I'm sad :(

[Dynasty]

...anyway back to the problem at hand..........

 

[StardogChampion]

I'm sure if you're 18+ and arrange to meet with an under 16 year old over MSN/Yahoo/Chatrooms etc, you can get arrested. "Grooming" or something similar...

 

[FoB_Ed]

Let her go. If she wants to leave you over some punk ass bitch she met 5 days ago she's not worth the pain.

 

[DarkStar]

14 years old = CHILD

18 years old = ADULT

Entire situation = WRONG

Sorry to break it to ya Robert, I don't mean to sound heartless but this is for the best. A four-year age difference is pretty meaningless once everyone involved is older, but a 14-year-old is a child IMO. Stay away from the kiddies.

 

[Dynasty]

^mate if its true love, between both of them, then age cannot break them apart. hes obviously not like most guys anyway, ie not in it to get some :E

 

[Tr0n]

^mate if its true love, between both of them, then age cannot break them apart. hes obviously not like most guys anyway, ie not in it to get some :E

Exactly.

I guess no one knows what love means now'n days.

 

[Dynasty]

HEAR HEAR!!!!

bout time others experienced that undescribable feeling...that hurts when she rips your heart out

 

[DarkStar]

I can't believe you guys don't find an 18-year old man dating a 14-year old child the slightest bit reprehensible.

Guess I'm just old-fashioned.

 

[StardogChampion]

^mate if its true love, between both of them, then age cannot break them apart. hes obviously not like most guys anyway, ie not in it to get some :E

That not the point. A 14 year old could not possible comprehend what real love is all about, even if they think they know.

 

[Death.Trap]

I can't believe you guys don't find an 18-year old man dating a 14-year old child the slightest bit reprehensible.

Guess I'm just old-fashioned.

Like I said earlier, I do think it's a bit..strange. But there not having sex, so if that's what they want...go for it.

 

[Dynasty]

do you have facts to back this up? are you a psychologist? how do you know? a child simply loves their parents from birth, so how can she not know what love is 14 years down the line??????

(aimed at StardogChampion)

 

[Tr0n]

I can't believe you guys don't find an 18-year old man dating a 14-year old child the slightest bit reprehensible.

Guess I'm just old-fashioned.

Ugh...I really want to say somethin, but I'm gonna reframe.

So I'm just gonna say this...it's love...what can you do?His/her heart is set.

We shouldn't judge his/her love or anybody elses for that matter.

 

[mortiz]

he might like them when they're out of school, about half-past three.

 

[StardogChampion]

To Tr0n and Pureball. What would you think of it if they had sex? It must be fine, because it's love... right?

...

 

[Dynasty]

u seggesting this guy is a pedo?

 

[DarkStar]

do you have facts to back this up? are you a psychologist? how do you know? a child simply loves their parents from birth, so how can she not know what love is 14 years down the line??????

The love of a child for their parents is a far different thing from romantic love.

 

[DarkStar]

u seggesting this guy is a pedo?

Well, he IS dating a 14-year old child.

 

[Tr0n]

To Tr0n and Pureball. What would you think of it if they had sex? It must be fine, because it's love... right?

...

Well IF....I really don't know. You know why?

BECAUSE IT IS NOT MY PLACE TO JUDGE HIM.

Why are we even having a discussion about him having sex with a girl?Hell it seems like you care so much....why don't you report his ass to the cops or somethin?

 

[Dynasty]

yeah u cant judge a guy just because hes going out with a 14 year old

 

[StardogChampion]

u seggesting this guy is a pedo?

No, I was just wondering how you would feel then.

Hell it seems like you care so much....

Because you're trying to defend something that I find slightly sick. So I have to annoy you until you give in. But this is a forum, so nobody gives in, and the thread eventually gets locked.

 

[Dynasty]

No, I was just wondering how you would feel then.

eh??? what u mean?

 

[Tr0n]

No, I was just wondering how you would feel then.

...and I'm wondering why you care so much.

It isn't your place to judge him/her and there relationship like that.

That goes for everyone else also.He asked for advice...not to be bitched at because he loves some girl thats 4 years younger.

 

[StardogChampion]

...and I'm wondering why you care so much.

I edited my other post to tell you why, but i'll repost:
"Because you're trying to defend something that I find slightly sick. So I have to annoy you until you give in. But this is a forum, so nobody gives in, and the thread eventually gets locked."

 

[mortiz]

I hope someone got my joke

 

[DarkStar]

...and I'm wondering why you care so much.

It isn't your place to judge him/her and there relationship like that.

