man...love really, hurts!!

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would you belive that...maby 10 years or more (im 18) i havent cryed...i'm not such a person...but...

...my girlfriend (which i love her with all my heart) went to a party with her friends (girl only party), someone there had a camera and they made pictures of the party...

...in one photo i saw a "friend" of hers which i really don't like, kissing (french kissing) my girl on the neck...it was a alcohol free party, so nobody was drunk...the funny thing is that my girl seemd to enjoy it...after seing that photo (here on my PC) i just couldnt resist crying because of the pain...then when i calmed down i wanted to kill her friend (if she tryes it again, i probably will)!

my girl is not a lesbian or something alike, but you know how girls are huging and kissing all the time...but this wasn't an ordinary kiss!!??

another thing...a few days before i saw the pictures my girlfriend told me what they were doing at that party, of course in a very censored version...but when i saw the pics....!"#%#%&%$/&#"$%/&/)(/)==(/

i still love her, despite this "accident"! but i wonder why did it happened in the first place???

sometimes love really hurts!!
 
Personally if my girl-friend was kissing another girl and she still liked me I would be a VERY happy man.

Besides, it could have been a truth or dare kind of thing. Girls do that alot with each other.
 
jverne said:
would you belive that...maby 10 years or more (im 18) i havent cryed...i'm not such a person...but...

...my girlfriend (which i love her with all my heart) went to a party with her friends (girl only party), someone there had a camera and they made pictures of the party...

...in one photo i saw a "friend" of hers which i really don't like, kissing (french kissing) my girl on the neck...it was a alcohol free party, so nobody was drunk...the funny thing is that my girl seemd to enjoy it...after seing that photo (here on my PC) i just couldnt resist crying because of the pain...then when i calmed down i wanted to kill her friend (if she tryes it again, i probably will)!

my girl is not a lesbian or something alike, but you know how girls are huging and kissing all the time...but this wasn't an ordinary kiss!!??

another thing...a few days before i saw the pictures my girlfriend told me what they were doing at that party, of course in a very censored version...but when i saw the pics....!"#%#%&%$/&#"$%/&/)(/)==(/

i still love her, despite this "accident"! but i wonder why did it happened in the first place???

sometimes love really hurts!!


1. owned
2. post pics kthx
 
she still likes me, yes, but i hated her friend before this event...i guess its hard for evrybody to understand! my GF has a spot on the neck which really makes her go crazy if get kissed, and i was the first and only one to discover it (i made it sort of like "my proprety")

...imagine columbus discovering america and then someone kicks him in the balls and steals his discorery...

mabey if it was someone who i like kising her, it wouldn't bother me so much!

if a girls goes with another girl, is that cheating??
 
jverne said:
she still likes me, yes, but i hated her friend before this event...i guess its hard for evrybody to understand! my GF has a spot on the neck which really makes her go crazy if get kissed, and i was the first and only one to discover it (i made it sort of like "my proprety")

...imagine columbus discovering america and then someone kicks him in the balls and steals his discorery...

mabey if it was someone who i like kising her, it wouldn't bother me so much!

if a girls goes with another girl, is that cheating??
I guess it technically is cheating, but then again a guy getting a lap dance at a strip club would probably constitute the same level of cheating as well.
 
Where are the pics? I am getting a boner reading this.
 
jverne said:
would you belive that...maby 10 years or more (im 18) i havent cryed...i'm not such a person...but...

...my girlfriend (which i love her with all my heart) went to a party with her friends (girl only party), someone there had a camera and they made pictures of the party...

...in one photo i saw a "friend" of hers which i really don't like, kissing (french kissing) my girl on the neck...it was a alcohol free party, so nobody was drunk...the funny thing is that my girl seemd to enjoy it...after seing that photo (here on my PC) i just couldnt resist crying because of the pain...then when i calmed down i wanted to kill her friend (if she tryes it again, i probably will)!

my girl is not a lesbian or something alike, but you know how girls are huging and kissing all the time...but this wasn't an ordinary kiss!!??

another thing...a few days before i saw the pictures my girlfriend told me what they were doing at that party, of course in a very censored version...but when i saw the pics....!"#%#%&%$/&#"$%/&/)(/)==(/

i still love her, despite this "accident"! but i wonder why did it happened in the first place???

sometimes love really hurts!!
heh, you do know a lot of women, and not just the bi ones, will quite happily screw about like that and more and it mean nothing, just doing it for a laugh. Your getting yourself worked up for no reason.

And if she is into girls aswell as guys, why should it bother you? I only ever date Bi girls (I just seem to get on better with them) Doesn't bother me in the slightest what they get upto with another girl. Most of my female friends are Bi, and im talking proper Bi, not just girls who've kissed another girl and think they are now.

I kinda feel sorry for guys who get worked up over it, you should be thankful, you'd be crying far more if it had been some guy, especially knowing he probably got with her shortly after the photo was taken.

i guess its hard for evrybody to understand! my GF has a spot on the neck which really makes her go crazy if get kissed, and i was the first and only one to discover it (i made it sort of like "my proprety")

So many things wrong with what you just said :) tbh if your saying things like that to her, no wonder she's off having fun with her friend when your not around. You don't own her or any part of her, never will.

I doubt you were the first to "discover" it too..
 
well... yes if it were a guy i'd probably blow my brains out (after blowing his...hehe)! tomorrow is interogation day, we'll see what she has to say!

but still i'm not comfortable with someone kissing my GF!!
 
jverne said:
well... yes if it were a guy i'd probably blow my brains out (after blowing his...hehe)! tomorrow is interogation day, we'll see what she has to say!

but still i'm not comfortable with someone kissing my GF!!
Dear God lol

threatening to kill, interogation day!? wtf? lol

well say goodbye to your girlfriend, cause I can just see you pissing her off to the point she tells you other things they got upto, sending you in a rage and her out of your life.
 
