Am I being a girl?

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Thought I'd ask some of you here, I have a question-

See, my best friend lives a state away we love each other, we don't consider ourselves dating, but we are "committed", meaning, we wont date anyone else.
I am going to go to school in her state (no, not because of her) so we do intend on eventually starting a full blown relationship.

Well, I finally got to see her last sunday, first time in over a year!

And we cuddled, I was very happy, it was nice.
Cuddling is something very special for me, I love it pretty much more than anything(even sex). So I felt very warm and gay inside once I left.

So she has this friend, she doesnt like him, but for kicks I asked if she had ever cuddled with him while we were "committed" and she said "once".

And to me, that was such a let down, my warm gayness of happy cuddle was gone. I no longer felt like a special gay cuddle bear.

She appologized repeatedly, and she said she didnt know cuddling is such a personal thing to me, and that she wont do that again. I forgave her of course.


But am I making a big deal out of this? Or is it justified that I should feel so dissapointed?
 
Yeah, it was a bit girly to go into detail, but no it's not girly to be a bit disappointed about it.
 
lol no she didnt, she just didnt know cuddling was an intimate thing
 
lol, I am not gay, I said it was a "she". I am bisexual however, which probably explains my unnessisary womanly feelings...
 
zombieturtle01 said:
Thought I'd ask some of you here, I have a question-

See, my best friend lives a state away we love each other, we don't consider ourselves dating, but we are "committed", meaning, we wont date anyone else.
I am going to go to school in her state (no, not because of her) so we do intend on eventually starting a full blown relationship.

Well, I finally got to see her last sunday, first time in over a year!

And we cuddled, I was very happy, it was nice.
Cuddling is something very special for me, I love it pretty much more than anything(even sex). So I felt very warm and gay inside once I left.

So she has this friend, she doesnt like him, but for kicks I asked if she had ever cuddled with him while we were "committed" and she said "once".

And to me, that was such a let down, my warm gayness of happy cuddle was gone. I no longer felt like a special gay cuddle bear.

She appologized repeatedly, and she said she didnt know cuddling is such a personal thing to me, and that she wont do that again. I forgave her of course.


But am I making a big deal out of this? Or is it justified that I should feel so dissapointed?
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Yeah, you're being a big ****ing pussy. If I give your girlfriend a hug and lay on the grass with her and talk about clouds and birds, am I having any sort of sexual affair with her?

No.

Really, define "cuddling". Is it hugging and talking about shit? Is it akin to fondling, necking, and petting?
 
sinkoman said:
Yeah, you're being a big ****ing pussy. If I give your girlfriend a hug and lay on the grass with her and talk about clouds and birds, am I having any sort of sexual affair with her?

No.
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T_T *crys* No, like cuddling is when you lay your head on someone's chest, and your arms are rapped around each other, etc, etc. And your all snuggly wuggly warm like a bunch of kittens.


wow, i am gay
 
Cuddling carries the rank stench of fucking fail.
 
zombieturtle01 said:
T_T *crys* No, like cuddling is when you lay your head on someone's chest, and your arms are rapped around each other, etc, etc. And your all snuggly wuggly warm like a bunch of kittens.


wow, i am gay
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Well, unless she's a really celibate person, i'd still say no.

I know this one chick who's got to be the flirtiest little thing around, and she does exactly that with her friends (guys btw), without exerting any sort of sexual desire for said "friends".
 
I guess it depends on who you are, but cuddling is pretty intimate to me... more so than making out... everyone f*cking makes out...
 
TCfromBN said:
Probably my most euphoric experience was cuddling with a girl I truly loved.
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I must agree. I've never been high, but when I cuddle, I just get the best care free feeling ever.
I am a very alert and rigid person, but cuddling is one of the only things that can really, really calm me down, and just make me feel completely care free and happy.

