Relationships: What ages are accetable?

In years-

  • 11 - 13

    Votes: 4 10.3%

  • 12 - 14

    Votes: 2 5.1%

  • 13 - 15

    Votes: 7 17.9%

  • 14 - 16

    Votes: 22 56.4%

  • 11 - 14

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • 12 - 15

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • 13 - 16

    Votes: 4 10.3%
  • Total voters
    39
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Kristafon

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Presume that the eldest is the boy, what ages do you think are acceptable from the list?

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CRAP I put you can only choose one, admin can u change this please or this will be rediclous.
 
Hmmm, crap choices. Since this is male dominated you should have just said how young a person would have to be for you to go out with them if u was a certain age.
 
Well choices aren't all that great but I guess I would choose 12-14 out of what is there.
 
:dozey: Under my own restrictions I try to set a 2 year limit from my own age.
 
6/8 years either way is cool. I'm 23 btw.
 
the choices kinda suck, i have a friend that is 17 and she is hanging out with someone who is 25 (of course once she turns 18 im sure it will get even bigger). we dont really have a problem with her dating a 25 year old. still seems odd sometimes
 
12, 13, and 14 are way to young in my opninion, relationships at my school last a week if their lucky..

..people are such whores.
 
the question isnt specific enough. and anyway you cant define everyone of the same age in a certian way just because you think theyre all the same.
stereotyping and generalising is a bad thing!

even though the majority of young people are bastards, some are nice people.
the older generations are not so much better either. er. i'll just shut up now no1 knows what im talkin about when i start blabbering on...
 
Depends.. Im 20, I would'nt date a gat younger then 18, unless he was grown up. It really depends, you can have people who are 20 acting like a 15 year old does, then you got 15 year olds acting like adults. It depends on the person, if someone was mature I would go with 17.. but thats a big maybe.
 
Hmm. There's an "official" mathematical equation to this question somewhere. One that equates different ages that are acceptable by the general society. Something like, half your age, plus 5, or similar. Depending on your own age, the age differential goes up and down for what is generally accepted by normal people in your surroundings :) Quite fascinating. Sound like BS yes, but it made kinda sense when I saw it the first time. An age difference of like 10 years is hardly accepted (not to mention illegal) if you're 16. But if you're 45, it's a different story.

Edit: Of course, it doesn't take personalities (sp?) & such into account. A tad too difficult ;)
 
The whole 'I can date them even though they're tons younger than me 'cause they're mature for their age' doesn't cut it for me. No matter what, you aint gonna be 'mature' until you have all your brain at like 20-22 years old, which, amazingly, is when it becomes more acceptable to be in a large-age-difference relationship (assuming the youngest is the 20-22 year old of course).
 
I hate this school dating bullshit. Kids at my high school who are 13 and 14 are trying to act mature (but they're not) and say they're dating and yet, that haven't done shit. At least the 17 year olds actually date. Kids are dip-shits, I wish I was older. I'd rather concentrate on my school work. Kids also use their definition when it comes to dating. When kids say they made out, they really mean, "I touched his/her strand of hair, I bet this is what French kissing feels like".
 
Prince of China said:
I hate this school dating bullshit. Kids at my high school who are 13 and 14 are trying to act mature (but they're not) and say they're dating and yet, that haven't done shit. At least the 17 year olds actually date. Kids are dip-shits, I wish I was older. I'd rather concentrate on my school work. Kids also use their definition when it comes to dating. When kids say they made out, they really mean, "I touched his/her strand of hair, I bet this is what French kissing feels like".
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AMEN

Dating under the age of 17 or 18 is just retarded.

I know I would want one, even though I am only 15, but it's just not right. Too young.

So sick of all these other kids having girlfriends and boyfriends.
And FFS, they even call themselves "single" when they aren't going out with someone.

WTF

I hate my generation. ALOT.
 
vegeta897 said:
AMEN

Dating under the age of 17 or 18 is just retarded.

I know I would want one, even though I am only 15, but it's just not right. Too young.

So sick of all these other kids having girlfriends and boyfriends.
And FFS, they even call themselves "single" when they aren't going out with someone.

WTF

I hate my generation. ALOT.
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I hate your generation too :p

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So Ritz, whats your upper limit on age then? :)
 
vegeta897 said:
AMEN

Dating under the age of 17 or 18 is just retarded.

I know I would want one, even though I am only 15, but it's just not right. Too young.

So sick of all these other kids having girlfriends and boyfriends.
And FFS, they even call themselves "single" when they aren't going out with someone.

WTF

I hate my generation. ALOT.
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This is why I got rid of MSN. I hate the way kids act, especially with their screen names and their spelling errors.
 
