Well, shit. I need some help, guys.

[mrkab00m]

To be honest, I'm NOT the kind of person who can bring a relationship back, and I feel kind of screwed by myself, so I need some help...

I did something stupid that I feel really bad about now, and my girlfriend is sort of... moving away from me-like she completely dislikes me now...

What kind of things are important that I should focus on to help regain her trust in me? Like what aspects would be the most important to her right now?

(By the way, I'd appriciate that this is taken seriously, I really do need help on this. ^___^)

 

[Tollbooth Willie]

Well it would help to know what happened, my friend..

 

[Nat Turner]

Tell us more first, I'll provide the necessary advice quick and sure to the mark!

/removes his gay hat now

 

[mrkab00m]

Well it would help to know what happened, my friend..

I sort of said stuff I shouldn't have... it was really awkward and it still is...

<cringe> I'm pretty worried about it right now.

 

[Nat Turner]

I sort of said stuff I shouldn't have... it was really awkward and it still is...

<cringe> I'm pretty worried about it right now.

What did you say, how did she respond, how long ago... etc. Speak.

 

[mrkab00m]

What did you say, how did she respond, how long ago... etc. Speak.

A couple months ago, I was sitting with her --------------

She said it didn't matter right then, but she's one to say stuff like that and feel totally different about it in reality.

 

[Nat Turner]

A couple months ago, I was sitting with her and I said some stuff about her friends and... It's kind of hard talking about it.

She said it didn't matter right then, but she's one to say stuff like that and feel totally different about it in reality.

If you want real help, you'll have to describe exactly what you said and how she's acting now.

 

[mrkab00m]

If you want real help, you'll have to describe exactly what you said and how she's acting now.

Sorry, now I'm lying to you guys.
Argh.

It's just really freaking me out now, I don't know why. In reality, it was the first time she wanted to be closer then she normally was with me, I sort of acted awkward then because I didn't know her too well, it sort of played out like that... I heard from one of her friends that she didn't like me much after that, partly because it was so awkward...

Except now, I really like her... I wanted to know how I could help her get closer again. Sorry about saying stuff before, It's just hard for me to be open. ^___^


Ahh, teenage romance. :dozey:

 

[CyberPitz]

I just want you to know, that I'm here for you..

Except I'm so ****ing completely lost, it's insane.

 

[Nat Turner]

Sorry, now I'm lying to you guys.
Argh.

It's just really freaking me out now, I don't know why. In reality, it was the first time she wanted to be closer then she normally was with me, I sort of acted awkward then because I didn't know her too well, it sort of played out like that... I heard from one of her friends that she didn't like me much after that, partly because it was so awkward...

Except now, I really like her... I wanted to know how I could help her get closer again. Sorry about saying stuff before, It's just hard for me to be open. ^___^


Ahh, teenage romance. :dozey:

It's ok, don't freak out, it won't help you.

Are you dating her?

 

[Yuri]

I just want you to know, that I'm here for you..

Except I'm so ****ing completely lost, it's insane.

Quoted for truth. 'Cept for that "I'm here for you" bit.

 

[mrkab00m]

I just want you to know, that I'm here for you..

Except I'm so ****ing completely lost, it's insane.

Heheh, even I'm a bit zoned out on this.

EDIT-

Are you dating her?

I was.

 

[CyberPitz]

Heheh, even I'm a bit zoned out on this.

Great, that means no answers

 

[Yuri]

This is like Pictionary!

What we have so far:
You're a horny dramatic teenager
You used to date this girl but don't any more
You don't want to be alone
It has something to do with "sitting" with her (???)
It has something to do with her friends
You lied to us

Oh my gawsh, is the answer "Chesterfield Hopper"??? Do I win... the PRIZE?!

 

[mrkab00m]

lol, what don't you get? Sorry about being so confusing... :E

 

[CyberPitz]

lol, what don't you get? Sorry about being so confusing... :E

The entire thing? Maybe start over, explaining it in detail D:

 

[Nat Turner]

lol, what don't you get? Sorry about being so confusing... :E

Just explain every detail, especially the important parts, in nice and coherent sentences. Start over.

 

[Yuri]

Remember, this is only a forum on the internet, where anyone with an internet connection can freely view it for their reading pleasure. Let me assure you, though, most people have internet connections! Your secrets are safe with us!

 

[mrkab00m]

You're a horny dramatic teenager

Haha, thanks.

Uhh, okay:
-This girl was beginning to like me, but I was kind of awkward around her because I didn't know her too well.
-I now like her.
-She doesn't seem to like me anymore, mostly because of how awkward I was.
-I want to know what kind of things that I could do that would matter most to her, so she won't be apprehensive about being with me again.

 

[bam23]

Call her.

 

[mrkab00m]

Call her.

What should I say?

 

[xcellerate]

once you lose trust it is gone forever. This is why you be honest with the ones you love.

 

[Nat Turner]

Haha, thanks.

Uhh, okay:
-This girl was beginning to like me, but I was kind of awkward around her because I didn't know her too well.
-I now like her.
-She doesn't seem to like me anymore, mostly because of how awkward I was.
-I want to know what kind of things that I could do that would matter most to her, so she won't be apprehensive about being with me again.

