So its come to this...

[burnzie]

She dumped me...

this is someone that i have known for years. a friend untill we started going out. yesterday while we were going to dinner. i was driveing. she told me that she got drunk the night before and cheated on me with a guy and a girl. she didnt sleep with them, she only kissed them. i wasnt happy as you could imagine, but i love her, i was willing to forgive her if she was truely sorry. i said this and it wasnt the responce she was looking for she wanted me to go right off and dump her. so i get the whole "im just not ready for a relationship" line. and thats when i did the worst thing imanginable.

i slamed on the brakes at 90km/h down the hiway... in the wet. we slid across 4 lanes and ended up in the emergency lane (luckly) it was so stupid. but i didnt care. i didnt hit anything as luckly there was not much to hit. she said she was sorry but she just wasnt up for any commitments. she was the one who asked me out. i fell in love with her. we had so much fun, we never fought about anything. it was all too good to be true as it would seem.

so i said "so this is it then"... she said "no we can just go back to being friends" ... :| was pretty much the expression on my face but :flame: was what was going through my head. what a lame thing to say.

she betrayed my trust, she broke my heart. and i have no idea why i still love her. there are a million things i want to say to her about how i feel but i cant yell at her.

You are probably all sick of these threads and i feal kinda stupid doing this but here it is anyway.

 

[Shuzer]

/me hugs burnzie

There are other fish in the sea.. and.. oh screw that, I hate it when people say that

I recently lost my ex-gf (4 years on and off) as a friend all together. Hurt infinitely more than losing her as a girlfriend

Not sure how this is going to make you feel any better.. but, hopefully, it'll help you realize things get better

 

[Z|insane]

* Z|insane gives Burnzie a hug.
It's okay... everything will be better someday.

 

[McFly]

Dude that sux, but look at it this way. Any bitch that would do something like that to you, you dont need!

Im sorry if i called your true love a bitch....

 

[burnzie]

Dude that sux, but look at it this way. Any bitch that would do something like that to you, you dont need!

Im sorry if i called your true love a bitch....

dont worry its how part of me feels.

*burnzie hugs everyone back

thanks

 

[Adrien C]

Ahh, the good old line "We cant still be friends", yeah, I heard that a thousand times mate. good thing nothing happened to you on the car.

 

[CyberSh33p]

/me shakes burnzies hand

at least you had love, right

/me mopes around

 

[Z|insane]

/me shakes burnzies hand

at least you had love, right

/me mopes around

Yeah, thats a good point. I am gonna go mope too.

(Offtopic: YAY CyberSh33p has his avatar back.)

 

[burnzie]

I dont think i'be broken more random objects in my life... mums gonna be pissed when she gets home

nothing expenceve though

as for the car, stupid. i could have killed someone.

i drove her all the way home with my foot to the floor sliding round every corner. i couldnt even see strait i was so angry. all she kept saying was "sorry". everytime i heard her say it i got angrier.

my poor car.

 

[CyberSh33p]

I dont think i'be broken more random objects in my life... mums gonna be pissed when she gets home

nothing expenceve though

as for the car, stupid. i could have killed someone.

i drove her all the way home with my foot to the floor sliding round every corner. i couldnt even see strait i was so angry. all she kept saying was "sorry". everytime i heard her say it i got angrier.

my poor car.

yeah thats pretty ****ing stupid tbh :|

reminds me of a bad halle berry movie

 

[Tr0n]

This is why is try to stay away from love and relationships....

 

[burnzie]

yeah thats pretty ****ing stupid tbh :|

reminds me of a bad halle berry movie

i know, i cant belive i could act so stupid.

luckly i had been trained to handle my car in situations like that. thats what probably saved me from wrapping my car round a pole. it still no excuse and it dosent account for somthing random happening like a car i didnt see or a pedestrian. i feal so bad...

 

[SpuD]

/me huggles burnzie
cheat on her with me!!!

 

[burnzie]

* SpuD huggles burnzie

cheat on her with me!!!

Yes!! the opertunity i was waiting for :naughty:

haha i needed that laugh

 

[CyberSh33p]

* SpuD huggles burnzie

cheat on her with me!!!

:O spud what about us...

;(

 

[The Mullinator]

/me hugs burnzie

Nothing you can do but accept your loss, hold your head high and march on. Just look forward to the day when this won't bother you anymore.

Oh and don't try to get back at her, there is much more satisfaction in knowing that you are a noble person and that she dumped a gentleman instead of a jerk.

 

[adulus]

Well, whatever happens, good luck...

 

[CptStern]

guys ..relationships are for when you are in your 30's all else is fun filler till you find the right one ...while your still young meet as many women as possible

 

[Stigmata]

* Stigmata hugs burnzie

Don't worry, you'll feel better soon. Everyone has gone, or will go through something like what you've gone through. Except me... the closest I've come is when I got rejected by a girl I was deeply, deeply in love with a few years ago. That's really put me off trying to ask anyone out on a date (I'm still a wuss about it )

At least you respected her throughout the relationship. More than what you can say about her I guess.

 

[sHm0zY]

/me hugs burnzie

Man that sucks dude. Its hard to get over those things. i rmember when i got dumped. i was like omg.. and all these thoughts rushed to me head. :s anyways take it easy.

