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Crap, wrong forum, Move plz if possible, ty in advanced, the undersigned.
(tldr version at the bottom for lazy peoples convenience)
So i'm trying to decide whether or not to tell this girl how i feel about her. The problem: She is also one of my oldest friends, and her brother was my best childhood friend.
The Story: Their family and mine have known each other since...forever. Anyway, we were all close until about 6th grade when they moved out. I still hung out with them, but we all drifted apart as time went on. Then their was a dark age starting in high school where i didn't see any of them at all. The turning point was when i received an invitation to their high school graduation and for the first time in nearly 5 years i got to see them all, and thats when i saw how beautiful she had become, hell she cried when she saw me (i've deduced this down to either she was startled at my ugliness, or it had just been a long time, either one is believable). I then found out she was going to the same college as i was, and thats where we are today. I hang out with her as much as i can.
The Current Story: Me and her hang out once a week usually, and she is leaving to Spain to study abroad on June 28. Her brother and i are still friends, but not as close as we used to be. She is single, and so am i, and we have many similarities. My biggest fear was that i had already been friend zoned, but almost everyone i had talk to about this had told me that from the looks of it i haven't (and i hope i haven't!!).
One of the biggest problems i have is a severe lack of confidence and self-esteem. I think this is really hindering me back, but it is really hard for me to change that, but i am trying. Still its hard for me to even ask her because i have this belief in my head that she would never like someone as ugly as me.
Anyway, this is where you, Half-Life 2.netholes come in. Should i tell her, yes or no? If so, any tips and/or hate speech you would like to tell me?
TLDR; Hot girl, my old friend, i like her, tell her? Do it ******! or Don't.
(tldr version at the bottom for lazy peoples convenience)
So i'm trying to decide whether or not to tell this girl how i feel about her. The problem: She is also one of my oldest friends, and her brother was my best childhood friend.
The Story: Their family and mine have known each other since...forever. Anyway, we were all close until about 6th grade when they moved out. I still hung out with them, but we all drifted apart as time went on. Then their was a dark age starting in high school where i didn't see any of them at all. The turning point was when i received an invitation to their high school graduation and for the first time in nearly 5 years i got to see them all, and thats when i saw how beautiful she had become, hell she cried when she saw me (i've deduced this down to either she was startled at my ugliness, or it had just been a long time, either one is believable). I then found out she was going to the same college as i was, and thats where we are today. I hang out with her as much as i can.
The Current Story: Me and her hang out once a week usually, and she is leaving to Spain to study abroad on June 28. Her brother and i are still friends, but not as close as we used to be. She is single, and so am i, and we have many similarities. My biggest fear was that i had already been friend zoned, but almost everyone i had talk to about this had told me that from the looks of it i haven't (and i hope i haven't!!).
One of the biggest problems i have is a severe lack of confidence and self-esteem. I think this is really hindering me back, but it is really hard for me to change that, but i am trying. Still its hard for me to even ask her because i have this belief in my head that she would never like someone as ugly as me.
Anyway, this is where you, Half-Life 2.netholes come in. Should i tell her, yes or no? If so, any tips and/or hate speech you would like to tell me?
TLDR; Hot girl, my old friend, i like her, tell her? Do it ******! or Don't.
