Older woman, younger man?

Is it right for a younger man to date an older woman?

  • Yes

    Votes: 111 90.2%
  • No

    Votes: 12 9.8%

  • Total voters
    123

Angry Lawyer

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Just to get people's opinions on the matter;

Is a relationship between a younger man and an older woman viable? Seems that a lot of people I've met are against it, but I don't see why you can have a 26 year old guy have a relationship with a 19 year old gal, but not the other way around.

So, opinions?

-Angry Lawyer
 
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Its not morally wrong, but I know it can cause trouble sometimes. My dad is a year younger than my mum, and that doesn't really make a difference.
 
As long as they are both consenting adults defined by the law and both love each other, i don't see a problem.
 
*shrugs* No idea. But the older women love me, so I just wanted people's opinions on it.

-Angry Lawyer
 
No problem with that.

I might be a bit biased considering my relationship now.
 
Hugh Hefner is 71 and dating women a third his age, I don't the problem with men dating older women.
 
Okay, I'll extend on the situation.

I'm 19. The latest prospective woman in my life is 26. Everybody I know is in the "OMG thatz 7 yearz n00b!" mode. I decided I needed reassurance, so I came here.

-Angry Lawyer
 
It depends on the circumstances.

There's a lot more variables for love than just age. I, for one, do not know these variables at all.
 
Angry Lawyer said:
Okay, I'll extend on the situation.

I'm 19. The latest prospective woman in my life is 26. Everybody I know is in the "OMG thatz 7 yearz n00b!" mode. I decided I needed reassurance, so I came here.

-Angry Lawyer
Ignore the chavs
 
Consider yourself reassured, nothing to worry about really. If they're fine about men dating women 7 years younger then have a rant at them about double standards.
 
The age difference between 19 and 26 doesn't matter. You're both adults now - you're on the same terms. It's different when you're young, as the same age difference could be a 15 year old going out with an 8 year old. You change alot in those years :p
 
I wouldn't say you're on the same level at all. Go for it. But whatever you think of yourself, you've not stopped maturing...niether has she, but thats different. So... things can change.
 
Angry Lawyer said:
Okay, I'll extend on the situation.

I'm 19. The latest prospective woman in my life is 26. Everybody I know is in the "OMG thatz 7 yearz n00b!" mode. I decided I needed reassurance, so I came here.

-Angry Lawyer

7 years? So what..
 
Farrowlesparrow said:
Apparently so...
Quite an achievement.

I think..

Are you an older woman?

She's 4 years older. (I'm 21) So it's similar to you.

I'm never bothered about it, we have the same interests, get on really well, etc. Never get any trouble about it, everyone is very accepting of it.

I say focus on the character and the personality rather than worrying about what people might think of you. Whatever makes you happier. That's my advice.
 
Yeah..who cares? 7 years isn't a big difference anyway....
 
Yea... i'm 17 dating an 11 year old.. thats only 6 years. No one seems to mind.
I dont see why you'd date older though :/ Thats weird
 
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and Ikerous I really do hope that's a joke :)
 
Ikerous said:
Yea... i'm 17 dating an 11 year old.. thats only 6 years. No one seems to mind.
I dont see why you'd date older though :/ Thats weird

7 years is not much when you are both adults. You are not an adult.
 
No problem with that at all. Although the only older girl I've been with has only been by a few months.
 
course it is.

ashtun kutcher and demi moore. :F

EDIT: as long as both people are over 16..ikerous :p
 
Ikerous said:
Yea... i'm 17 dating an 11 year old.. thats only 6 years. No one seems to mind.
I dont see why you'd date older though :/ Thats weird

so many things wrong with that I don't know where to begin.
 
Not at all. Unless the difference is like 15+ years...
 
Yeah i almost dated a 27 year old mom when i was 18 (MiLF!!)..she wanted to be my sexual teacher...but i was to much of a chicken... :( i regret it now..
 
Pesmerga said:
Not at all. Unless the difference is like 15+ years...


Fifteen years? Almost went there once. I was pissed, she was fit, my mates dragged me away. Sadly.

-Angry Lawyer
 
hey, i wish some older women were after me :p although not too old... they cant be all wrinkley and saggy, and on zimmerframes
 
h00dlum said:
Yeah i almost dated a 27 year old mom when i was 18 (MiLF!!)..she wanted to be my sexual teacher...but i was to much of a chicken... :( i regret it now..
That sounds like a dream of many many 18 year old guys.
 
Ikerous said:
Yea... i'm 17 dating an 11 year old.. thats only 6 years. No one seems to mind.
I dont see why you'd date older though :/ Thats weird

uhm that's just wrong imo...
 
I have an older woman...

by 2 months whohwtfhax!
 
I like my women like I like my showers... hot, wet and latino.
 
meh there's nothin wrong with it, except when you go to the bars and the cougars all go for like the youngest guys, it's hilarious yet scary haha
 
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