How big of an idiot am I

[happyhappy]

Theres this girl I know and I been talking with her for a few weeks now. We wanted to try a relationship but she had just broken up with her boyfriend of 3 years about 3 months before and we both agreed she needed time to be out of one before getting back into a relationship. The thing is that her and my brother had fooled around a couple of months before (if anyone wants to know im 20 shes 19 and my bro is 22) and it only happend once. But I dont understand why I would even want to try something with her after she had done stuff with my brother... and thinking back on how much time I had spent talking with her and doing things with her I feel like an idiot. What do you guys think of the whole situation, should I have even bothered with her after I knew she had fooled around with my brother...

 

[lePobz]

Don't bother with her ... there's loads of fish in the sea, the very fact you're asking this question is proof enough of your need to sack her off.

 

[CyberPitz]

Yeah, the whole her fooling around with my brother thing would bother me...but if you really like her, you shouldn't let that bother you. Things will probably be awkward, and there's the chance of the, "Your brother did it better", or "Do this and this...your brother did it and it was awesome."

I'd think long and hard about this.

 

[Glirk Dient]

she needed time to be out of one before getting back into a relationship.[/QUOTE]

In woman terms...she has been commited to one guy for a while and wants to just fool around for now. Take advantage of this and tell her that you like her and want to hang out as friends and you will see where it goes from there. She knows she is a slut and she wants to be, she just doesnt want to admit it. By calling it just friends and hanging out you will get action and everything works out.

 

[Higlac]

This reminds me of Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, you know when he and his dad both do the same girl?

 

[MartinWintz]

Theres this girl I know and I been talking with her for a few weeks now. We wanted to try a relationship but she had just broken up with her boyfriend of 3 years about 3 months

The thing is that her and my brother had fooled around a couple of months before

That wouldn't happen to be why they broke up... would it? Or is the time line a little skewed?

Either way I'd say get over it. Unless you're dating a virgin all chicks have a history. It's disturbing to think of them getting pounded by your brother, best friend or a stranger, but it's all the same.

 

[Uriel]

This reminds me of Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, you know when he and his dad both do the same girl?

Simply the greatest movie ever.

EVER

EVER

 

[happyhappy]

She wasnt dating my brother, she had broken up with her boyfriend about 3-4 months ago and a couple months after that my brother and her fooled around. And now about 4 weeks ago me and her have been talking and this happened. But im pretty sure Glirk hit it right on the head. But still I dont think ill do anything with her becuase it really does feel awkward now.

 

[Gray Fox]

So wait she fooled around with your brother after she broken with her boyfriend, but before she was attracted to you.
It wasn't like she cheated on her boyfriend with your brother. And it wasn't like she was fooling around with your brother while at the same time she was saying to you she wasn't interested in fooling around for a while because of the breakup.

If that is so, then you are a retard for even asking this question. Off course you should get it on with her, who gives a shit of she slept with your brother.

 

[happyhappy]

the reason I was asking the question was the moral value of it... obviously I could bang her.. but would I want to after she had already been with my brother?

 

[MartinWintz]

the reason I was asking the question was the moral value of it... obviously I could bang her.. but would I want to after she had already been with my brother?

You're asking if it's more immoral to have sex with her since she did your brother first? Why would it be...?

 

[Glirk Dient]

the reason I was asking the question was the moral value of it... obviously I could bang her.. but would I want to after she had already been with my brother?

Yes...and tell him you had sex with her first.

 

[Pulse]

Everyone is a whore these days.

Stick it in her pooper.

 

[Geogaddi]

Invite them both over for a threesome.

 

[Tollbooth Willie]

I feeling liike hitting you with a boat right now, but I'll go with what Geo said. Got room for one more?

 

[Absinthe]

You have to grab her firmly by her chin while you violently screw her. Press your face forcefully against hers until you can smell the sweat and tears on her face. Scream at her, asking which of you is better at ****ing. When she is driven into total submission, shove a twenty dollar bill in her mouth and punch her lights out.

 

[Evo]

You have to grab her firmly by her chin while you violently screw her. Press your face forcefully against hers until you can smell the sweat and tears on her face. Scream at her, asking which of you is better at ****ing. When she is driven into total submission, shove a twenty dollar bill in her mouth and punch her lights out.

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:E

 

[MartinWintz]

You have to grab her firmly by her chin while you violently screw her. Press your face forcefully against hers until you can smell the sweat and tears on her face. Scream at her, asking which of you is better at ****ing. When she is driven into total submission, shove a twenty dollar bill in her mouth and punch her lights out.

I thought that was just our thing

 

[Geogaddi]

Thread over pretty much.

<3 Absinthe

 

[happyhappy]

Yep, ive pretty much got second opinions i need, thanks guys.

 

[CyberPitz]

Yep, ive pretty much got second opinions i need, thanks guys.

Damn straight. Follow Absinthes idea, and you'll be the best person in the world...
.....
make video please.

 

[Absinthe]

You know, I just read over my post and I feel pretty vile. Am I a bad person?

 

[sinkoman]

You know, I just read over my post and I feel pretty vile. Am I a bad person?

I assumed you were joking D:

 

[Llama]

No Absinthe, you are just a genius of the highest magnitude
Why the hell did so many people vote no? i can't even see why it would be an issue (Then again, I haven't got a brother)

 

[Absinthe]

I don't see too much of a big deal either. But then I'm not likely to end up sleeping with anybody my brother has any time soon simply due to age difference, so it doesn't matter.

Might feel kinda awkward at first. But in the end, poon is poon. You shouldn't deny yourself a bit just because your bro took the first piece.

 

[CyberPitz]

I don't have a brother, but if one of my good friends did that....I'd feel awfully weird.

poon is poon, but you could also get that poon from a "cleaner" source I'm sure.