That goes for everyone else also.He asked for advice...not to be bitched at because he loves some girl thats 4 years younger.

And my advice was to let her go because 18-year old men dating children is just.....wrong.

 

[Dynasty]

I edited my other post to tell you why, but i'll repost:
"Because you're trying to defend something that I find slightly sick. So I have to annoy you until you give in. But this is a forum, so nobody gives in, and the thread eventually gets locked."

i also find it amazing how u can judge someone u dont know. like it has been said, he asked for advice (which i hope weve given him :E), and not to be ripped apart and made to feel worse just because of someone's opinion on age difference

 

[Tr0n]

I edited my other post to tell you why, but i'll repost:
"Because you're trying to defend something that I find slightly sick. So I have to annoy you until you give in. But this is a forum, so nobody gives in, and the thread eventually gets locked."

Well you found the solution.

 

[ComradeBadger]

Any more flames and this baby goes the way of the Closed.

 

[Tr0n]

And my advice was to let her go because 18-year old men dating children is just.....wrong.

Well your advice was probally taken or not taken...so leave it at that.

 

[Dynasty]

*sigh* anyway where is robert, he hasnt replied for ages lol

 

[StardogChampion]

i also find it amazing how u can judge someone u dont know. like it has been said, he asked for advice (which i hope weve given him :E), and not to be ripped apart and made to feel worse just because of someone's opinion on age difference

I judge people all the time. I often judge people by taking just one look at them, or even just hearing their voice (it's pretty easy to tell dumb from smart in Scotland). Judging is fun.

Like someone said earlier, posting something like this on a forum is opening yourself up for it. If he didn't want it then he didn't have to post.

EDIT: Well Robert read our advice. I'm outta here.

 

[Tr0n]

I judge people all the time. I often judge people by taking just one look at them, or even just hearing their voice (it's pretty easy to tell dumb from smart in Scotland). Judging is fun.

Like someone said earlier, posting something like this on a forum is opening yourself up for it. If he didn't want it then he didn't have to post.

Well he is new to the forums...whatcha expect?

I miss the days when you could post stuff like this...or personal problems and no one would bitch or flame like they do.

It was more of a family back then.

 

[NeptuneUK]

hope he hasnt killed himself or something

 

[Dynasty]

ill drink to that...even if im new too!!!

 

[Dasparov]

The love of a child for their parents is a far different thing from romantic love.

Was about to say that, She is 14 so i 'doubt' she would know what true love is. A fair amount of girls in there teen years (through what i've seen) like to switch guys alot, they like to experience alot of relationships so they get a idea of what love is really like (and vice versa). 7 months is a fair amount of time and dedication to be spent with one guy, at her age. I suggest you just let it be and if she decides to go out with this other guy, go with the flow (i know its alot easier said then done). Thats my opinion anyway

 

[StardogChampion]

*bite*

Here we go, the old dayssssss, the olllllld days. I was here in the old days, it was barely different.

If there was no age difference he would've got nice replies.

Definately gone this time...

 

[The Monkey]

Sorry dude. But if she gives you up for a guy that she has known for 5 days, then maybe you deserve someone better.

 

[CrazyHarij]

Darkstar and StardogChampion particularly...

I'm going to do my best to refrain from any flaming, but you guys are somewhat close to idiots.

Robert is one of the best people I've ever met on the internet, he does not have any kind of sexual relationship with her, and he hasn't been 18 for long, he got together with her long before that. Believe me, he's been through the "pedo" calling business enough by now, leave him alone.

His girlfriend is from what I've seen very mature and understanding (something I have a trouble finding in you), he's been so happy together with her.

It's extremely sad to see that it goes this way, feel horrible to see him like this.. But, life goes on, with or without wonderful people, and with or without jerks.

 

[Dynasty]

Any more flames and this baby goes the way of the Closed.

AHEM!!!

where is he when u need him!!!!! lol

 

[Death.Trap]

Darkstar and StardogChampion particularly...

I'm going to do my best to refrain from any flaming, but you guys are somewhat close to idiots.

Robert is one of the best people I've ever met on the internet, he does not have any kind of sexual relationship with her, and he hasn't been 18 for long, he got together with her long before that. Believe me, he's been through the "pedo" calling business enough by now, leave him alone.

His girlfriend is from what I've seen very mature and understanding (something I have a trouble finding in you), he's been so happy together with her.

It's extremely sad to see that it goes this way, feel horrible to see him like this.. But, life goes on, with or without wonderful people, and with or without jerks.

I'm sorry, but I have to quote that for emphasis. You said it a hell of a lot better than I did.