Here's your best bet to make things happen (from what I read and in my opinion):

First ask her out to a movie or something in person. Movies are good because you don't have to make conversation.

If she brings up awkward things that happened in the past (which she probably won't), just apologize and ask her again. Tell her it'll be fun.

Doesn't cost you anything to ask. It's worth a shot, just do it.

 

[mrkab00m]

once you lose trust it is gone forever. This is why you be honest with the ones you love.

That's reassuring.

 

[CyberPitz]

Just talk to her in a normal fasion. She apparently didn't like you as much as she should have if she just stopped liking you when you were a bit awkward...

Just have a conversation with her..have more if you can!

 

[Tollbooth Willie]

This is like Pictionary!

What we have so far:
You're a horny dramatic teenager
You used to date this girl but don't any more
You don't want to be alone
It has something to do with "sitting" with her (???)
It has something to do with her friends
You lied to us

Oh my gawsh, is the answer "Chesterfield Hopper"??? Do I win... the PRIZE?!

Yes you win a prize! HERE'S YOUR GOD DAMN COOKIE!

And I'm kinda in a similar situation. Really sweet girl, happens to be friends g/f's sista long story whats going on right there location yadda yadda yadda.... Watching this movie with friends she comes sits with by me and just right off holds ahnds with me and I really became mute for the rest of the night. yadda yadda yadda. She probably feels I don't like her now. My advice. Next time don't **** up. If you act awkward and don't go wit da flow, then NO cake for you!....... Ya know what I don't know what I'm even talking about anymore it's ****ing late good ****ing night everyone good ****ing luck.......... **** I've lost it.

EDIT: Or just give her a goddamn cookie!

 

[CyberPitz]

Yes you win a prize! HERE'S YOUR GOD DAMN COOKIE!

And I'm kinda in a similar situation. Really sweet girl, happens to be friends g/f's sista long story whats going on right there location yadda yadda yadda.... Watching this movie with friends she comes sits with by me and just right off holds ahnds with me and I really became mute for the rest of the night. yadda yadda yadda. She probably feels I don't like her now. My advice. Next time don't **** up. If you act awkward and don't go wit da flow, then cake for you!....... Ya know what I don't know what I'm even talking about anymore it's ****ing late good ****ing night everyone good ****ing luck.......... **** I've lost it.

EDIT: Or just give her a goddamn cookie!

****!!!

 

[Yuri]

Handjob under the table. Works every time.

 

[Tollbooth Willie]

****!!!

****? WHAT THE **** DO YOU MEAN ****?! :frown:

 

[Nat Turner]

A lot of girls are odd.. do one thing they don't like, and a little flip might switch in their head that makes them dislike you or not want to date anymore. And sometimes there's no turning back, or they don't like you in the first place for whatever reason. *shrug*

Personally, I don't want a girlfriend right now. It would be an unnecessary distraction from my schoolwork and a burden. But if I wanted to, I'd just ask out lots of different girls I meet, until one inevitably would say yes. Worked well enough in the past. One was actually indecisive until later, and then when she asked me out I had to turn her down. Damn shame.

 

[Glirk Dient]

Girls aren't that hard to get. Assuming you put forth as much effort to look good as they do then the intial attraction isn't much of a problem. It is easy after that really. Just remember to be confident. After the initial attraction it's pretty much 75% confidence and 25% what you say. So basically remain confident because girls are attracted to that like flies to that zappy thing. So don't act akward because that's always a big turn off for them. If ya need any more help just ask or PM me...I can go on forever and im sure half the things you wanna know probally aren't appropriate to make a topic about anyway heh. I could even give ya a few sites to help.

 

[Yuri]

Remember: All girls are exactly the same and can be wooed using a simple formula. :angel:

 

[CyberPitz]

Remember: All girls are exactly the same and can be wooed using a simple formula. :angel:

Remember, My awesome quote in my sig.

Thanks Sulkdodds

 

[mrkab00m]

Girls aren't that hard to get. Assuming you put forth as much effort to look good as they do then the intial attraction isn't much of a problem. It is easy after that really. Just remember to be confident. After the initial attraction it's pretty much 75% confidence and 25% what you say. So basically remain confident because girls are attracted to that like flies to that zappy thing. So don't act akward because that's always a big turn off for them. If ya need any more help just ask or PM me...I can go on forever and im sure half the things you wanna know probally aren't appropriate to make a topic about anyway heh. I could even give ya a few sites to help.

That's really useful, thank you. :E

 

[Nat Turner]

That's really useful, thank you. :E

Yeah, past that there's not much you can do. Try not to get too worked up about it either. Getting certain girls to do stuff with you is often out of your control, regardless of your effort.

 

[Sulkdodds]

Talk with her openly and honestly? /me shrugs

 

[Absinthe]

Kick her in the ****.

Women are fickle beings and chances are you're going to be cockteased indefinitely or will simply move on.

 

[bigburpco]

Impress her with a scary Shens-type mentality.

 

[mortiz]

I wish we could rate threads...

Anyway, this thread is lame */**********.

 

[The Brick]

Link her to this thread, she'll understand

(I'm not saying that's a good thing)