gf cheating

CptStern said:
that opens a whole new can o worms ..."not till we're married", "are you going to wear that to church?", "let's all thank the lord for this wonderous miracle", "you cant do that, baby jesus is watching" ....I'd take the cheating over that anyday
oh you can find the best church girl ever and turn her into a sex fiend if you know how.. and those turn out to be some of the best of em... well, at least my past gf was
 
Icarusintel said:
oh you can find the best church girl ever and turn her into a sex fiend if you know how.. and those turn out to be some of the best of em... well, at least my past gf was


well how common is that? for every girl like that there's probably dozens who're more like this
 
SimonomiS said:
What a waste...

Hmm what? Drifted off there..


for your "unclean" thoughts you must say the lord's prayer 150 times and only then will you be absolved of this terrible terrible sin of "lust"


:eek:
 
How about this, you go kick her ass outa your life and stop asking people on an internet forum how to run your life, no wonder she banged the better dude, you need people you don't even know to advise you on your love life.

WE DON'T CARE!
 
you don't, but some people do have some good advice to give.
 
:dozey: Man, leave her ass... make her feel real bad and make her ass cry and shit. **** with her. Make her really want you back, where she is begging you and shit. But, leave her ass. She's no good. Stop crying over it geez. She's probably brain washed you with all this lovey duvey shit where she makes you think she's special, she's not... she's a whore.
 
Dalamari said:
How about this, you go kick her ass outa your life and stop asking people on an internet forum how to run your life, no wonder she banged the better dude, you need people you don't even know to advise you on your love life.

WE DON'T CARE!

wow Dalam, >< fiesty today.. lol

ailevation said:
:dozey: Man, leave her ass... make her feel real bad and make her ass cry and shit. **** with her. Make her really want you back, where she is begging you and shit. But, leave her ass. She's no good. Stop crying over it geez. She's probably brain washed you with all this lovey duvey shit where she makes you think she's special, she's not... she's a whore.

couldent have said it better
 
Darkknighttt said:
im sorry for a post like this, but its the worst pain ive felt in my life. i was on vacation for 3 weeks and i came home yesterday(last night) that my gf had had sex 2 times, but with the same guy when they were super stoned and drunk. im like wtf, well were both virgins and i thought that we would do it the first time together. is it even a big deal tho first time sex, its just the same as any other time right? please say yes lol but tell the truth. she still likes me, she said she was too stoned to think but im so ****ing hurt im almost throwing up i just wanna kill myself. i still like her but i cant forgive her, like i want to so bad, but my mind wont let me. its just that i think its a special thing, losing virginity together, but is it even that big of a deal?!

plz help im ****ing dying.
Kick her ass to the street. One time is forgivable. Two times is punishable.
 
No it's not the same, she did soil herself. It is up to you to leave her, and do it. Just because it seems like something that is not like her, if she's the type of person to do that you won't be happy.

You may get together again later but it will always weigh on your mind, and the fact that you were waiting for each other will mar it even more, a lot worse. You will save yourself a lot of pain now to cut it off. It'll hurt bad, but rather than a more prolonged one. Listen to this, too.

And yes, it is a big deal. To some people it may not be and that's fine, but if it was to you before it's not going to just suddenly not be. It'll take a while but there are people who value you more out there. Don't remain with someone who doesn't value you.
 
dump her.. not worth your time. sjeesh what a SLUT!
 
Like you have a girlfriend!!!!................












anymore since she cheated on you :)
 
punch her,

punch him

tell her you hope she gets pregnant

laugh, tell her she isnt worth you trying again

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I wouldnt say this, i would jsut walk away sadly

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Why would you want a girlfriend that goes out and gets stoned/drunk out of her mind? Thats just a recipe for disaster.

And the 'its just sex' is an attempt to make you feel as if you're overreacting (which obviously worked) and turn you into the bad guy. Oh, and it says a lot about how much she values her relationship.

You sound like a sensitive guy (although because this is a forum you could be a total asshat pretending to be sensitive I guess :E) so move on and dont let it get to you.
 
some how "It doesnt count because I was stoned and drunk" and "It was just sex" sound like lame excuses to me.. could be wrong
 
Dump her. Seriously, that's a big freaking slap to teh face. Then the "It's just sex" is a womans way of getting around you. Women just toy with guys, and here is a fine damned example. You want something better for her in the long run? Dump her, make her REGRET she did that. She's probably lost a good thing over it, and that way she wont cheat on someone again *or tell the person she cheated...everyone knows ignorance is bliss*

GET
RID
OF
HER can't stress that enough....
 
Just tap it....then dump her....then her mom, sister, brother (if you're into that)...etc..etc..
 
You're 15. She must be an idiot to get drunk at age 15 and do it with some guy. She obviously doesn't like you as much as you thought. Just get rid of her. There are plenty of other women in this world that aren't going to do that kind of thing to you. Don't think you absolutely need a girlfriend right now. Find a more mature girl later on in your life. :cheers:

You're not going to want a girl like your current girlfriend in the long-run anyway.
 
