Older woman, younger man?

Is it right for a younger man to date an older woman?

  • Yes

    Votes: 111 90.2%

  • No

    Votes: 12 9.8%
  • Total voters
    123
h00dlum said:
Yeah i almost dated a 27 year old mom when i was 18 (MiLF!!)..she wanted to be my sexual teacher...but i was to much of a chicken... :( i regret it now..
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Talk about the one that got away. :LOL:
 
Farrowlesparrow said:
That sounds like a dream of many many 18 year old guys.
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LOL yeah it almost sounds to good to be true..but it is true... :sleep:
 
Well, I think that's okay, but uh, I'm with someone 1 year older than me, so I guess I'd be at least a litte biased.
 
Angry Lawyer said:
Okay, I'll extend on the situation.

I'm 19. The latest prospective woman in my life is 26. Everybody I know is in the "OMG thatz 7 yearz n00b!" mode. I decided I needed reassurance, so I came here.

-Angry Lawyer
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lol more like fair play to you dude. ;)
 
Damn't...

I'm going to stay out of this one.
 
Yes ..... They called MILF

Mama I would love to **** :D

they are hotties
 
God I could right you a whole book on that shit, but I'm to lazy so I won't.

So I will say this...love is love and watch your step...blah blah yadda yadda.

I know from personal experience...sadly.
 
Reminds me of American Pie The Wedding:
Paul Finch: Grandmother****er.
Steve Stifler: Mother****er.
Paul Finch: [smiling] Yes, I am.
Courtersy of IMDB.
 
Angry Lawyer, you are an intelligent person, and i respect you, and any decisions you may choose to make. i also have faith that you will make the right decision for you, no one else can say whether it is right or wrong, it's up to you. personally however i find it perfectly acceptable, though it really depends on the situation. either way, just enjoy your life.
 
Depends on maturity, if you are at the same maturity level then its ok.

People start to complain when they see 55 year old men with 12 year old girls, I doubt you should get many people saying no with 7 years age difference.
 
Who gives a **** what the age difference is between a sexually mature couple?
 
Older women are great esp. when you're around 20. Enjoy them.
 
Shakermaker said:
Older women are great esp. when you're around 20. Enjoy them.
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No...no they're not.

Ok maybe if the woman is about 1 to 5 years older then you.

But no...Trust me..they ain't.God almighty...

(This is from my experience...so do not take it as fact.)
 
Angry Lawyer said:
Just to get people's opinions on the matter;

Is a relationship between a younger man and an older woman viable? Seems that a lot of people I've met are against it, but I don't see why you can have a 26 year old guy have a relationship with a 19 year old gal, but not the other way around.

So, opinions?

-Angry Lawyer
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I don't see a problem with it, anyone who does probably needs to get out more. :sleep:

-michele
 
I can't see any logical reason as to how dating an older woman would be any less acceptable than dating an older man. In fact, if you look at the average life expectancies for women and men... combined with men reaching their sexual peak a few years earlier than women... it would seem that nature suggests the opposite of what is seen as normal in our society.

Also, I didn't want to start another thread for this. It's vaguely related to the topic of older women. I was just watching a show on the Discovery Health channel about plastic surgery. The topic was breast asymmetry. A guy dressed in surgical scrubs walks into the room and starts talking about it... then, he said something that goes like this: "Breast asymmetry is not uncommon. In fact, it is the norm. Most women have at least one breast that is larger than the other." I couldn't help but laugh. Apparently, according to him, having three or more breasts is also not very unusual. I'd like to know where he grew up...
 
Tiverton, apparently. Those damn inbreds.
 
Angry Lawyer said:
Okay, I'll extend on the situation.

I'm 19. The latest prospective woman in my life is 26. Everybody I know is in the "OMG thatz 7 yearz n00b!" mode. I decided I needed reassurance, so I came here.

-Angry Lawyer
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same here except that it's 24 and 31

I don't really care what other people might think or say - it's my life and I can live with it - and I do it very well.
 
I personally don't see anything wrong with it. My (longterm) girlfriend is 25 and I'm 23.

However I have seen firsthand how it can go wrong. A friend of mine who is a couple of years older than me was going out with a girl who was 30 when he was 22. They were completely in love, soulmates etc. She had never been married, or had children.

Then they got to a stage in their relationship at about the 2 year mark. She decided she really wanted to start a family, settle down. He really wanted to be the one to do that with her. However, he was honest enough with himself to recognise he wasn't mature enough to start a family and be a responsible parent figure. He was only 24 at the time.

It tore the both of them apart, and was extremely painful to watch. It was like seeing two people who were made for each other deciding to end everything because of bad timing.

So Angry Lawyer - keep in mind that demographically most women are starting families around the 30 year old mark these days. When she hits that mark you may have to realistically take stock of yourself and ask: Are you both really in the same zone on this?

It is not something to be entered into lightly.
 
Demographically, most relationships I enter don't last longer than 8 months, so I don't think the kids issue is something to worry about until she brings it up.

Well, I'm going to throw caution to the wind and go for it, anyways, because I really like her, she seems to like me, and I like older women in general.

-Angry Lawyer
 
Sure. Doesn't really seem right to have a double standard.
 
depends how old if its a 18 year old with a late 20's chick its fine
but if its like an 18 year old and a 40 year old then thats just plain wrong
 
Angry Lawyer said:
Demographically, most relationships I enter don't last longer than 8 months, so I don't think the kids issue is something to worry about until she brings it up.

Well, I'm going to throw caution to the wind and go for it, anyways, because I really like her, she seems to like me, and I like older women in general.

-Angry Lawyer
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Well then, congrats and I hope everything goes well.

And if something doesn't work out, then you can always flip out and sue her ;)
 
bibble said:
depends how old if its a 18 year old with a late 20's chick its fine
but if its like an 18 year old and a 40 year old then thats just plain wrong
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why? :eek:
 
So how come if its an older woman and a younger guy.. nobody really cares.

But if its an older guy and a younger woman, people seem to have a problem with that. Even though women are quite a few years more mature than guys of the same age, so it makes more sense for a girl to date an older guy, for the whole mentalmatchup thing.
 
The Dark Elf said:
Even though women are quite a few years more mature than guys of the same age, so it makes more sense for a girl to date an older guy, for the whole mentalmatchup thing.
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That's just a stereotype. I can only think of a few women my own age that seem mentally mature enough for a serious relationship. Right now, I prefer someone 2-4 years older than me... but it's not written in stone. That seems to have the best results for me.
 
Its really not that big a deal either way... people are immature right through their twenties, and after that they're stupid and cynical.
 
It's not terribly wrong, only some people have morals set that an older man is the best preference.

Since everyone claims men are the dominate gender and blah, blah, blah. I prefer to have an older man rather than be older than my date/boyfriend/whatever. It's matter of preference, really, though there's nothing wrong with having an older woman if you're a man.

Age means nothing. It's just something that signifies how long you've been living on this planet, that's all.
 
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