Prince of China said:
This is why I got rid of MSN. I hate the way kids act, especially with their screen names and their spelling errors.
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'Vegeta897' isn't too bad, is it? :(

I wish there were smarter kids my age...

Meh.. There really isn't much else to say.
 
Vegeta from DBZ? YOU'RE GUILTY OF BEING A TARD! !! ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU PUT NUMBERS AT THE END!!
:LOL:

James-van-der-beekisagayfag3334: lolllooll1o3l3 wots dat
 
Man I should really get MSN to get myself a good laugh. I've refused to get MSN so far because it's not cool if you're a computer geek (No. It's NOT!) :) But those little kids can be hilariously stupid sometimes (most of the time actually). I have a friend who is 19 or so & he behaves just like them (especially the awful spelling errors. Don't whine about my errors now hehe). And his current girlfriend is probably someone he found through MSN too. I hate this world today :D I think I'm jealous... Shouldn't be. It's icky. Yeah love is blind. But it also have no taste at all :p
 
Exclamatio said:
age is just a number tbh
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I heard that sayings ALL the Rage amongst pedophiles you freakin wierdo.


i see alot of 16 year old girls dating 18+ guys, thats nasty. then see them crying cause she slept with him and she got dumped the next day. that shits hilarious.
 
I think the law in Australia is within two years until you're 16.
I guess I would like a date, but I'm too young. Anyway, it's uncannily difficult when you go to a same-sex school. :(
 
vegeta897 said:
'Vegeta897' isn't too bad, is it? :(

I wish there were smarter kids my age...

Meh.. There really isn't much else to say.
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I don't mind screen names like yours, but I'm talking about, "I love you [insert name here] with all my blahblahblah (not the beloved forum member, by blahblahblah, I mean insert bullshit here)."
That gets extremely annoying with the emoticons of hearts.
I also hate that 'gangster' attitude. I'm not even going to mock it on these forums.
 
that's nothing. i see people with the "leet language" in their screen names, with those messages. but meh, get used to it.
 
Letters said:
The whole 'I can date them even though they're tons younger than me 'cause they're mature for their age' doesn't cut it for me. No matter what, you aint gonna be 'mature' until you have all your brain at like 20-22 years old, which, amazingly, is when it becomes more acceptable to be in a large-age-difference relationship (assuming the youngest is the 20-22 year old of course).
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Study found that the first areas to mature (e.g., extreme front and back of the brain) are those with the most basic functions, such as processing the senses and movement. Areas involved in spatial orientation and language (parietal lobes) follow. Areas with more advanced functions -- integrating information from the senses, reasoning and other "executive" functions (prefrontal cortex) - mature last.
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That pretty much describes over time how the teenage brain matures. Here I'll make a list to explain the jist of it.

11-13 - These people don't even know what they're talking about.
14-16 - Some of the people in this category understand what being mature is about and the rest, well...
17+ - The brain has pretty much finished the rough cycle of development and thus so a large percentage are mature enough to deal with relationships.
 
Kids should date kids and adults should date adults, its really the simple. Kids have a diffrent view on dateing then adults do and diffrent expectations. You can start dateing at the age of 14 or so to learn what its like and better prepare yourself, but the idea that kids do more then just hang out and/or neck at that age is laughable. once your an adult the age limit goes out the window and is replaced with what your comfortable with, I'm 24 but I'd date an 19 yr old or a 36 yr old if thats who I was comfortable and happy with.
 
dear god! the ages stop at 16!! I personally dont think people should get into serious relationships till they're in their mid 20's. There's no way a 16 yr old understands the complexities of relationships much less an 11 yr old. Your youth is for having fun and not having any responsibilities not getting into complex adult issues that frankly most adults are hardly prepared for. Being alone is good for you, you dont need a girlfriend to be complete (multiple girlfriends are ok as long as they know about each other :E )
 
Ugh why do all the ages stop at 16? Personally I would never "date" anyone under 16, as I'm 19, and I don't feel like going to jail. But I agree most people aren't fully mature until their mid-twenties. That's why I've promised myself I would never get married or anything until I'm well out of school and everything. I know I'm not ready for anything serious right now, and I'll admit that. But hey it doesn't mean I can't still have some fun in the meantime, as long as I'm responsible about it. :cheers:
 
I can give two shits about age, but if the second party is less than 2 years younger than me I don't bother.

As for older... well they say the older the better :naughty:
 
well i found it odd to be 17 and date a 14 year old but acceptable to be 16 and date a 14 year old
i dont know why though... the diffrence isen't really that big but i just think its kinda nasty being 17 and dating a 14 year old
 
I seriously would understand anything within the ranges of 1 year apart to 10 years apart for any age. After that, you've lost me...
A few people I know have kids that are 12 and are dating, I mean, that is purely sad...
15 is a good time to start. Any earlier in age, and I'll slap you.
 
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