what you do when you want to forgot a girl

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yes thats the point
there is a girl that I want to forget but I just cant
I will not tell the whole history even if you are nice people

but the real point if that part of my want to forget her and part of my want to keep her as a friend even if I hink she hates me

please this is serious

but if you going to joke about this no proublem is a free forum

EDIT: name corrected
 
<RJMC> said:
yes thats the point
there is a girl that I want to forget but I just cant
I will not tell the whole history even if you are nice people

but the real point if that part of my want to forget her and part of my want to keep her as a friend even if I hink she hates me

please this is serious

but if you going to joke about this no proublem is a free forum
Trying to ignore her is just going to make you think of her more, just talk to her if you can.
 
Seriously: Look at other girls. It doesn't feel right, but if you just talk to other girls, it.. helps some how.
 
If you wan't to forget about something you must fill your concious brain with something else.........or in other words do something intelectual.
 
Top Secret said:
Seriously: Look at other girls. It doesn't feel right, but if you just talk to other girls, it.. helps some how.
are other hot girls in my school but I think they hate me
 
well it's natural to think about her. depending on how long you've known her or whatever, it may be longer to forget about her. time will be the one thing that helps the most. getting a girlfriend helps as well, but still... time heals all.
 
In all seriousness, find a new girl. I thought there were plenty of beautiful women in South America? Best thing is to just find another girl you like and go to work on her.
 
It's called Tequila, and by hot girls I know what you mean, for you international guys : Ugly girls trying to act popular and are very stuck up there ass.
 
Space Cowboy said:
In all seriousness, find a new girl. I thought there were plenty of beautiful women in South America? Best thing is to just find another girl you like and go to work on her.

not so easy
I suck whit girls

and the girl I talk about wanst my girlfriend
is just that I aske her tat and she say no,but she was nice whit me and I want to be her friend
but now I think she just dont care a heck about me and that hurtme

for that I want to forgot her,but still I want to try if the things got better
 
<RJMC> said:
NO THANKS!!11

the last time I drink much beer was crazy
well not so much

and considering that I am 15

You're pretty mature for a 15 year old. I think you'll figure this girl thing out. :D
 
Top Secret said:
You're pretty mature for a 15 year old. I think you'll figure this girl thing out. :D


Problem is, that Latin girls are not mature, I can stop to mock myself at them, they haven't done half the things I've done in life, and for some reason, they thing they are superior, and you should see the racicem here.
 
<RJMC> said:
yes thats the point
there is a girl that I want to forget but I just cant
I will not tell the whole history even if you are nice people

but the real point if that part of my want to forget her and part of my want to keep her as a friend even if I hink she hates me

please this is serious

but if you going to joke about this no proublem is a free forum

EDIT: name corrected

I usually drink, then go to a stip club. But you may want to try just hanging out with your guy friends. Works surprisingly well.
 
I've been trying to do this for about two months now ^_^
I've gone from thinking about her constantly, to only about 10 or so times a day.
It definitely improves with time. Lots and lots of time...

If you dont drink; smoke pot
Its a nice temporary fix
 
Homer said:
I usually drink, then go to a stip club. But you may want to try just hanging out with your guy friends. Works surprisingly well.

no beer please
 
Drowning your problems/memories in beer never works as an artist (forgot her name :o a south american I believe) once said "the basterds learn to swim".
 
It would seem I have stupid memories then, because those mother****ers stay drown. But theres no need to get into that.
 
<RJMC> said:
yes thats the point
there is a girl that I want to forget but I just cant
I will not tell the whole history even if you are nice people

but the real point if that part of my want to forget her and part of my want to keep her as a friend even if I hink she hates me

please this is serious

but if you going to joke about this no proublem is a free forum

EDIT: name corrected

Weak Fool!

God, gain control of your mind. What is this? A soup opera?

Look, just forget her. Do it.
 
Adrien C said:
Problem is, that Latin girls are not mature, I can stop to mock myself at them, they haven't done half the things I've done in life, and for some reason, they thing they are superior, and you should see the racicem here.

