huge place and no one really had time to train him, so he was left to fend for himself, it was noisy, and everyone but him seemed to get on fine. I knew exactly how he felt, so it sucked to see him like that...
 
If I think i've upset my dad I feel like absolute shit and my conscience forces me to apologize.
 
My dad has only cried once that I've seen...and it wasn't when his dad died...it was when they were leaving my room after moving me into college. I am the last of 3 to go to college, so now it's an empty nest for them...so I guess it must be a huge change for them.

Although I was extremely happy that they were gone...the last year I was at home my dad was a jerk and my mom wasn't really helping out either. He would flip out at the slightest problem.

Example: I was supposed to rake our front lawn one day after school...but I stopped by home when school was out and saw that the lawn had like 30 leaves on it. So I hopped back in my friend's car and went to hang out at his house (which was a rare occurrance for me to actually have a chance to hang out with friends on a weekday...that was another thing he'd flip out about...oh yeah..and then when I was out Friday night, Saturday nights, and Sunday nights he'd bitch about how I only spent time with friends).

Well I went over there...and called my dad at work telling him that I was at my friend's house because the lawn didn't really need raking and that I could do it tomorrow or the next day when it'd actually be worth taking up 2 hours of my time. He went ballistic. "I TOLD YOU TO RAKE THE FRONT LAWN" I didn't want to be any further into his bad-side right then...so I just said, "There were hardly any leaves to rake...I can still just do it tomorrow when there's enough to do." "DON'T TELL ME HOW TO TAKE CARE OF MY LAWN!!!! TOMORROW YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING UNTIL YOU RAKE THE WHOLE YARD!" *Click* He hangs up. My friend sitting 10 feet away on his couch heard pretty much the entire conversation, "Dude...your dad is a spaz..."

Yeah.. our yard alone is about 2/3 of an acre...so..that took me from when I got home...'till dinner time...then another hour after that. So like 4 hours of raking out there by myself. My friend offered to come help but my dad wouldn't let him...

Wow...that post became a lot more that I had originally planned...
 
bAbYhEaDcRaB said:
for the second time ever in history.... I told him I wouldent no matter what go to this attention testing thing because I already and fseck'd up enough with depression and anxiety..... long story short I kinda told him we have relatioship issues and need to spend more time together.... he is a good dad, pretty damn good. but im sick of being the family freak. sick. and he thinks im more mature then I am... after all how mature can I guy who posts his problems on hl2.net be?

well im a winnar cuz i just posted this on the halflife2 forums :thumbs:
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least you have a ****ing father matey. some of us have never had one. me for instance, i've never seen / spoken to mine. I dont even have any idea what he looks like.

if you're sick of being the family freak, grow up and stop moaning about relationship issues because that makes you sound pretty immature. if you have a problem with someone TELL THEM, but not in a shrink type way. some things get analyzed way too much imo.
 
^that's a bit harsh .... especially as all we know is what was in a a short post.

While I sypathise with your situation, it really has nothing to do with the topic - reminded me a little of John Goodman in The Big Lebowski and how he'd keep bringing up vietnam.
 
sorry. its just things like this drive me nuts. i mean why did the guy have to tell us he made his father cry? its almost like a sort of gloating. people who moan about 'relationship issues' also piss me off.
 
craigweb2k said:
least you have a ****ing father matey. some of us have never had one. me for instance, i've never seen / spoken to mine. I dont even have any idea what he looks like.

if you're sick of being the family freak, grow up and stop moaning about relationship issues because that makes you sound pretty immature. if you have a problem with someone TELL THEM, but not in a shrink type way. some things get analyzed way too much imo.
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I'm sure a shrink would have one or two things to say about your mental health and your the one who sounds immature.
 
craigweb2k:

I lost my farther about a year ago when he got hit by a car but i didnt loose my compasion
 
Wow, craig, way to yell at headcrab because you don't have dad. Real nice.
 
marksmanHL2 :) said:
craigweb2k:

I lost my farther about a year ago when he got hit by a car but i didnt loose my compasion
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im sorry, ;( oh and graig.....your a bit highly strung mate :thumbs:
 
Don't worry. Its just a bit of a touchy subject for me. And I wanted to make a point:
Its not allways about me.


That said I am sorry craigweb2k. I don't know what its like to never have had a dad. But we all have problems and I don't see the point in keeping them to oursevles and I don't think it was right to attack him for shareing. Thats my opinion.
 
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