so what is it? (a poll)

[CyberSh33p]

sabre.. what happened to your charmander?

anyway i wanted to add: there's nothing wrong with feeling "uneasy" about homosexuals. for many people it's a fairly natural response. "feelings" should not be regulated by anyone but ourselves. if you feel uneasy around gay ppl, and you don't feel at all bad about it, don't worry about it. you don't have to like everyone. just be cordial to others, that's all. don't let other ppl tell you how to feel, just be conscious of your feelings and how they affect your actions, and evaluate yourself on that relationship.

personally, i find the act of homosexual sex between men to be repugnant. just thinking about it nausiates me. however, homosexual people i like just fine. i have no problem separation those two concepts. one of my 3 or 4 best friends in college was a very effeminate homosexual (unfortunately, i've lost touch with him). oddly, while (like many men) i find lesbian sex exciting, i've never really liked the few lesbians i've known as people.

yet again you articulate better than I. I'll just point to your posts from now on when I want to say something, it'll be easier that way