Abstinance vs Promiscuity

[Rizzo]

/Me saving marriage for sex.

???

Thats not right...

 

[Raeven0]

stuff

I think what I meant was that not everyone's mind automatically associates sex with souls and hearts in the way that mine does. Stupid choices of diction like that are why I proofread several times when writing formally

 

[CrazyHarij]

sex rules

 

[ComradeBadger]

None other.

Wubs.

Personally - it's all good, Different strokes for different folks and all.

My own morals in this regard are probably going to be rather unpopular.. I see nothing wrong in chatting up a stranger in a club and taking her home/going back to hers. I don't see anything wrong never calling.. sure, it's a bastardly thing to do but it hurts less in the long run. I don't see anything wrong with being sex buddies, but it's worked out badly both times I've done that and I got a little fked up. However at the moment, I'm sticking with my gf

 

[Cormeh]

Different strokes for different folks

Sorry, I don't think that was an intentional pun. I loled anyways.

 

[Ennui]

I don't think it's a big deal when people have promiscuous sex, but for me it's more of a love-thing.

 

[Ikerous]

I don't think it's a big deal when people have promiscuous sex, but for me it's more of a love-thing.

I thought we were just screwing around :O

 

[Ennui]

mansechs was not included in that statement

 

[ComradeBadger]

Sorry, I don't think that was an intentional pun. I loled anyways.

It was actually

Woo!

 

[Ikerous]

mansechs was not included in that statement

Oh...


;(

 

[Asknoone]

I prefer to really like the person.

 

[Mr-Fusion]

Part me of would absolutely love to be a sex machine meeting up with the pretty wiminz several times a week to **** our brains out, as i'm sure most guys would. 2 somes, 3 somes more somes. Part me of desires this greatly, when the boner is raging out of control and you want to **** anything that walks. It's an insanely tempting part of being a man. But i know i'd feel so empty i know i'd feel like a piece of dirt, using and being used for carnal pleasures.

With that said, i'm not saving sex for marriage, nor am i saving sex for a relationship with a girl. In fact, i'm not conciously saving sex. It just kind of happened that i've never had sex. I don't think girls view me as a sex object or sexy. I think they just see me as ..some dorky dishevelled dude. So when you're at a party/nightclub/pub/bar/restaurant (not that i am much), but when you're at a party and the wiminz is in heat they wouldn't be drawn to me so i miss out on that casual spur of the moment sex that i hear about in stories..

Then later in the night when i've sobered up i get really paranoid and start thinking how women can detect, through your pheromones, whether or not you have a strong immune system and strong genes overall. They are smelling for strong mates and those other GUYS are clearly the alphas of the parteh. With their strong immune systems able to fight any disease.

****. right...whatever.

 

[Stigmata]

Sex is sex. It's not what it's often made out to be; but on the other hand, it's not something to be done with just anyone. There are far too many people who lump love and sex into the same category to allow for freelance intercourse, so it's always good to check beforehand.

I say, do whatever you want, as long as it's consensual.

 

[JNightshade]

Personally, I'm fine with all of those options. I choose to try for relationships and love, rather than random hookups, but if the opportunity presents itself... :E

 

[el Chi]

Stuff.

Fair play

I don't see anything wrong never calling

Nah, keeping people on edge isn't cool. If you get their number, it's best to let them know what the score is. If they come to the conclusion you're a tosser then so be it, but at least that's done quickly rather than having them hanging around wondering and coming to the conclusion that you're a tosser slowly-but-surely.
Nice to have you back, by the way

 

[JNightshade]

Oh, also, a little OT, but...

good to have you back, Pendragon

 

[ComradeBadger]

Fair play
Nah, keeping people on edge isn't cool. If you get their number, it's best to let them know what the score is. If they come to the conclusion you're a tosser then so be it, but at least that's done quickly rather than having them hanging around wondering and coming to the conclusion that you're a tosser slowly-but-surely.
Nice to have you back, by the way

Quiet you

No I mean, not even taking their number etc etc but yeah, I do get what you mean :E

 

[Qonfused]

Sex is wrong if it's out of a serious relationship. I think the marriage thing is uber hardcore and if you're planning to get married or deep, deep in love with the other person, it's fine. Banging random people... no... not in this day and age.

