would you have (be happy with) a relationship with absolutely no sex? read first

relationship without sex

  • yes

    Votes: 29 30.2%
  • no

    Votes: 51 53.1%
  • other

    Votes: 5 5.2%
  • what's sex?

    Votes: 11 11.5%

  • Total voters
    96
Definitely no here, sex is just faaaaaaaaaaaaaar too good with my gf. Way too relaxing to give up. And hey, I can talk to her about the things you mentioned aswell, so it's a win-win situation there :D

read above post
 
i thought resurrecting dead threads is heretical...WTF guys?
 
it is the HL2.net equivulent of witchcraft and necromancy, blasphemy punishable only by being drowned in a vat of crap.

and I would not be happy in a relationship without sex althouch it would not be the most important thing in me and her's relationship.
 
Or having blackout and gordonman spam the thread for the next 3 days.
 
I said yes. If you truly love someone you should be able to pull through difficulties like this. Many people have been in love their whole lives without needing sex.

At least being able to display intimacy by for example: Kissing or hand holding, is also something. If you're really incredibly horny I think it should be fair for couples in such a state to masturbate.

I refuse to believe that everyone only loves because they want to get laid. (Being the romantic that I am.) If you find someone who deeply understands you in a way that no one else does, I wouldn't mind being with them for the rest of my life, sex or no sex.

I'm not even going to bother reading previous posts, because I'm quite sure It's just going to drag my morale down and or disgust me. :X So... Yah.
 
Why do people fail to understand one valid point?

We are on this planet to ****. Plain and simple. If we didn't ****, we'd be extinct.

"Love" doesn't even exist. It's just a mental thought that we created to justify wanting to **** one person. If you want to **** multiple people, like every man should...gotta spread the seed and all, then you 'love' them all.
 
Frankly the idea of couples not having sex these days in none existent, unless there is something wrong with you, you really like each other or love each other, find each other attractive, and you are human beings that need releases such as sex, so all points say go. Unless you have a problem, why wouldn't you have sex?
 
Why do people fail to understand one valid point?

We are on this planet to ****. Plain and simple. If we didn't ****, we'd be extinct.

"Love" doesn't even exist. It's just a mental thought that we created to justify wanting to **** one person. If you want to **** multiple people, like every man should...gotta spread the seed and all, then you 'love' them all.

Hey, beliefs will be beliefs. Some people don't think Buddha or God, Jesus, Shiva etc. don't exist either.
Belief is part of what makes us human. And I believe in love, no matter how baloney people think the whole idea is.
 
Believe love, but procreation is hard coded in your life. Frankly, anybody who says they haven't ever had sex are liars...unless they have some form of deformity.

This is, of course, aimed at the people who are well past the age to have sex *30's*

Some people have weird willpower to try and stop from sex because they believe they don't need it..but in the end, they succumb to the penis/vagina.
 
I never said I don't believe that it's coded into all people. I still believe in love thou lol.
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Why do people fail to understand one valid point?

We are on this planet to ****. Plain and simple. If we didn't ****, we'd be extinct.

"Love" doesn't even exist. It's just a mental thought that we created to justify wanting to **** one person. If you want to **** multiple people, like every man should...gotta spread the seed and all, then you 'love' them all.

pitz...you just earned a staggering amount of 100000 respect points...continue and you just might become my idol :E



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Believe love, but procreation is hard coded in your life. Frankly, anybody who says they haven't ever had sex are liars...unless they have some form of deformity.

This is, of course, aimed at the people who are well past the age to have sex *30's*

Some people have weird willpower to try and stop from sex because they believe they don't need it..but in the end, they succumb to the penis/vagina.


right now i'm contemplating where the foundations of the statue will be...
 
If you wanna be really logical and cold about it, Love is just the emotional and physical manifestation of the human instinct to pair off and mate, which all comes down to sex anyway, so a relationship without sex while we are still virile young men (and women) is going to be rough.




Believe in love, believe that that unique spark that grants humanity sapience also grants our affections a unique spark of its own, but don't try and belittle the natural human need for sexual intimacy, that's how marriage counselling starts.


Cowman: I can love you for 300 bob a go, but I insist on being the man.

On the plus side it'll be cheaper then a girlfriend and I wont nag you sooo, think about it sweetums. :x
 
Cowman: I can love you for 300 bob a go, but I insist on being the man.

On the plus side it'll be cheaper then a girlfriend and I wont nag you sooo, think about it sweetums. :x

What the hell is a bob!?
 
Having been in a couple long-distance relationships when I was younger (yeah I was pretty hopeless), I'd say no, at least not before you've matured beyond that point. I think it has to do with age and what you come to value most in a relationship. When you're young it's going to be more about sexual intimacy and "puppy love," but once you get past that stuff and learn what you want in a partner beyond that, your values shift to other things. Probably not by much, but I think I could probably handle a (mostly) sexless relationship once I'd had my fill of throw-away partners. Whether or not it would last is another question...
 
Goddamn Sulk is one articulate bastard. I went into this thread thinking I'd have to be the voice of reason. Oh no no no. no. /proceeds to brown nose
 
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