Love?

[Farrowlesparrow]

Would you say any of you feel like you are in love with someone, or have ever been?

I ask because...a this guy I know...uh...


Answer the question Oh and none of that, "Love doesn't exist" stuff please...I've had enough of the goths today :x

 

[^Ben]

Well i thought i was in love once, but i dunno if it was just infatuation.

Do you wanna know what it felt like or something?

 

[CyberSh33p]

love doesn't exist, we are all meaningless specks flying through the black void of darkness.

wish I could help this guy you know I sadly have not felt the fiery pangs of passion myself, and I'm all alone, all alone, all by myself ;_;

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

I dunno, maybe...I just feel like talking and since everyone I know in the real world is in bed, or a place where I can't get to them I thought I would post here.

I was ina similar situation a few years ago...I thought I loved them, but I tihnk tis was just a very strong crush, amplified by distance. However...This time...Its different I dunno though, somehow talking about it to anyone except the choice few seems like it would spoil it, like im boasting or something. Anyway, I just wanted to know if anyone is feeling that way.

 

[lePobz]

Yeah. Still are, but circumstances keep us apart. ;(

 

[CyberSh33p]

I dunno, maybe...I just feel like talking and since everyone I know in the real world is in bed, or a place where I can't get to them I thought I would post here.

I was ina similar situation a few years ago...I thought I loved them, but I tihnk tis was just a very strong crush, amplified by distance. However...This time...Its different I dunno though, somehow talking about it to anyone except the choice few seems like it would spoil it, like im boasting or something. Anyway, I just wanted to know if anyone is feeling that way.

sorry farrow, just woke up I'll be happy to chat your head of in a way that will only lead to regret and sadness when I get home

 

[^Ben]

Well yeh love thats a toughy.

Hard to tell apart from lust and infatuation.

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

sorry farrow, just woke up I'll be happy to chat your head of in a way that will only lead to regret and sadness when I get home

Oh...How lovely. Nice to know there is someone who can bring me down whem I feel like I can't be reached with...a very, long...ladder or something to that effect.

 

[slicktick]

I believe in love. I have been before (am still sort of)

It is this wierd unexplainable feeling of passion and care is the only way I know how to explain it. I really dont think love for a person ever goes away, they may do things you dont like or you fall apart, but that passion and care you felt for them is still their.

It's a weird feeling and I dont think you can ever have it explained to you. Its great though.

edit: I dont think that helped at all. Just make sure you look past physical and temporal things. Look long term. If thats any help.

 

[Raxxman]

Love is quite undefinable. I think everyone has their own opinion on the specifics of love.

She makes me smile, but she also drives me wild. Their are times were I'd never want to leave her, but times (like right now) were I'm so annoyed with her I can't sleep. But I guess that's love.

Love is. I guess that's about as deep as I can be.

 

[HunterSeeker]

This is what I think: Love is a sort of signal that says: you + her would make great children.

Buh, its a chemical reacation always. And I do not think love is above that.

 

[un0x]

I've been in love several times, but the last 3 years I kind of missed the feeling

Might be me, or I just dont meet any nice girls

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

I just typed out so much...and then decided it was best not to say anything.

Feeling like this sucks when you cant talk to the only person you feel you want to right now :x

Although....Maybe thats part fo the problem.

I should really put this in the thinking thread, because I'm basically writing down a train of thought, than constructing a post....

I believe however, this is more to love than jsut a chemical reaction. But thats for another time.

 

[CyberSh33p]

yeah, I know how you feel I suppose

though I supress feelings an awful lot. someday I think I might burst and take out a country or something.

I'm not good with people, much less girls...

anyhow, sorry I'm not canadian nor a girl farrow but once again, once I am home I'll be happy to listen and talk etc

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

I'm sure you will...I'm sure you will be happy to not give away too many details as well :|






I'm gonna take my mothers advice (and I suppose the advice of that guy in the "Yay for life" thread), and channel all of what I'm feeling into something I can have control over right now. I say that because...Yes, this person does live in another country, but...the internet is no barrier to this kind of thing I'm waiting on a reply, hence the not being in control.

 

[ComradeBadger]

I'm in love with someone.

She said she loves me too.. but I don't know how ;(

 

[Fender357]

Yeah, I do. I've got that big time, don't wanna live without this person, kinda love.
We've actually been going out for 4 years now. But I've known her for almost 7. And we'd been going out since then but a couple of times it was an on off kind of thing. But we just can't take not being with each other. And if you've got a feeling like that for someone, then you'd know the great ups and sucky downs you can go though. But its worth it

Here's a picture of my Natalie I took when we went to Catalina for our anaversery.
Natalie

 

[CyberSh33p]

I'm sure you will...I'm sure you will be happy to not give away too many details as well :|






I'm gonna take my mothers advice (and I suppose the advice of that guy in the "Yay for life" thread), and channel all of what I'm feeling into something I can have control over right now. I say that because...Yes, this person does live in another country, but...the internet is no barrier to this kind of thing I'm waiting on a reply, hence the not being in control.