DeusExMachina said:
...yo, where do you live, wanna hang out...
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hehe, are you a rapist? I don't live in NJ though.
 
zombieturtle01 said:
I must agree. I've never been high, but when I cuddle or spoon, I just get the best care free feeling ever.
I am a very alert and rigid person, but cuddling is one of the only things that can really, really calm me down, and just make me feel completely care free and happy.
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Ok, so we just went from "lying down and hugging", to "dropping my balls into the palm of her hand".

Two different subjects methinks.

If anything though, just ask her if she's in a romantic relationship with that guy. If she says no, then forget about it.

I mean, ffs, she cares about you enough to be honest with you about it.
 
spooning isnt dropping your balls into someones hand! Well there could be a sexual term for it, but the non sexual term of spooning is a lot like cuddling, except you rap your arms around them from behind, so it makes the two people spoons, like how you put away spoons in a drawer.

I swear, it's in the dictionary, but I'll take it out incase people confuse it with dropping balls into someones hand
 
zombieturtle01 said:
spooning isnt dropping your balls into someones hand! Well there could be a sexual term for it, but the non sexual term of spooning is a lot like cuddling, except you rap your arms around them from behind, so it makes the two people spoons, like how you put away spoons in a drawer.

I swear, it's in the dictionary, but I'll take it out incase people confuse it with dropping balls into someones hand
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In any case, my argument remains. She loves you enough to have been honest with you when asked if she had engaged in any sort of relationship with another man, so i'd say just drop it.
 
I wish my arms could rap. Shit. That would be ****ing epic.

Oh. You meant wrap. Nevermind...
 
sinkoman said:
In any case, my argument remains. She loves you enough to have been honest with you when asked if she had engaged in any sort of relationship with another man, so i'd say just drop it.
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it's like this-
grandson: "Hey, grandpa gave me one of grandma's special necklaces, he said because I am great grandson! He must really like me, I must be special!"
grandpa: "er... actually I gave the other one to a dude at the thrift store... its not that special"

it's just.... dissapointing


you are a very demanding and angry man sinkoman. But *sigh* yes father, I guess your right.
 
I'm pretty sure "dropping your balls into someone's hand" is just called "dropping your balls into someone's hand". Zombie is right, spooning has nothing to do with that.

And as much as I'd like to call you out for being kind of a pussy, I realize that each person's idea of what it means to be intimate or sexual is different from the next, so it's not fair of me to say anything like that. Though if I were in your position, I wouldn't give it a second thought, since she did it without knowing what it meant to you.
 
If she was being honest about not knowing what it meant to you, just freakin' forget it. Stop moaping and get over it.

However, if she cuddled with the dude to spite you, I think you owe someone a huge bitch slap.
 
co05 said:
If she was being honest about not knowing what it meant to you, just freakin' forget it. Stop moaping and get over it.

However, if she cuddled with the dude to spite you, I think you owe someone a huge bitch slap.
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nah, she didnt know
 
Dude, I wish I could get some cuddling.

...maybe not from turtle though.
 
>.>
<.<

lemme see a pic first.

no, really, don't lemme see a pic.
 
I'm probably on the same boat. Cuddling just...it ****ing rocks. Throw in some making out and cuddling and you got yourself a very nice afternoon.
 
I think I'm doing it wrong. Am I supposed to pay the girl AFTER we cuddle?
 
DeusExMachina said:
I'm probably on the same boat. Cuddling just...it ****ing rocks. Throw in some making out and cuddling and you got yourself a very nice afternoon.
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indeed, and you can stretch cuddling out to like, 3 hours, take a 30 minute break, and cuddle again
 
dam you people whit your cudle and teletubies ideals

you make me sick
 
aw, RJMC, don't be jealous it's okay, you can cuddle with me and Que-Ever.

I am pretty hot too-
 
I dont touch people,I have a mental condition that makes me believe that touching people is dangerous,suposedly hapened when I was 5 and touched my granparent while he was sleeping,and them when my grandparent woke he started to scream and moan and died from a heart attack,but it made me think I kill people by touching it,thats why I visit so many psicologists,and thats why I hate them so much
 
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