(HelpLife2.net)So I asked someone out...now what?

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I demand pics of the girl! If she refused to give you her picture, tell her the forum gods demand it or they will be angry!


also... stick it in her pooper?
 
Can also be used instead of 'rain cheque' or whatever
 
He gave her an I owe you for one trip to the cinema? Wat?
Meaning he promises he'll take her out at some point in the future.

An 'I owe you' is a noun phrase, you don't put the words in the sentence gramatically.
 
Right now, I really dont know whats going on, she and I were in a chat last night, I just kinda told her how much I really liked, only to find out that the past few days, shes been going out with that guy I mentioned before. However, she claimed that they were having some problems, and went on to tell me that she liked me, and was glad that I told her too.

I guess we'll see what happens....maybe?
 
Right now, I really dont know whats going on, she and I were in a chat last night, I just kinda told her how much I really liked, only to find out that the past few days, shes been going out with that guy I mentioned before. However, she claimed that they were having some problems, and went on to tell me that she liked me, and was glad that I told her too.

I guess we'll see what happens....maybe?


I'm in a similar situation.
 
Your still good. She ended up dating him and not liking him/has more feelings for you. If she was serious about him she wouldn't like you. Just stick with it and hang out with her and have fun. Keep at it, don't get discouraged. Take things slow as well to make sure.
 
Your still good. She ended up dating him and not liking him/has more feelings for you. If she was serious about him she wouldn't like you. Just stick with it and hang out with her and have fun. Keep at it, don't get discouraged. Take things slow as well to make sure.

I really wish I had posted last night, as the whole morning I let a depression/anger build up as I thought that I had a lost her.

I'm in a similar situation.
Its New Jersey man, them confusing Jersey girls.
 
gtfo
now
it only goes downhill from there.
first she wants you to stop playing that god damn computer game
next she wants you to dye your hair
SHIT
 
Right now, I really dont know whats going on, she and I were in a chat last night, I just kinda told her how much I really liked, only to find out that the past few days, shes been going out with that guy I mentioned before. However, she claimed that they were having some problems, and went on to tell me that she liked me, and was glad that I told her too.

I guess we'll see what happens....maybe?

you NEVER tell a woman you're not already in a relationship that you like her.

You should of course SHOW her that you like her, but never TELL her you like her.

:|
 
you NEVER tell a woman you're not already in a relationship that you like her.

You should of course SHOW her that you like her, but never TELL her you like her.

:|

Depends. Don't over do it and it's fine. Saying you have feelings for them isn't too bad. You just don't want to scare them away thinking your becoming obsessed. If she said she has feelings for him it's OK to say back then. Just don't say I love you unless you really are in love with her.
 
Hold her hand.

Don't let go. Ever.

If she screams, silence her with your other hand.
 
Right now, I really dont know whats going on, she and I were in a chat last night, I just kinda told her how much I really liked, only to find out that the past few days, shes been going out with that guy I mentioned before. However, she claimed that they were having some problems, and went on to tell me that she liked me, and was glad that I told her too.

I guess we'll see what happens....maybe?

I'm in a similar situation.

Rebound guys.
 
you NEVER tell a woman you're not already in a relationship that you like her.

You should of course SHOW her that you like her, but never TELL her you like her.

:|
Well, she said she KNEW I liked her, she was waiting for me to tell her.
 
Well, she said she KNEW I liked her, she was waiting for me to tell her.

Bullshit, nobody ever KNOWS what you're thinking.

Maybe she had a strong feeling that you liked her, but dammit, the woman doesn't read minds. She doesn't know SHIT about what you're thinking.
 
Sinkoman, you're being very one sided in a matter that doesn't have very many constants. Cavalry, do what you feel is right. There is very little good advice one can give on the matter other than to not let fear hold you back and take opportunity when it presents itself.
 
Most of this stuff is common sense once you cast off the shackles of the bullshit men are fed from the moment they can walk about sucking up to women.
It's not about what you do, it's about who you are. Be a man. It's that simple. The only way you will ever be successful with women (or in any other aspect of life, for that matter) is to genuinely understand the concept and make good decisions on your own. Memorising a list of the "right thing" to say or do is inevitably futile.
Hell, in a world where men increasingly spend half an hour doing their hair, avoid doing anything risky or adventurous and sit around talking about their feelings, you don't have a great deal of competition.

Tip:

being concerned about whether she likes you as a friend or as more than that is not being a man. You set the tone. If you assume attraction already exists, it's usually a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you think she's not attracted to you, she won't be. Insecurity is not attractive.

dropping all your other plans to see her at a moment's notice is not being a man, either. Doing so communicates that your time has no value. Looking forward, it's also a terrible precedent to set for any kind of worthwhile relationship - if anything does happen, you'll only end up being her bitch.
 
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