So....
you get rid of her yet? If you don't answer, I'll take that as a "Currently working on it sir."
 
if she ****ed whit that toher guy then dont think she really loves you

so if you keep "dying" for her you just will be hurting yourslef while she is in parties fuking whit the first guy she founds so like everyone here as said dump the bitch

and if she cry for that then better cuz she makes you suffer too right?
 
DreadLord1337 said:
CyberPitz wants her.
actually, i hadn;t thought about it, but, Darkknight do you live in or around MD? i could take care of the situation for you by taking her off your hands
 
Icarusintel said:
actually, i hadn;t thought about it, but, Darkknight do you live in or around MD? i could take care of the situation for you by taking her off your hands
Seriously man he cant eat and he aint feeling good at all, a little sympathy instead of ridiculing him would go a long way. I mean if i was in that situation i'd feel so ill, i don't know if you could relate, or if you've ever had a girlfriend or if having one means anything to you, but just let it go. Probably the reason he hasn't posted back since page 3 or something.

I hope he comes back and tells us what he's done, i hope he's thinking clearly still. Posting here was the only thing he could think of doing so we could help him, keep up the support lads.

p.s. news update of situation!
 
shadow6899 said:
to whoever said losing ur virginity is no big deal is stupid, or has never had sex :/ b/c when you lose your virginity it's the best feeling ever. You will not cum like that ever again :/
pretty sure its diff with girls lol.

ya its still pretty bad i dunno whats going on. she was looking for some weed to do with her friends(girls) today according to my friend.i unno just i cant forgive her but i cant let go of her. like shes really not the person to do it again ive known her for a looong time. maybe it was just because i was away for 3 weeks. i dunno.icant sleep or eat tho **** this is bad sry for complaining i know noone cares but it makes feel a lil better. neways i dunno maybe in the future we could get back together, well see. as for now im waiting for her to long on msn to see what she says.
 
dear god man!! you're just asking to be stomped on ..I know it's tough but you gotta just break off all contact ..that's the only way you'll get over her ...well that and this
 
CptStern said:
dear god man!! you're just asking to be stomped on ..I know it's tough but you gotta just break off all contact ..that's the only way you'll get over her ...well that and this
Definately listen to this man, you have to let go, and start fresh elsewhere. You can't trust her, and that time of unfaithfulness will always me there. When she did it first time, she may have regretted it 'shit whats he gonna say when he gets back' Instead of being petrified of hurting you she did it again. Seriously man, its not right. Think carefully.

Oh and stern your way too old for her ;) oooh i'm sorry! :D
 
Seriously buddy, just let her. Don't insult her. Be strong and show what you really are, someone who's not being manipulated easily. The sooner you'll get rid of her, the faster your pain will go away.
 
Darkknighttt said:
im sorry for a post like this, but its the worst pain ive felt in my life. i was on vacation for 3 weeks and i came home yesterday(last night) that my gf had had sex 2 times, but with the same guy when they were super stoned and drunk. im like wtf, well were both virgins and i thought that we would do it the first time together. is it even a big deal tho first time sex, its just the same as any other time right? please say yes lol but tell the truth. she still likes me, she said she was too stoned to think but im so ****ing hurt im almost throwing up i just wanna kill myself. i still like her but i cant forgive her, like i want to so bad, but my mind wont let me. its just that i think its a special thing, losing virginity together, but is it even that big of a deal?!

plz help im ****ing dying.
Just leave her and move on.
 
I hate hearing about things like this, it hurts terribly. If she made out with someone it would be different, but having sex, losing her virginity, to someone, that's pretty unforgivable. Being under the influence is no excuse. If my girlfriend allowed herself to get that badly ****ed up, I'd be pissed. I'm sure she's genuinely sorry, but I'm sure you'll feel much better if you move on, especially since you're only 15
 
True, well grow old together eh, theres a nice thought. :) But i think we've learnt dont hang with girls that do weed and go on drinking binges. Personally that kind of girl would never get my attention, she seems dodgy from that angle already. Few drinks would be ok, but she seems out of control. Its a slippery slope. Stern, make sure your wife doesn't go off the rails either, otherwise might be time for some of the infamous 'knifeh ya wifeh' action, courtesy of years of playing Counter Strike :(
 
Now ya'll can see why I'm staying away from love/relationships. :p It's all bullshit.
 
Tr0n said:
Now ya'll can see why I'm staying away from love/relationships. :p It's all bullshit.

I'm a big fan of the One Night Stand thing right now. Everyone has fun, and a friendly "See ya later" is well and good.:imu:
 
kick her bitch ass onto the street. and say you did it because you were stoned and couldn't help yourself.
 
Greatgat said:
I'm a big fan of the One Night Stand thing right now. Everyone has fun, and a friendly "See ya later" is well and good.:imu:

Werd....love is like crack...might seem kinda cool at first, but before you know it youre broke and die of a heart attack....

uhmmm yea....just like love......:hmph:
 
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