gf cheating

[Darkknighttt]

im sorry for a post like this, but its the worst pain ive felt in my life. i was on vacation for 3 weeks and i came home yesterday(last night) that my gf had had sex 2 times, but with the same guy when they were super stoned and drunk. im like wtf, well were both virgins and i thought that we would do it the first time together. is it even a big deal tho first time sex, its just the same as any other time right? please say yes lol but tell the truth. she still likes me, she said she was too stoned to think but im so ****ing hurt im almost throwing up i just wanna kill myself. i still like her but i cant forgive her, like i want to so bad, but my mind wont let me. its just that i think its a special thing, losing virginity together, but is it even that big of a deal?!

plz help im ****ing dying.

 

[15357]

So, youre asking for advice on a internet forum?

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[Sulkdodds]

I'd hit it.

No, wait, that's the wrong thing to say, isn't it? I'm not very good at this.

Being serious, though...is she really sorry about it?

 

[Shakermaker]

I'd hit it.

No, wait, that's the wrong thing to say, isn't it? I'm not very good at this.

Being serious, though...is she really sorry about it?

I'd say dump her no matter what.

 

[sinkoman]

I'd think that if your GF would even allow herself to get that stoned to do something like that, no, I wouldn't keep her.

But I agree with 15 (mind if I call ya that?). The whole "lose our virginity together" and "have our first sex together" sounds a tad corny.

Sorry bro Hope things look up.

 

[CrazyHarij]

As far as I've heard, girls develop a really deep emotional attachment to the one they lose their virginity with.

I'm not sure if you should stay together with her or not. Find someone who is smart enough not to get stoned and do things like that.

 

[Darkknighttt]

As far as I've heard, girls develop a really deep emotional attachment to the one they lose their virginity with.

I'm not sure if you should stay together with her or not. Find someone who is smart enough not to get stoned and do things like that.

ya thats what im worried about. but she said she only thought he was hot and didnt like him so, and she was cring but i unno. i feel as though i gotta get revenge, but i cant lol.

 

[ComradeBadger]

Leave her. What's the point of staying with someone who's ****ed around on you? Sorry to be blunt, but in my opinion you should tell her where to go.

 

[Harryz]

Shoot the bitch.





Or what CB said.

 

[CrazyHarij]

Leave her. What's the point of staying with someone who's ****ed around on you? Sorry to be blunt, but in my opinion you should tell her where to go.

Yeah, it's alot about the principles. You just can't submit and stay with someone who's cheated on you. What gives her a reason not to next time she's drunk and someone is "hot"?

 

[Ti133700N]

Yea do like CB said or she'll probably LJBF you.

 

[StardogChampion]

I'd say dump her no matter what.

Agreed.

You're 15, it's not like you'll spend the rest of your lives together.

 

[Unfocused]

Yea do like CB said or she'll probably LJBF you.

You're just waiting till someone asks what the hell does LJBF mean, don't you?

 

[mortiz]

I say violently rape her, kill her and then dump her body in the woods. You can do those things in any order.

 

[Lucid]

I say, Go on Dr. Phil or Opera or Jerry Springer(does that even show anymore?)
Get her and the dude on it, then yell randoom vulgarities at her.
Then get $500 and buy a hooker.

Or do what everyone else said.

 

[Laivasse]

Seduce your gf's mother and let your gf catch you sodomising her over the kitchen worktop. That would be good revenge.

In seriousness, though - dump her. She has no integrity.

 

[Darkknighttt]

wow thx tho,u guys r really cheering me up with all the funny highly illegal probly, things ur saying. lol.

edit: im being serious tho, but my only problem is theres like nothing new i can give her shes experienced everything now, she just ****ed, u know what i mean, even though love wasnt involved with her when she did it? u think that changes things.

 

[Harryz]

When she had sex twice with the guy, was that was on two different super drunk/stoned moments?

 

[G-Dub]

From experience, I'd dump the bitch, she'll only do it again.

 

[Darkknighttt]

oh no shewont do it again it was cause i was on vacation maybe, but i know she wont do it again for sure.

 

[CptStern]

"too stoned to think" ...what a croc of shit ....sorry man, I feel bad for you but dump her ...she knew what she was doing ...if she's done it twice she'll do it again, and again ...the sooner you cut all ties to her the sooner you'll start to heal ...but dump her now, quick and dont pussy around you'll just continue to get hurt

 

[CrazyHarij]

How can you know? Girls are masters at hiding the truth.