[/QUOTE]So many things wrong with what you just said :) tbh if your saying things like that to her, no wonder she's off having fun with her friend when your not around. You don't own her or any part of her, never will.

I doubt you were the first to "discover" it too..[/QUOTE]

i'm her first, so you never know! well yes it's a little selfish by me to own something of hers, it's just that...ehh...never mind :(
 
Your jealousy is a bigger threat to your relationship then this other girl.
 
The Dark Elf said:
Dear God lol

threatening to kill, interogation day!? wtf? lol

well say goodbye to your girlfriend, cause I can just see you pissing her off to the point she tells you other things they got upto, sending you in a rage and her out of your life.

hey it's a figure of speach...i'm just going to calmly aske her what really happened!!
 
Lmao.. you can not be serious...
I'd pay my gf to do something like that.

Just wait till you break up, now thats pain.
 
see you gotta keep your girl in check.. if she was cheatin behind my back i would give her a backhand that would teach her never do it again.. then id have her cook me some dinner as im out with my boys beatin that other guy and dumpin his body on the side of the road.
 
nicknitro said:
see you gotta keep your girl in check.. if she was cheatin behind my back i would give her a backhand that would teach her never do it again.. then id have her cook me some dinner as im out with my boys beatin that other guy and dumpin his body on the side of the road.
So, single life nicknitro. how's that working out for you? You doing good?
 
Ikerous said:
Lmao.. you can not be serious...
I'd pay my gf to do something like that.
Not me. I can understand being hurt. I mean,.. being offered a 3way is one thing, but watching your girlfriend make out with another girl,. well I'd feel pretty left out. You know its not cool if another girl made out with you..

Still, jealousy itself is the relationship killer. And it was only a kiss.. not even a reciprocated one at that.
 
i give you this band.
DearWhoever
listen to tears of ashes while your looking at the pics :| ... then tell us what happens =D
 
Just give her some pictures of you making out with another guy.. problem solved! :rolleyes:
 
but ......you're 18!!!!!!!!!!! dear god by the time you're my age, you'll struggle to remember her name. It hurts now, yes but one day it'll be a dim memory ...like what's-her-face and that-girl-with-the-blonde-hair that I used to date, god knows how long ago
 
atleast she is still whit you right?

btw that first reply of nicknitro was ubber funny :laugh:
 
bliink...ewww

this makes me laugh, just tell her next time to involve you ;)
 
The best way to get back would be to post her pictures all over the internet,.. start here!
 
i am in aggreance with kommie...


Though seriosly I dont know what your worried about... chicks do it all the time but most still prefer that thing in your pants...
 
i would recommend that you don't post her pics on the net..... other wise u will lose her 100%.

sorry guys, didn't mean to spoil ur fun...
 
ranga said:
i would recommend that you don't post her pics on the net..... other wise u will lose her 100%.

sorry guys, didn't mean to spoil ur fun...

ranga is her dad in disguise, ignore him
nicknitro said:
see you gotta keep your girl in check.. if she was cheatin behind my back i would give her a backhand that would teach her never do it again.. then id have her cook me some dinner as im out with my boys beatin that other guy and dumpin his body on the side of the road.
Riiiiighhhhtt!
 
ranga is her dad in disguise, ignore him

ahhhh... i sense my coolness factor going down......smack. (i thit the ground).

um.... pics?
 
ranga said:
ahhhh... i sense my coolness factor going down......smack. (i thit the ground).

um.... pics?
That was actually pretty funny,

your coolness factor went up about 27% now
 
if i say it again will it go up further? or will it go back down?... ahh. i need urgent phsyciatrical help! :D
 
wow dude... It be understandable if it was a dude, but girl come on! Now
pickup that guitar, write an album about it, and sell it for all the other miserable people like yourself.
 
It doesn't excuse them if they are bi of doing something else with another person.

It's just used as an excuse to cheat on you then.

"It's okay, I can do stuff with you even though I am in a relationship- I'm bi!" <-- No, it doesn't work like that in a serious relationship, it's not the fact that you did it with whatever gender, it's the fact that you did it.

Tell her that.
 
jverne said:
she still likes me, yes, but i hated her friend before this event...i guess its hard for evrybody to understand! my GF has a spot on the neck which really makes her go crazy if get kissed, and i was the first and only one to discover it (i made it sort of like "my proprety")

...imagine columbus discovering america and then someone kicks him in the balls and steals his discorery...

mabey if it was someone who i like kising her, it wouldn't bother me so much!

if a girls goes with another girl, is that cheating??

I wonder what your girlfriend would do if she caught you posting her "secret spots" on the net. :P
 
RakuraiTenjin said:
It doesn't excuse them if they are bi of doing something else with another person.

It's just used as an excuse to cheat on you then.

"It's okay, I can do stuff with you even though I am in a relationship- I'm bi!" <-- No, it doesn't work like that in a serious relationship, it's not the fact that you did it with whatever gender, it's the fact that you did it.

Tell her that.


True words actually...

/me remembers... ;(
 
The Mullinator said:
Personally if my girl-friend was kissing another girl and she still liked me I would be a VERY happy man.

Besides, it could have been a truth or dare kind of thing. Girls do that alot with each other.

I totally agree :D
 
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