hydrometeor
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this is stuff i learned over the years as a woman, and i thought i would share!!
1) The older men are the more they have perfected their act. They learn from what has tripped them up in the past and they are smart enough to adapt their actions in order to not get caught.
2) Men are masters at manipulation and mirroring their target's values. If you like to sky dive, guess what...they like to too! If you are a Christian, conincidentally they are too! That's way any dating site like eHarmony where you openly disclose your likes, your dislikes, your must haves and can't stands are perfect places for men to look for their ripe apple to pick from the tree.
3) men have been known to lie about condoms... Truthfully, men DO NOT ENJOY WEARING CONDOMS, and MANY will do ANYTHING to get out of wearing one.
4) Never give a man money.
5) Never give a man your address.
6) Never give a man access to your children.
7) Never, EVER let a man use your body for a receptacle for their diseased fluids until you are SURE that this man is a) not married (if they are divorced ask for the papers) b)doesn't have an std (make him get a medical test) c) You have met any ex wives and children (you will learn a lot from interacting with them) d)Doesn't have a history of cheating (google them and see what appears and also listen carefuly to how they portray their previous women in relationships)
8) NEVER BELIEVE A MAN when He says he has a NEW TYPE OF COOKNG OIL. BREAK UP WITH HIM ASAP! I wil not go into detail but to me here OK??
9) Having a restraining order does not keep you safe, its a piece of paper. I shows that you went though the legal steps, and are playing fair. The most important thing in keeping safe is to be aware of your surroundings at all times. Do not let anyone approace you if you are alone, this includes aquanitces. ( I'm not an expert, or a police officer. My experience comes from being a crime victim. It was about 1988 that I was attacked by someone I sort of knew. He grabbed me and held me at gun point. I fought, He threw away the gun (not loaded), and pulled out a knife. I still fought, and screamed. I was stabbed several times, and bit. My screaming was what saved me. People in the apartment came to help me. I wish I had thanked them , but I didn't. )
Of course, this will narrow down the possibilities because MANY men will fail these simple screenings. That's the way it is. Then the ones that do pass this are worthy of your philosophy of trusting them until they prove they are not who they pretend to be.
GOOD LUCK OUT THERE FOR U ALL IN THE SCARY WORLD OF DATING!!!!! I HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
1) The older men are the more they have perfected their act. They learn from what has tripped them up in the past and they are smart enough to adapt their actions in order to not get caught.
2) Men are masters at manipulation and mirroring their target's values. If you like to sky dive, guess what...they like to too! If you are a Christian, conincidentally they are too! That's way any dating site like eHarmony where you openly disclose your likes, your dislikes, your must haves and can't stands are perfect places for men to look for their ripe apple to pick from the tree.
3) men have been known to lie about condoms... Truthfully, men DO NOT ENJOY WEARING CONDOMS, and MANY will do ANYTHING to get out of wearing one.
4) Never give a man money.
5) Never give a man your address.
6) Never give a man access to your children.
7) Never, EVER let a man use your body for a receptacle for their diseased fluids until you are SURE that this man is a) not married (if they are divorced ask for the papers) b)doesn't have an std (make him get a medical test) c) You have met any ex wives and children (you will learn a lot from interacting with them) d)Doesn't have a history of cheating (google them and see what appears and also listen carefuly to how they portray their previous women in relationships)
8) NEVER BELIEVE A MAN when He says he has a NEW TYPE OF COOKNG OIL. BREAK UP WITH HIM ASAP! I wil not go into detail but to me here OK??
9) Having a restraining order does not keep you safe, its a piece of paper. I shows that you went though the legal steps, and are playing fair. The most important thing in keeping safe is to be aware of your surroundings at all times. Do not let anyone approace you if you are alone, this includes aquanitces. ( I'm not an expert, or a police officer. My experience comes from being a crime victim. It was about 1988 that I was attacked by someone I sort of knew. He grabbed me and held me at gun point. I fought, He threw away the gun (not loaded), and pulled out a knife. I still fought, and screamed. I was stabbed several times, and bit. My screaming was what saved me. People in the apartment came to help me. I wish I had thanked them , but I didn't. )
Of course, this will narrow down the possibilities because MANY men will fail these simple screenings. That's the way it is. Then the ones that do pass this are worthy of your philosophy of trusting them until they prove they are not who they pretend to be.
GOOD LUCK OUT THERE FOR U ALL IN THE SCARY WORLD OF DATING!!!!! I HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
