First and foremost you want to resist the temptation to discuss your mother. I know this will be difficult. Secondly, don't let her notice your clammy palms - you are more than likely sweating profusely at this point. Do your best to feign aloofness; broads love to feel like they need to prove...
No, stern was right. The prosecution wanted him dead.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zacarias_Moussaoui#Death_penalty_and_sentencing
edit: sorry for stepping on your shoes stern, should have know you could handle the matter.