Does having sex early in a relationship make for badness?

Does it?

  • Yes

    Votes: 30 50.8%

  • No

    Votes: 29 49.2%
  • Total voters
    59
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Just curious. Do you think having a relationship for a short amount of time *1 weekish* and then having sex with said partner make for a negative relationship and do you think it would effect their judgement to break up with you?
 
Depends how good you are

So, if i were you, i'd be worried (lawl, p0wned)
 
*Vegeta begins filming*
This is a rare moment, Ikerous and CyberPitz alone in a thread about sex...
Let's see some action!
 
i say don't have sex that soon. I never do because it cheapens in the relationship and secondly because without even saying a word you can show the girl that you are with them for other reasons besides blow jobs. That's just me though.
 
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Oh shit, I'm going to make millions.
*Zooms in*

In all seriousness, it depends on the girl. If she seems like the type of person who would want that, then the answer is no it wouldn't be bad. Tough part is finding out what type of girl she is.
 
I believe this pic helps

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Lol to who actually drew it in the first place.
 
Sex too early in a relationship, if you want to be serious in the relationship, is a bad thing in my opinion.

If you just want a fling, then by all means, go ahead(make sure they're not disease ridden, though).

However, if you want the sex to be meaningful, and the relationship as a whole to feel the best, you should wait until you absolutely love the person. Don't worry about engagement, don't worry about marriage. Worry about the moment that the two of you fall in love, and admit your love for each other. That moment, if you decide to have sex, will be far more magical and memorable than if you just had sex because you two were lusty at the time.
 
I normally wait more, even if I'm am man. When you really like the girl, you wait. Even if she/he are sexually active, a week is too soon; it make it seems like you are just boyfriends so you can have "legal" sex ( having sex with your boyfriend doesn't make you a slut, or easy girl)
 
Yeah, well,...I had sex with said girl pretty quick. We had no intentions in it, just things got out of hand while we were alone. The sad thing is, she's been distant every since...and well, I really like her, and I was hoping to spend quite a while with her.

This just reminds me of my first love, we had sex after 8 months of dating, and every time we would have sex, she would get VERY VERY distant from me, and then she would confess that she never wanted to do it again since it was against Gods teachings and such. Well, a few weeks later, we would have sex again *although we called it 'Making Love'..* and the same thing would happen. She would end up blaming and resenting *sp?* me for it. I have a feeling that's how this relationship is going to go, though I don't want it to.

Maybe it's all for the better...
 
I wouldn't say it should be a problem. I mean, it only cheapens it if you think it does, if she thinks it does.
 
Hmm it depends on what you think really, no one else can rele say, if you both want to n you're ready, i personally think its better to wait, know the person well and be in love with them before you have sex bt thts just me. I think if you want a long term thing tho its better to wait coz then the relationship builds up and its something to look forward to and it'll be more special when u do. Tho saying tht two of my friends are still together after a year n a half and they had sex like two weeks after they started going out.
 
ComradeBadger said:
Me, I like to go for it asap :p
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Lol you just go up to a girl you like and say:
"Panties. Down. Now."

:p

Depends on the person, though
 
Lolzors at Badge and Beerdude! :D

On-Topic - Speak to her Pitzy baby, see how she feels. As you said it was one night, a bit out of hand, she may not have been ready for it to happen that early in the relationship

Personally, if both parties want to do it near the start of the relationaship, then go for it. However, if the girl wants to give it time (like mine does) then you gotta decide if you are willing to wait and have a relationship, or if you are just in it for a shag. Me, im in this one cos i love her, simple as. Would love to have sex asap, but i respect her and ain't gonna rush her.

So Pitzy, talk to her and find out how she feels, only way
 
Evo said:
Lolzors at Badge and Beerdude! :D

On-Topic - Speak to her Pitzy baby, see how she feels. As you said it was one night, a bit out of hand, she may not have been ready for it to happen that early in the relationship

Personally, if both parties want to do it near the start of the relationaship, then go for it. However, if the girl wants to give it time (like mine does) then you gotta decide if you are willing to wait and have a relationship, or if you are just in it for a shag. Me, im in this one cos i love her, simple as. Would love to have sex asap, but i respect her and ain't gonna rush her.

So Pitzy, talk to her and find out how she feels, only way
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Then, buy one of these for her valentine: Link (Not safe for work)
 
If you get a girl in bed after 1 week of dating, you're pretty damn good.
 
A week isn't a short amount of time...
 
Hate to tell you but, if you don't have sex within like the first few days (up to a week) you probably never will.
 
VirusType2 said:
Hate to tell you but, if you don't have sex within like the first few days (up to a week) you probably never will.
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um... How so?
 
VirusType2 said:
Hate to tell you but, if you don't have sex within like the first few days (up to a week) you probably never will.
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That's the model that, after use, burns "halflife2.net owns you" into the lining of her vagina.
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That has a lightsaber handle... I wonder if it makes lightsaber sound effects while "in use"



um... How so?
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its just, in my experience, if you she doesn't want to sleep with you immediately, shes not going to want to sleep with you later.
 
That's odd. I mean, in my experience, waiting a bit has always made it better. Just getting to know her more, making sure she's cool with everything, etc. etc... then you strike hard and true.

:D
 
VirusType2 said:
Hate to tell you but, if you don't have sex within like the first few days (up to a week) you probably never will.
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Maybe you should try looking for girls who aren't sluts, there is more to a relationship than sex.....



Oh, who the f*ck am I kidding. Hit that shit as much and as often as possible.
 
Look, the key here is the word "relationship". When I want pussy, I will go for pussy, period. But a long term relationship is a much more precious thing than a brief encounter.
 
JNightshade said:
Look, the key here is the word "relationship". When I want pussy, I will go for pussy, period. But a long term relationship is a much more precious thing than a brief encounter.
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But what if it turns into a "relationshit"?
 
Well, then too bad. Just, in my experience, when you're going for a real relationship, it's better not to focus on the physical. Dating someone for who they are is better than dating someone 'cause you want to get laid.
 
JNightshade said:
Look, the key here is the word "relationship". When I want pussy, I will go for pussy, period. But a long term relationship is a much more precious thing than a brief encounter.
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Does it make me a bad person that I initially read that as "a beef encounter"?
 
No, actually. It makes you a real meat-lovin' man. :D

...or would that be D:?
 
I'd think less of the girl, not necessarily in a bad way (although if circumstances are right it will be bad) but in a way of counting out all possible relationship issues and considering it a hookup or something.

I'm tired of that stuff though, I want a long loving relationship now. I miss it quite a bit.
 
RakuraiTenjin said:
I'd think less of the girl.
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QFT.

Ass is nice but afterwards you realize it wasn't anything special. If you wait a while into the relationship and make it romantic then it will be 1000x better.
 
xcellerate said:
i say don't have sex that soon. I never do because it cheapens in the relationship and secondly because without even saying a word you can show the girl that you are with them for other reasons besides blow jobs. That's just me though.
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*agrees*
 
Hmm, well, in my opinion, wait it out a bit, maybe a week and a half, then haber teh sex0r w00t w00t
 
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