I only gave away what you gave away already
don't make me feel like i r teh scuk 4 yuo (

you will of course give me my own advice once you're all up in that piece, right?

edit: badger, don't sleep with strangers

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

I hope you're note being rude again

 

[CrazyHarij]

I haven't been in love in quite a couple of years by now.. the last time I was it, it ended in probably the worst possible way and tormented me until about the end of last year. ;(

Love hurts.

 

[CyberSh33p]

I hope you're note being rude again

...what do you mean :|

and sorry to hear things sucked for you crazyharij =\ what happened? or would you prefer to not share?

 

[h00dlum]

i only feel love when im drunk

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

...what do you mean :|

and sorry to hear things sucked for you crazyharij =\ what happened? or would you prefer to not share?

All the ""'s are confusing me...And, well, the othe robvious feelings :O

Anyway, I didn't actually know what you were talking about...So, I tried to cover it up with a guess and a quip

 

[Fender357]

I'm in love with someone.

She said she loves me too.. but I don't know how ;(

Waddaya mean? Like you don't know if she loves you like a true love, or like a friend, or like a can of corn? Well....you gotta ask her!
Tell her how you feel. And not just 'I Love You', those words mean alot, but some times its best to really describe how you feel. And ask her if she feels the same for you.
But I hope everything goes great for you :thumbs: .

 

[CyberSh33p]

I see now ok

 

[bud7miker]

I fell in love with a girl when i was 11 No but seriously that was my only love and i haven't meet no one since ;(

I'm so lonely... ;( ;( ;(

I really dont think love for a person ever goes away

Wow thats so true it's wierd now i think of it :O

 

[ComradeBadger]

Waddaya mean? Like you don't know if she loves you like a true love, or like a friend, or like a can of corn? Well....you gotta ask her!
Tell her how you feel. And not just 'I Love You', those words mean alot, but some times its best to really describe how you feel. And ask her if she feels the same for you.
But I hope everything goes great for you :thumbs: .

Whether she loves me just as a mate.

Anyway, I need to buck up about that ;( I've let my feelings for her slip too long

But I'm always scared about how she'll react.. I don't want to loose a friend

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

I see now ok

Quoted so I can pretend to be replying to someone...


I would like to point out, I'm still not sure about this yet. Its like a build up before anything happens. My last email as perhaps rather forthcoming, but I never said anything. Back and forth, I've felt there have been lots of hints of interest by both parties. Anyway, a past experience (Which I've even talked aobut with this person) has taught me something of how to deal with this. I.E. I'm going to tell her soon how I feel...But like I said, I'm still building up to it. Maybe she will say it first, but I'm not expecting that to happen, or even hoping for it to. I want the feelings to be mutual of course, but I want to be the one who....initiats it so to speak. After all, it was her (Although, almost by chance) who started this whole thing off...I dont want to go into it really, but it was quite fortunate for us both that I saw her email. It went straight to my junk folder and I don't normally bother with that at all, however that one time I thought I would check to see what was in there. So many other things, feel like they have led up to this point. Its like, destiny...I know most of you wouldn't want to think of it like that, but I just feel that this is it. She is the one....So to speak. I know, I know, it just sounds wishy washy and "Ole Farrows going through that phase", but its different this time...Really, I just can't explain it, and even if I could most of you wouldn't care for my explanation.


Anyway, in short, I'm going to see how it pans out, then I will tell her and then see what happens. It could just be another learning period for me, in which case I'm in for a bumpy ride but better things will come. However, with regards to this...I think this is the better thing to come and she is the one who I will be with

By the way, I took up setting goals for myself and it works. Although I haven't been doing it as well as I should, I am getting better and one goal I set (yeah it sounds weird) was getting a girlfriend who I would eventually marry and this girl fits the description down to perfection...

I know most of you probably didn't read that...But at times like this, its just good to announce it to the world in general.

 

[CyberSh33p]

Whether she loves me just as a mate.

Anyway, I need to buck up about that ;( I've let my feelings for her slip too long

But I'm always scared about how she'll react.. I don't want to loose a friend

eh, don't be like me, go up and face your fears etc. I think she likes you back based off what I know

 

[ComradeBadger]

Cute FLS

Tell her

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

Cute FLS

Tell her

Cute?

You mean tell her shes cute, or you think this stuation is cute?

I will tell her, but like I said I need a reply first I also need to know her better first...Just outright saying "I love you" is a sure way of scaring people off...Unless I suppose they automatically feel the same way, but even then it can be overwhelming. I dunno, she knows how I feel about relationships now anyway, and if she has picked up on the way I've been talking to her, she must realise I like her. She began talking with me in the first place, because she thought I seemed alright...So I can't go far wrong really

 

[ComradeBadger]

No, what you said was cute

Annnnnyway. Sometimes it's best to keep it simple.