 

[burnzie]

She says that because her brother died last year she has been to afraid to get close to anyone. she was the one who asked me out. she said she thought she was ready but she wasnt. and i said "so thats when you decided to cheat on me..." and i got no responce. dont know what to think. i do guenualy think that she did like me. but somthing ****ed up. it sure as hell wasnt me.

me and my friends are going up to the snow this week to snowboard. she still wants to come. some of them are her friends aswell. and she realy wants us to be friends again.

im not gonna mess up the rest of my week because of her so im still gona go. im just gonna make it as awkward as posible and she might get the message that she really hurt me.

 

[Tr0n]

Good plan burnzie and good luck bro.

 

[sHm0zY]

She says that because her brother died last year she has been to afraid to get close to anyone. she was the one who asked me out. she said she thought she was ready but she wasnt. and i said "so thats when you decided to cheat on me..." and i got no responce. dont know what to think. i do guenualy think that she did like me. but somthing ****ed up. it sure as hell wasnt me.

me and my friends are going up to the snow this week to snowboard. she still wants to come. some of them are her friends aswell. and she realy wants us to be friends again.

im not gonna mess up the rest of my week because of her so im still gona go. im just gonna make it as awkward as posible and she might get the message that she really hurt me.

yeah thats a good idea but if she comes crawling back. dont go out with her again i know that might be hard but yeah you shouldent go back out with someone that hurt you like that jsut tell her that she shouldnt have dumped you the first time if she wanted you back

 

[burnzie]

yeah thats a good idea but if she comes crawling back. dont go out with her again i know that might be hard but yeah you shouldent go back out with someone that hurt you like that jsut tell her that she shouldnt have dumped you the first time if she wanted you back

i'll see what happens. if she seemed the least bit upset when she broke up with me i would think about it. she would have to pull off something fairly big to get me back. if she came to me in like a month i'll know that she couldnt find someone else or some shit than the answer is gonna be no...

come friday night is time for teh alcahol. Good way to end the snow trip and a good anti depressent. Havent had a good drink in a while. i saw no point when i had a girlfriend. i think i'll hit the clubs :naughty:

 

[sHm0zY]

i'll see what happens. if she seemed the least bit upset when she broke up with me i would think about it. she would have to pull off something fairly big to get me back. if she came to me in like a month i'll know that she couldnt find someone else or some shit than the answer is gonna be no...

come friday night is time for teh alcahol. Good way to end the snow trip and a good anti depressent. Havent had a good drink in a while. i saw no point when i had a girlfriend. i think i'll hit the clubs :naughty:

lol yeah get hammard and if yo do smoke canabis do it its a real stress relever

 

[burnzie]

lol yeah get hammard and if yo do smoke canabis do it its a real stress relever

not much into that but i will get teh drunkXor :naughty:

 

[sHm0zY]

not much into that but i will get teh drunkXor :naughty:

awesome =D :smoking:

 

[Letters]

I suggest really trying to remain friends with her... if you still care about her like you say, it's definitely a good thing.

 

[burnzie]

I suggest really trying to remain friends with her... if you still care about her like you say, it's definitely a good thing.

i cant. every time i see her it makes me feel bad. i dont think i can.

 

[CyberSh33p]

i cant. every time i see her it makes me feel bad. i dont think i can.

build a shrine for her, then as she walks by your house/apartment, drop it on her face. thats what I'd do.

 

[Dalamari]

Dude, that just....dude....

That is like a loanshark saying "We can still be friends" after he takes your fingers off...

Just....dude....kill her.

 

[CyberSh33p]

dude, like totally, way man.

 

[burnzie]

dude, like totally, way man.

hahaha

Well im of to play pool down the pub

thanks lads

 

[JonTheCanuck]

girls r such a heartache... i feel for u man. I recently came out of a very messy ending to a 1 yr relationship... and that was 4 months ago and i still think about it on almost a daily basis. Just give it time, cause sure enough u will start feelin better and it helps a lot when u find somebody new. I guess some good that came out of it is u know now what u dont want in a gf when u see it right?

 

[CyberSh33p]

hahaha

Well im of to play pool down the pub

thanks lads

I'd join you if I lived in australia

 

[Javert]

I feel for you man.

Try and find peace.

 

[h00dlum]

ye u should have thrown her out of the car..im sick of bitches...always a problem with them..

 

[burnzie]

ye u should have thrown her out of the car..im sick of bitches...always a problem with them..

the thought did cross my mind...

 

[Dedalus]

aww what is this, a cursed day for hl2.net members? ;(

unlucky burnzie, i know how you feel, i had the same thing happen to me a couple of years ago (i still can't believe you gave her a lift back though, must've been awkward).

but you seem to be handling it pretty well. carry on and you'll be fine in no time. it'll still hurt like hell, but it just won't dominate your every thought like it probably does now.

/me buys burnzie a pint

 

[burnzie]

*Burnzie drinks pint

thanks

Im at the point where its realy sinking in, it hurts so much. but soon, i'll look back on this and it wont matter so much.

It just makes me sad right now caus on a monday night, we'd be sitting on the couch, in each others arms. watching a movie. this also happens to be our 1 month anaversary, guess missed it by one day. it was only a month ago when things got serious with us. i think im gonna cry.