What type of family do you have?

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Just curious as to what type of family you all have? And whether you were accidents?

I live with my mother and that's it. I've never met my old man (he took off before I was born), and the one brother my mother had when I was 9 died at 14 weeks old. Oh, and I was an accident :(
 
DEATH eVADER said:
What do you mean you were an accident

Did you Mother and Father plan you birth is what I meant.
 
I was an accident, but I have a great relationship with both my parents and they don't make me feel as though I shouldn't have been born.
 
my parents are old school european which means no matter what, you stay together till death ....even though as a kid I often wished they'd get a divorce

I have my own family now and will stay together for the rest of my life ...having a child will have one of two effects: either an overwhelming desire to run, or an overwhelming desire to raise your kid


btw sorry to hear about your brother ...as a new parent losing a kid at 14 weeks must have been brutal
 
My sister did not plan for my little nephew, but now at Six years old, he is a chirpy Chappy
 
:dozey: My family is OKAY. My oldest brother which is 23 has 3 children yep.... he had a boy 16, a girl at like 20, and my sister in law just gave birth to a another baby early July, I forget. I don't know how to describe my family's all around relationship, I guess we're normal- we dispute, we love each other nothing out of the norm. Well, actually my bro's back in their high school days would do some bad stuff, but manage to succeed in school, in my case I suck at school.
 
I have a ****ed up one...thats my family.
 
I have a pretty big family.
My mom's a home-maker, stay at home mom. She has her BS, but she never used it to get a job. Namely because, after she got married, she jumped right into making babies! 500 of them, ooommppphhh!

No, seriously, I have 4 siblings. I'm the youngest. Oldest is 25.
She's always been a stay at home mom, while my dad brings home the bacon, so to speak. My family is awesome, and we all talk to eachother all the time, despite most of it living in different areas (my one sister, who's married now, lives in Ireland, for instance. While my other sister is teaching English in China)
 
I<3 my family.

I have my mom who is a home-maker an older brother who just graduated highschool with a scholorship to play football at a college and then theres me.
 
i'm Catholic so i have a large fam. they rock so much. i totally <3 my family. Jimmy(me), Eddie, Mary, Timmy, Charlie, Marty, and Joe - all my siblings, plus my awesome parents. i have a good relationship with my parents(i call them once a week). Having a large family is so much fun. I love coming home and seeing how they've grown up. We're so different but interesting.
 
I'm an only child, with an alcoholic father who is getting kicked out soon, and a mom who works.

Not a great family. but, as long as my dad is leaving, things are looking up.
 
I'm an accident, or a "suprise" as my mother puts it. My dad's birthday is December 5th, mine is September 3rd, not hard to figure out.
 
CyberSh33p said:
I'm an only child, with an alcoholic father who is getting kicked out soon, and a mom who works.

Not a great family. but, as long as my dad is leaving, things are looking up.

:-\

Listen to "Styrofoam Plates" by Death Cab for Cutie

...even if he isn't dead, yet...
 
Hmm, well I wasn't an accident. I have a sister 2 years older than me. If my mom hadn't had a miscarriage before me, then I might not even be here (kinda weird to think about). As for the way things are now, well, I don't really talk to my parents, or my sister. So I guess it's not particularly bad, but it's not really that great either. Actually it's kind of weird hearing about people who talk to their family all the time. I never really had anything like that, but it sort of feels normal now; as in, if my parents or sister just out of nowhere tried to start talking to me about anything really important, it would feel really strange.
 
I guess I have a normal family. I have 3 siblings, 1 older brother and 2 younger sisters. I am pretty close with them I guess, we talk and stuf. We have our arguments and disputes but who doesnt? My mom stays at home, and I will be the 2nd to leave the house this summer to go off to college. My brother is moving out to California on a mission too, so my parents are kinda bummed about us kids leaving, but my sisters are handfulls anyway. And I wouldnt say I was so much an accident as not planned. My parents wanted to have more children, just not so soon, but I guess it all worked out.
 
:dozey: Oh yeah, I forgot to mention. I was not an accident, more like a misconception, haha. My parents had my 2 brothers, they thought it was time to have a girl... they tried their luck, my Mom actually thought I was a girl for awhile while she was pregnant, or more like making herself think this. Man, my parents especially my mom are the funniest.
 
DreamThrall said:
:-\

Listen to "Styrofoam Plates" by Death Cab for Cutie

...even if he isn't dead, yet...
yeah, thats one of my favorite songs right now :)
 
ailevation said:
my Mom actually thought I was a girl for awhile while she was pregnant, or more like making herself think this.
My parents thought I was going to be a girl up until a few weeks before I was born and decided to think of a boys name "just in case"
 
One brother, Older, 23, Asshole.

Dad, Asshole.

Mom, Bible thumper.


Fin. :dozey:
 
Normal family.