And ch33p.. I'll always be scared when it comes to her (doesn't happen with anyone else)

Also, I often fancy other girls, but I've always loved [the girl in question]

 

[CyberSh33p]

Quoted so I can pretend to be replying to someone...


I would like to point out, I'm still not sure about this yet. Its like a build up before anything happens. My last email as perhaps rather forthcoming, but I never said anything. Back and forth, I've felt there have been lots of hints of interest by both parties. Anyway, a past experience (Which I've even talked aobut with this person) has taught me something of how to deal with this. I.E. I'm going to tell her soon how I feel...But like I said, I'm still building up to it. Maybe she will say it first, but I'm not expecting that to happen, or even hoping for it to. I want the feelings to be mutual of course, but I want to be the one who....initiats it so to speak. After all, it was her (Although, almost by chance) who started this whole thing off...I dont want to go into it really, but it was quite fortunate for us both that I saw her email. It went straight to my junk folder and I don't normally bother with that at all, however that one time I thought I would check to see what was in there. So many other things, feel like they have led up to this point. Its like, destiny...I know most of you wouldn't want to think of it like that, but I just feel that this is it. She is the one....So to speak. I know, I know, it just sounds wishy washy and "Ole Farrows going through that phase", but its different this time...Really, I just can't explain it, and even if I could most of you wouldn't care for my explanation.


Anyway, in short, I'm going to see how it pans out, then I will tell her and then see what happens. It could just be another learning period for me, in which case I'm in for a bumpy ride but better things will come. However, with regards to this...I think this is the better thing to come and she is the one who I will be with

By the way, I took up setting goals for myself and it works. Although I haven't been doing it as well as I should, I am getting better and one goal I set (yeah it sounds weird) was getting a girlfriend who I would eventually marry and this girl fits the description down to perfection...

I know most of you probably didn't read that...But at times like this, its just good to announce it to the world in general.

can't believe I missed this post. silly farrow and his posting just before me causing me to not see it. excuses anyway

I did read through all of that, and I hope it works out for the best honestly, you're an awesome guy and deserve it. You sound pretty sure, and thats good, but I suppose all shall be elucidated shortly

its really interesting to think about all the forum members, and how much has changed since I started posting. thenerdguy got engaged, I made a crapload of new friends, um, thats all I can think of

once again, best wishes le farrow


badger: I'm ch33p now eh ;_;

Well, you will be scared, yes, thats wholly understandable, but you will have to face it really I think if she says yes or not, it needs resolving, and you have to do it soon, you're all at the age when everything starts going off in its own direction, including people, college, etc. the future is very unclear at this point, and telling her now might have some say in it.

 

[Fender357]

She is the one....So to speak. I know, I know, it just sounds wishy washy and "Ole Farrows going through that phase", but its different this time...Really, I just can't explain it, and even if I could most of you wouldn't care for my explanation.

I know most of you probably didn't read that...But at times like this, its just good to announce it to the world in general.

Nope, I know exactly what you'r feelin' and I just hope it all turns out awesome for you. Most people will just say its the same old thing and that it can't work. But you know and I know that isn't true and that love can always win over what ever crap is going on.
So I need no explanation I know how you feel. Its neat :cheese: .

 

[Bad^Hat]

I had/have a foreign love interest. Found eachother in MSN chat of all places. We chatted for a week then she just said "I think I love you", completely out of the blue, which I now know to be a very out of character thing for her to do. The feeling was mutual. Been talking two years, not sure what I feel now, I think we need to meet... OE!! \o/

 

[The Dark Elf]

Love, its soul purpose was as a way to market Valentines Day and give Poet's something to crow on about.

 

[CyberSh33p]

I had/have a foreign love interest. Found eachother in MSN chat of all places. We chatted for a week then she just said "I think I love you", completely out of the blue, which I now know to be a very out of character thing for her to do. The feeling was mutual. Been talking two years, not sure what I feel now, I think we need to meet... OE!! \o/

I think we should meet too badhat I really do love you!

edit: yay! the dark goth posts!

 

[Bad^Hat]

I think we should meet too badhat I really do love you!

edit: yay! the dark goth posts!

She has nice hair She scanned it for meh.

You heard.

 

[ComradeBadger]

Um.

And Syber ;( I'm not sure.. I'll never be unless I ask.. becuase when I said 'I love you, you know'

She said

'I love you too'

;(

 

[CrazyHarij]

Go get 'em while they last, tiger.

Seriously, you should go to 'er and tell her how you feel. Then you'll either be happier than ever before or have a few coming months/years of pain and regret.

The latter happened to me. ;(