You didn't even spell racism right.
 
...and you forgot the period at the end of the sentence. ;)
 
rjmc, i am going through exactly the same thing now. Don't forget about her, talk to her, be her friend, go out with other friends as well as her and have a good time. If she doesn't want to be your friend, then you are 15 years old, just move on to the next lady and think about how you can approach the next lady differently that might give better results. You approached this one girl one way, do you feel you made any mistakes when you approached, do you regret not doing anything? If you do, learn from those mistakes and regrets, and make sure you don't make the same the next time you meet a nice lady.
 
Top Secret said:
Seriously: Look at other girls. It doesn't feel right, but if you just talk to other girls, it.. helps some how.
This is your best advice IMO. It doesnt have to be girls at your school,. go to shopping centers, wander around town, whatever, and just admire cute girls. The point is not to find some new girl to obsess over. You dont want to find a new target for these emotions. The point here is to realize that there are plenty of 'fish in the sea', and let your need fade in the face of infinate opportunity.
Razor said:
rjmc, i am going through exactly the same thing now. Don't forget about her, talk to her, be her friend, go out with other friends as well as her and have a good time.
Trying to stay close to the object of your unrequited affection can make you f'n miserable, and will not do a damned thing for you. She'll find someone she really likes, and you'll be standing there eating your heart out.
 
f|uke said:
This is your best advice IMO. It doesnt have to be girls at your school,. go to shopping centers, wander around town, whatever, and just admire cute girls. The point is not to find some new girl to obsess over. You dont want to find a new target for these emotions. The point here is to realize that there are plenty of 'fish in the sea', and let your need fade in the face of infinate opportunity.Trying to stay close to the object of your unrequited affection can make you f'n miserable, and will not do a damned thing for you. She'll find someone she really likes, and you'll be standing there eating your heart out.


I mean, if he thinks she is a wonderful person, then stay friends with her but know that you have to move on. Just because she doesn't love you doesn't mean you can't ever talk to her ever again.
 
<RJMC> said:
yes thats the point
there is a girl that I want to forget but I just cant
I will not tell the whole history even if you are nice people

but the real point if that part of my want to forget her and part of my want to keep her as a friend even if I hink she hates me

please this is serious

but if you going to joke about this no proublem is a free forum

EDIT: name corrected

Easiest thing in the world. I've had a crush on this one girl since, oh, 1998 or so, and I'm almost done forgetting about her. Yep. Any day now.
 
Just do the things you like.

Fix up look sharp.


This stuff at your age means precisely **** all.
 
Yeah exactly, your not exactly going to marry her. Just think of it like this, all this stuff is just practice for later life. So think" ok then well its over/she doesnt want me" "next please!.........in a month or so"
 
<RJMC> said:
yes thats the point
there is a girl that I want to forget but I just cant
I will not tell the whole history even if you are nice people

but the real point if that part of my want to forget her and part of my want to keep her as a friend even if I hink she hates me

please this is serious

but if you going to joke about this no proublem is a free forum

EDIT: name corrected

I say make peace with her and don't flat-out ignore her. Just heed your attention and time to other things to help; things like games, sports or whatever.
 
I think the question is: why would these girls hate you? and you can turn things round with girls they can be pretty niave sometimes
 
How can we give you good advice other than "meh, just forget her" or "talk to her man, don't ignore her" if you won't tell us the whole story.
 
RoyaleWithCheese said:
How can we give you good advice other than "meh, just forget her" or "talk to her man, don't ignore her" if you won't tell us the whole story.

This guy has a point.
 
Fat Tony! said:
I think the question is: why would these girls hate you? and you can turn things round with girls they can be pretty niave sometimes

I would not suggest taking advantage of them.
 
Yes I dont actually mean it like that. Its just that sometimes girls seem to think your "using them for sex" or " not interested" or things like that or they just plain get it wrong.
 
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