Everything is great. I'm 15 years old and my brother is 12. My dad owns a construction business and my mom works at the hospital. We get along just great. I love my family. I couldn't ask for anything better. :stare:

*go awwww.*
 
Both my parents are civil engineers. My Dad was the chief mechanical engineer of the Canada arm 1, and my Mother also worked on the project. Now they own their own companies and do contract work. I have never seen any problems between them that would make them split up and I am happy about it.

My younger brother is a jackass most of the time but he is still a good kid.

We are a happy family but if anyone knows a few engineers you will know that there is a limit to how normal your life can be if one of your parents are engineers, then of course its worse when both of them are.
 
I am an accident.

My father is gay.

My overreligious mother is now married to another overreiligious guy.

Still love them though.
 
I have one brother and my mum. My dad died a couple of years ago.

That was kinda a shit time really but I am fine now. Since then I have moved to an entirely new part of the country (I was in nottingham) and met a whole new bunch of really cool people. :) (Geordies are quality!)

I get along well with my brother. We fight now and again, but thats brothers for you I guess. :p

I get along good with my mum too. Thank god. I would really hate to fall out with her. :(
 
I am sorry to hear everyones not so desirable pasts. I hope you all have a much more happy future. I know what alot of its like. Just remember to keep going and it does get better.
 
SHIPPI said:
My family's pretty crap, tbh. I'm the youngest, at 15, and the eldest is 30. It feels like I'm an only child. Both my parents work from 10 - 7 in the jewellers we own, so I'm pretty lonely. I've only got one friend who lives near me too, but we're good mates so that's alright. My mum hates my dad, and wishes she had never married him, and she secretly wants a divorce... and my dad is always stressed, and when he gets angry he destoys things. Things like doors. So, yeah.

:dozey: I also feel like I am an only child sometimes, because my other bros are older and moved out. My parents also have a busy schedule as my mom is a secretary for a broaching company known as Acro. Broach. My Dad works for the government sort of, it's a transport service like city transits, but it's only for people with memberships and his job is tight because he picks all his work shifts and stuff, but he happens to want to work all day to reel in that dough ;) . Sometimes I am lonely, but most of the time I have the house all to myself, I usually go out a lot as well as my parents are too busy to care :naughty: .
 
my parents had an arranged marraige and the funny thing about that is that they DON'T fight, they get along really well, which in turn freaks me out a little. i have an older brother who i'm closer to than anyone on this earth we all like the EXACT same games, watch the EXACT same shows, man we might as well be twins.
 
I love my family. They are great. I am homeschooled so I have a wonderful relationship with my mom. My family is Christian, and rich. My dad is great, and I love him and my mom very much. It's perfect.. One thing I hate, though, is that I am not allowed to have a girlfriend. The door to my endless happiness is locked.
 
I have a good family life now. Things weren't always smooth though. My Mother comes from a very religious background. She lived with eight brothers and sisters and my grandparents who are from Ireland. She had certain ideals drilled into her at a young age, and for a long time could not accept the fact that I was gay. My dad had a really odd childhood. His father was a drunk, and his mother (my grandma, who is the sweetest woman I know) wasn't around much. His father was also a bigot in every sense of the word (seriously, he hated black people, Jewish people, gay people, everyone really :p). My dad turned out alright though, and although he had the same problems with me for a while, things have really cleared up now. My sister is a wonderful kid. I've never known anyone quite as giving as she. She has a heart of gold. Basically I have a family that I love, and receive love from in return. Things are quite good between us now.
 
qckbeam said:
I have a good family life now. Things weren't always smooth though. My Mother comes from a very religious background. She lived with eight brothers and sisters and my grandparents who are from Ireland. She had certain ideals drilled into her at a young age, and for a long time could not accept the fact that I was gay. My dad had a really odd childhood. His father was a drunk, and his mother (my grandma, who is the sweetest woman I know) wasn't around much. His father was also a bigot in every sense of the word (seriously, he hated black people, Jewish people, gay people, everyone really :p). My dad turned out alright though, and although he had the same problems with me for a while, things have really cleared up now. My sister is a wonderful kid. I've never known anyone quite as giving as she. She has a heart of gold. Basically I have a family that I love, and receive love from in return. Things are quite good between us now.

hope your not a drag-queen like the dude from big brother
 
qckbeam said:
I have a good family life now. Things weren't always smooth though. My Mother comes from a very religious background. She lived with eight brothers and sisters and my grandparents who are from Ireland. She had certain ideals drilled into her at a young age, and for a long time could not accept the fact that I was gay. My dad had a really odd childhood. His father was a drunk, and his mother (my grandma, who is the sweetest woman I know) wasn't around much. His father was also a bigot in every sense of the word (seriously, he hated black people, Jewish people, gay people, everyone really :p). My dad turned out alright though, and although he had the same problems with me for a while, things have really cleared up now. My sister is a wonderful kid. I've never known anyone quite as giving as she. She has a heart of gold. Basically I have a family that I love, and receive love from in return. Things are quite good between us now.


Glad to hear it turned out great. :)
 
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