Whoa I think I have my first stalker/guy who wants to kill me!

mchammer75040

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Umm yea Im seriously fearing for my life right now...well kinda. Alright first off to those who dont know Im bisexual, so yea...anyways I met this guy named nick he was a really cool guy, real sweet (omg did i say sweet? i feel 80% gayer now) but we were just friends we didnt do anything.
I thought everything was cool he was bi im bi and we were friends, but then I met this other guy named tommy(lol i sound like a slut dont I?). I ended up really liking him and so were dating now (oh god im gonna get flammed by the immature 10 yr olds), so I told nick and nick flipped out. Once I told him he turned from this real gentle guy into a complete f*cking psycho.
He tried to play it off doing the whole "oh no im alright dont worry about me..." but then turns around doing stupid pitty shit like "just promise me one thing..that your happy...i can leave a happy man". He then went on about his hatred inside for the world, and this is where it gets kinda scary, I copyed this part from a disscusion on yahoo I didnt use the real names so noone harasses him/me:
[we were talkin about him wanting to be a rapper right here before this so I think thats what he means by expressing it..i hope]

Nick:I have alot of bent up hate and anger for the world, and ive got to find a way to express it
Me: well eh better than killing someone...like me :|
Nick: your gonna hate me real soon, watch
Me: Whys that?
Nick: ...when we first met i told you i was a ass...
Me: uhh what?...not really...what is your f*ckin problem
Nick: you just run off when another guy comes around but whatever
Nick: well youll see what i mean, you know this is gonna be the last time we can talk like this right?
Me: dude..wtf..
Nick: anyways im gonna go workout til i get tired i guess
Nick: the asshole has left the building
**Nick logs out**
**me blocks nick**

Im kinda freakin but what exactly he means by "youll see what I mean", and he knows where i live too. I dont know what kind of a response Im wanting to get from this but eh Im freakin lol so I thought Id poor it out on your poor souls.
 
Seems to me he is really asking for attention, calling himself an asshole, nothing more than saying "hey I'm really st00pid and angry, don't pay attention to me, I'm an ass and by the way be afwaid... be vewy afwaid....."

I understand that you're a bit shook up, but just ignore this guy. There's nothing you can do about this behaviour, he needs to get a life/grow up
 
DeusEx2 said:
Seems to me he is really asking for attention, calling himself an asshole, nothing more than saying "hey I'm really st00pid and angry, don't pay attention to me, I'm an ass and by the way be afwaid... be vewy afwaid....."

I understand that you're a bit shook up, but just ignore this guy. There's nothing you can do about this behaviour, he needs to get a life/grow up

Yea he does, Im just kinda worried of what he will do he said himself that he has a anger problem so eh. And yea he does need to act his age..hes 20 (Im 18) and he acts like a f*ckin 10 yr old. I donno I guess he makes it all up in his mind too cause we never did anything, argh boys... :rolleyes:
 
is he a very big guy? cause u could always just beat the shit out of him if he tries anything.
 
i know this is some off topic yea but i dont really wanna read about your gay relations
 
"Hey? Wheres Hammer? He hasn't been around much lately."
If he comes to get you just handle it Home Alone style.
 
mchammer75040 said:
Nick: your gonna hate me real soon, watch
Me: Whys that?
Nick: ...when we first met i told you i was a ass...

Doesn't that line imply He's not gonna kill you? If he did how could you hate him anymore? It only says He's going to be an ass.. Whatever that means.

I always thought in relationships with women it couldn't get anymore confusing. Guess I stand corrected.. :upstare:
 
I'd confront him, just make it clear you didn't intend to hurt him. It may get violent but it's better than living in fear.
 
Shame you live in the US if you lived in the Uk I could help you out with this fool. For a price of course. :hmph:
If it carrys on get yourself a 30000 volt stun gun and zap his arse if he comes anywhere near you.
Are you the only gay in the village? (UK joke, no offense)
 
eh he sounds like he's gonna do something stupid. either that or he's pulling your leg.
 
fishymumma said:
i know this is some off topic yea but i dont really wanna read about your gay relations

Don't read it then moron, people have problems too, no matter what kind of person they are. You sir are a spammer.
 
Don't act scared around him and don't act like your a big man. Don't confront him, let him confront you.
 
lol coz i know it was about gays before i read it init :/
 
I really wouldn't worry about it. He made such a big deal about doing something stupid in your conversation that it looks more like he's trying to get your attention rather than harm you. If he was planning to harm you I doubt he'd give you any forewarning. Just keep your distance, and I'm sure it'll be fine :)

fishymumma said:
lol coz i know it was about gays before i read it init :/

why are you still here? And what exactly is wrong with this thread? Have you ever seen anybody post in one of the various threads dealing with straight relationships saying something like "I really don't want to hear about your heterosexual relationships"?
 
Leave it fishy.... theres no difference between talking about a gay stalker and a straight one in my opinion

OH yea and to be honest he sounds like a 1337 ha><0r guy, with empty threats etc..
 
fishymumma said:
lol coz i know it was about gays before i read it init :/

Well you know now so why continue to post in here and judging by your activity on the forum reading this thread often? :)

If you don't like it, don't look, complaining about it isn't going to do anything.
 
OMG!!!!!111 OMG!!!!1 f0cK1n f4GzZ0R!!! *falmeing 10 year old* :P no im just kiddin with u pal :D
 
Lol, thats really weird and sad. So he thinks ur a gay whore. ummm yeah I cant say I relate in the least bit but tell someone like Assis. Principle
 
Why feel threatened? Aren't you a man? You must not fear anyone. If he attacks you, just fight dirty. It is your life, after all. Kick him in his balls HARD. And if he does get the upper hand on you, let him beat you up, then take him to court and send his crazy ass to jail.
 
JonTheCanuck said:
is he a very big guy? cause u could always just beat the shit out of him if he tries anything.

Umm yea hes like 220 6'2 and Im 5'6 140

Anyways thanks for the advice guys, I dont think he will do anything but you never know. Oh and this community kicks ass, I was sure people were gonna be like "oh god noone wants to hear about this.." but there was only one. I love the community!!1 :thumbs: If anything happens Ill let you guys know.
 
LittleB said:
Why feel threatened? Aren't you a man? You must not fear anyone. If he attacks you, just fight dirty. It is your life, after all. Kick him in his balls HARD. And if he does get the upper hand on you, let him beat you up, then take him to court and send his crazy ass to jail.

I have no problem with fighting heheh Im in JKD kickboxing so Im no sissy, but Im just worried as to what he will actually do. Ive only known him for like 2 months I barely know the guy for all I know he could come with a gun or do something really dumb or do somethin to tommy, since he knows him aswell.


EDIT: Im off to work all, be back in a few hours.
 
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