I could have another sister/brother :(

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Well last week my dad,my little half sister and me were eating at a Restaurant while my sister was playing in the Arcade me and my dad just started talking about random stuff.I forgot why but suddenly we started talking about abortion.
Then he suddenly mentions without any warning that my mother had an abortion right before my parents got divorced..so I was like 6 maybe.
For the whole last week I have been finding myself thinking about what would be different in my life if I had a younger sister or brother....it's a very strange feeling.And I don't think I could ever talk to my mother about this.I'm sure she had her reasons,I wasn't exactly a good boy....but that raises the question that maybe its my fault,that she had an abortion.
I find that thought really disturbing.



Your thoughts?
 
Well, I have one. He's adopted, and he has both PTSD and Asperger's Syndrome(as well as numerous other conditions). He has an awful temper, which is compounded by the fact that any punishment or retaliation only elevates his mindless rage. Last summer, he lit a gasoline fire in the driveway when we were all out, then (after being caught) ran down to a nearby pizza joint and yelled at them to give him food until they called the cops. He went into the hospital on my dad's birthday, and got out on mine. A week later, my parents were going to take him in to get some evaluation done, and he flipped out. At 14, he was getting too big to control, so my mom and dad broke down and called the cops. While they were coming, my brother managed to douse the end of a 2x4 in lighter fluid, then set it on fire. So lo and behold, the cops show up, and there's this insane 14-year-old, swinging a torch at them and yelling like a madman.

Point is, life with a brother could've been a lot better for you... or it could've been a LOT worse. Trust me.
 
Well last week my dad,my little half sister and me were eating at a Restaurant while my sister was playing in the Arcade me and my dad just started talking about random stuff.I forgot why but suddenly we started talking about abortion.
Then he suddenly mentions without any warning that my mother had an abortion right before my parents got divorced..so I was like 6 maybe.
For the whole last week I have been finding myself thinking about what would be different in my life if I had a younger sister or brother....it's a very strange feeling.And I don't think I could ever talk to my mother about this.I'm sure she had her reasons,I wasn't exactly a good boy....but that raises the question that maybe its my fault,that she had an abortion.
I find that thought really disturbing.



Your thoughts?

I think you should think less tbh.
You could have had LOADS of brothers and sisters if you're parents would have bred constantly.
No point what thinking about could have beens.
 
"All the woulda, coulda, shouldas lyin in the sun
talkin bout the things they woulda coulda shoulda done..
then all the woulda coulda shouldas all ran away and hid...
from one little did."

One of my favorite poems.
 
I have two older sisters, and they inspire me to be better in everything I do.
 
your mother having an abortion is not your fault or anybody elses ..it's really tough having kids ..it really takes a lot out of people. Your parents probably didnt plan for it or couldnt at the point in their lives afford to have another child for whatever reason ...ask your dad about it, and ask your mom but only if she's willing to talk about it
 
your mother having an abortion is not your fault or anybody elses ..it's really tough having kids ..it really takes a lot out of people. Your parents probably didnt plan for it or couldnt at the point in their lives afford to have another child for whatever reason ...ask your dad about it, and ask your mom but only if she's willing to talk about it

That really means alot to me stern,thank you
since your a dad and all,you know how it must be I'm sure.
 
Aww, we all love you lemon.

Anyway... I've got four siblings, you can have your pick.
 
I've told you all, she's only four!

Call me in 8 years then.
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I don't know. That little bastard of a child sounds quite like me when I was much younger. The whole lighting shit on fire/running around with burning blunt objects thing. :)

You're too cute to be an arsonist.
 
If I was your brother, I wouldn't give a shit how cute you were.
 
Someone post the cuteness of Willie. I have a Photoshop idea and don't have the image saved.
 
"All the woulda, coulda, shouldas lyin in the sun
talkin bout the things they woulda coulda shoulda done..
then all the woulda coulda shouldas all ran away and hid...
from one little did."

One of my favorite poems.

haha nice one
 
i have 4 siblings, would have had 6 if it wasnt for miscarriages
 
Yeah, but so what? If you can't laugh at the tragedies in life, you're in for a whole lotta shit later on.
 
D:
Misleading thread titles make baby Rim-Fire cry.
 
Yeah, but so what? If you can't laugh at the tragedies in life, you're in for a whole lotta shit later on.

It never bothered ME...Might bother others.

Bah, I don`t really care to be honest.
 
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