I doubt she was as "stoned" or "drunk" as she claimed to be. I doubt she was stoned at all.

Buying every word she says only turns you into a doormat.

 

[CptStern]

oh no shewont do it again it was cause i was on vacation maybe, but i know she wont do it again for sure.

man snap out of it, sorry but she WILL do it again ..in fact I dont know of a single person who's ever cheated on someone and ONLY done it once ..trust me, it's better if you just dump her now

 

[CrazyHarij]

CptStern speaks the truth. Be a man and show her that you can't be played around with. You'll be saving yourself a whole lot of trouble that could be spent being happy with someone else.

 

[mortiz]

If she was too 'stoned' to know what she was doing as she says, she could make a claim that she was raped.

 

[Hectic Glenn]

She was a virgin and her chance to do it first time with you, when you've been together for some time, and she threw that away with some random guy who means nothing to her. If that happened to me i'd be devestated, i feel for you man. Thats not right, she's a ****ing disgrace to do that. Look how much she hurt you, she didn't care. Being stoned or drunk, makes her act differently true, but thats not an excuse. She must pay the consequences. Get rid of her now, end it, you have to. It won't be normal again now, you gotta do it, and it will hurt. I sincerely feel for you man. I'm sorry big hug right here! Don't blame yourself NO matter what.

 

[Darkknighttt]

She was a virgin and her chance to do it first time with you, when you've been together for some time, and she threw that away with some random guy who means nothing to her. If that happened to me i'd be devestated, i feel for you man. Thats not right, she's a ****ing disgrace to do that. Look how much she hurt you, she didn't care. Being stoned or drunk, makes her act differently true, but thats not an excuse. She must pay the consequences. Get rid of her now, end it, you have to. It won't be normal again now, you gotta do it, and it will hurt. I sincerely feel for you man. I'm sorry big hug right here! Don't blame yourself NO matter what.

thx for that it really helped alot. well i guess only time will tell what happens next. its horrible tho i cant even eat. oh well. life.

 

[evil^milk]

So, youre asking for advice on a internet forum?

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yes, he is.

 

[Darkknighttt]

shes now saying "its just sex". is it me thats overreacting?!

 

[Solaris]

Yes dump her. Theres nothing wrong with asking advice on an internet forum, its one of the best places IMO.

 

[CrazyHarij]

shes now saying "its just sex". is it me thats overreacting?!

That's her lying. It's never "just sex". And definitely not "just sex" when it's between a girl in a relationship and some random "hot guy".

 

[Icarusintel]

why merely dump her when you can try to find a way to make her regret it for the rest of her life so much so that you utterly destroy her ability to find anyone meaningful ever again and she merely becomes a slut who will never have anyone again who treats her right or shows any emotion towards her....

in case you haven't guessed i'm pretty big on revenge to the point of ludicrousness... make the bitch suffer

 

[Insano]

shes now saying "its just sex". is it me thats overreacting?!

She's going to try to counterattack you, that's one of the good old tricks when you've been busted cheating.

Sex is not just some ordinary thing. If that's what she thinks: I pity the fool!

 

[Uriel]

Listen to Mr. Brightside by the Killers or DL the music Video. After, forgive her and pity her the way she is. Do not go back to her because you're better than that. Then go find a girl who wont pull something off like this. Find someone religious.

 

[CrazyHarij]

Yeah, you need to learn to value yourself.

 

[SimonomiS]

Get drunk and **** some girl, tell her "its just sex" and see how she feels.

 

[JNightshade]

first of all, how old are you exactly? And second of all, it sounds like most people in this thread (excluding Mr. Sodomize Your Mother) have the right idea. You should definitely move on in your life, explain your reasons, don't be an ass, but definitely break up with her.

 

[mindless_moder]

hiow old i she?

 

[CptStern]

Then go find a girl who wont pull something off like this. Find someone religious.

that opens a whole new can o worms ..."not till we're married", "are you going to wear that to church?", "let's all thank the lord for this wonderous miracle", "you cant do that, baby jesus is watching" ....I'd take the cheating over that anyday

 

[CrazyHarij]

that opens a whole new can o worms ..."not till we're married", "are you going to wear that to church?", "let's all thank the lord for this wonderous miracle", "you cant do that, baby jesus is watching" ....I'd take the cheating over that anyday

Yeah.. My 2 (christian) brothers have gotten christian girlfriends now and they've totally 'corrupted' them. I used to love hanging out with them but now it's like they've lost their hearts.