 

[Absinthe]

You just don't like living wild.

 

[The Monkey]

Unless she had sex with him, I'd say it's all clear.

 

[Gray Fox]

why would it matter if she had sex with him.

 

[The Monkey]

why would it matter if she had sex with him.

'Cause I wouldn't wanna have sex with a girl that my brother have had sex with. But maybe that's just me...

 

[tehsolace]

Shes a slut if she would do shit with your brother and then with you. Plain and simple.

So if you pursue her, these are the outcomes:
1) She turns you down since shes done stuff with your bro and it would make her a slut to hook up with you after that.
2) She hooks up with you, which proves she is a slut (and hence, you'd be dating a slut).

 

[happyhappy]

I know she definatly wouldnt turn me down since she already said she wouldnt have minded geting into a relationship with me if she hadent just got out of a long one. The point of the matter is ... do I want to do anything with her after she fooled around with my brother, and to be honest now I dont think I should even bother, but im just pissed I wasted so much time talking to her and diddnt think about this before hand.

 

[Gray Fox]

Shes a slut if she would do shit with your brother and then with you. Plain and simple.

So if you pursue her, these are the outcomes:
1) She turns you down since shes done stuff with your bro and it would make her a slut to hook up with you after that.
2) She hooks up with you, which proves she is a slut (and hence, you'd be dating a slut).

Why does that make her a slut.

I know she definitely wouldn't turn me down since she already said she wouldn't have minded getting into a relationship with me if she hadn't just got out of a long one. The point of the matter is ... do I want to do anything with her after she fooled around with my brother, and to be honest now I don't think I should even bother, but I'm just pissed I wasted so much time talking to her and didn't think about this before hand.

You don't deserve her, plain and simple.

 

[Absinthe]

Actually, probably the other way around.

**** that shit about "Oh, I'd totally date you if I hadn't just broken up". If she was interested in you in that way, there wouldn't have been this kind of waiting game crap.

Your issues with her "fooling around" with your brother are still a tad messed IMO. Initial awkwardness aside, you shouldn't have let something like that totally impede any kind of relationship you want to have with her (assuming she reciprocates). But going off of your little aside, I'd say not to bother any way, albeit for different reasons.

So she got out of a relationship and spun you a nice little story. Around that span of time, she also got her kicks from your brother. Clearly she's not having problems. Sounds to me like you're being used as a cuddle bitch.

 

[Gray Fox]

Actually, probably the other way around.

**** that shit about "Oh, I'd totally date you if I hadn't just broken up". If she was interested in you in that way, there wouldn't have been this kind of waiting game crap.

Your issues with her "fooling around" with your brother are still a tad messed IMO. Initial awkwardness aside, you shouldn't have let something like that totally impede any kind of relationship you want to have with her (assuming she reciprocates). But going off of your little aside, I'd say not to bother any way, albeit for different reasons.

So she got out of a relationship and spun you a nice little story. Around that span of time, she also got her kicks from your brother. Sounds to me like you're being used as a cuddle bitch.

She told him she didn't want to get in to a relationship, not that she wasn't interested in ****ing. Which is normal after a long relationship.
And she ****ed his brother before she knew him well enough and liked him as far as I understand. So the only thing that is bothering him is the fact she had sex with his brother.
Going out and ****ing after a relationship is also pretty normal, most people do it. It's nice enjoying being single a little before getting in to another relationship.

 

[Absinthe]

Well, duh. You're not really fighting my point. Clearly she's not interested in the poster and she's done a good job of leading him on. After all, she's not ****ing him is she?

This bullshit idea of a "sensitivity period" after breaking up from a relationship is really just an excuse to fool around with other people. Apparently the interest in her isn't reciprocated. She's just done a fantastic job of fooling the poster. Quite typical.

Seriously, let's just apply some common sense here. Chick breaks up. Chick tells you she'd date you if she hadn't just broken up (or whatever the reasoning is). Chick goes and ****s your brother. What's going on here?

 

[Gray Fox]

But she ****ed his brother just once. a couple of months ago, before she was interested in him.

And she didn't say she wasn't in to ****ing she just did not want a relation so soon. I can understand that.

Who knows, if she knew him better a couple of months ago maybe she would have ****ed him.

I don't see how she's misleading him. From what I understood from his posts, it just bothers him that she ****ed his brother. Thats it, she could have been an otherwise strange girl who hadn't just broken up with her boyfriend. It's just the thought that she ****ed his brother, thats his brothers wiener penetrated her, squirted all over her that is bothering him.




From what I understand from your post. Is that you think, that he told him that she just did not feel like having sex or a relationship. And then went and ****ed his brother. But now wants to have a relationship with him. English is not my primary so I may have misunderstood. I'm going to look trough his posts again.

 

[Absinthe]

Oh, so she could play around with his brother after the breakup, but for some reason there's no action going on a few months down the line with somebody taking an actual interest in her beyond pussy?

Something is not adding up here. Although this is just my take on my perceived subtext. I know the issue of bro-spunk is at the forefront of his mind, and while I agree that it's misplaced, it still sounds to me like the chase is futile any way. Perhaps it's just me, because I don't have the patience to put up with those kinds of games. But this all just seems stupid to me.

*Insert admission that I do not personally know all the people involved and that my assessment is based on a very limited amount of information. Also, the exact chronology of events is still rather murky.*

 

[Gray Fox]

I see your point.
But maybe she was afraid that putting out too fast might make her seem like a slut to him, and thus he would not want a relationship. While she wasn't interested in anything more then sex with his brother so she could care less. Still though if she was thinking like that she's an idiot.

 

[phantomdesign]

have your fun and pass it to your little brother....or cousin.