 

[Raziaar]

My sexual interest is based nearly entirely on my affections for the person... Except in the case of self gratification material.

 

[MiccyNarc]

Sex is wrong if it's out of a serious relationship. I think the marriage thing is uber hardcore and if you're planning to get married or deep, deep in love with the other person, it's fine. Banging random people... no... not in this day and age.

Agreed.
If you're screwing anyone that you can, it becomes nothing more than assisted masturbation.

 

[Shamrock]

Agreed.
If you're screwing anyone that you can, it becomes nothing more than assisted masturbation.

Or nothing more than going to the drugstore to buy STDs in a bottle.

 

[Zombie]

Meh, I've thought about what kind of person I want to be, a lot. In all honesty, it's not the sex I would enjoy most, but the absolute connection I would have with that woman for the night. Which is why I would want to have my first time be with another woman who shares the same feelings on the matter as I do, and not some random slut (however, if offered the chance, I would find trouble saying no) who just wants to make a night of it because she's bored.

Whether it's with a woman I love, am deeply affectionate for, or consider a really good friend / turned relationship, I find all matters of sex to have varying degrees of consequences, but none are "wrong", there's only "stupid" and "thoughtless" sex that I'd (try) to avoid.

 

[lePobz]

I don't "have sex" ... I make love. If you've rogered me, you're pretty f***ing special.

 

[Raziaar]

I don't "have sex" ... I make love. If you've rogered me, you're pretty f***ing special.

Hey buddy, thanks for that dollar you lent me the other day!

 

[Angry Lawyer]

Meh, I've thought about what kind of person I want to be, a lot. In all honesty, it's not the sex I would enjoy most, but the absolute connection I would have with that woman for the night.

Pesmerga, you're just like me. Except exchange the future tense with the past tense.

-Angry Lawyer

 

[lePobz]

Awww... thanks!

I thought we agreed to keep that 'little incident' secret, Raziaar ... :frown:

 

[Raziaar]

I thought we agreed to keep that 'little incident' secret, Raziaar ... :frown:

Oops. No worries! Post edit to the rescue!

 

[JNightshade]

No, too late! For I have seen the original post... and know of Raziaar and Pobzy's hidden tryst! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

 

[Zombie]

Pesmerga, you're just like me. Except exchange the future tense with the past tense.

-Angry Lawyer

Who's this Pesmerga character, obviously some loser face.

And congrats D:

Oh and by the way, band chicks can be hawt in their own way.

 

[AntiAnto]

Sex is good, therefore it is proper IMO to have sexual intercourses with whomever consentaneous.

 

[Hectic Glenn]

Who's this Pesmerga character, obviously some loser face.

IP addresses failed you buddy!

I believe in relationships, loose sex with anyone is fine if people want to do it, but it's purely fun and something to do. For me sex represents much more than that. Love being a key part, with trust and other things thrown in. Decent girls don't like man slags anyway.

 

[AntiAnto]

I believe in relationships, loose sex with anyone is fine if people want to do it, but it's purely fun and something to do. For me sex represents much more than that. Love being a key part, with trust and other things thrown in. Decent girls don't like man slags anyway.

Ditto.

 

[ComradeBadger]

Agreed.
If you're screwing anyone that you can, it becomes nothing more than assisted masturbation.

Yeah, but if it's fun and both people enjoy it/get what they want.. it's hardley in the same league.

Decent girls don't like man slags anyway.

That's a lie and you know it

 

[RakuraiTenjin]

btw always wear a condom

Never use condoms that just ruins the feeling.

 

[Evo]

If i was out on town and got chattin to a girl would go all the way and shag her if she was up for it too. However not sure how i'd feel after..

Ideally for me sex would be with someone i cared about, not necessarily loved but at least knew them.

Got a confusing mess with the ex going on too...which i guess is screwin with my mind a fair bit

D:

btw am a virgin still

 

[RakuraiTenjin]

If i was out on town and got chattin to a girl would go all the way and shag her if she was up for it too. However not sure how i'd feel after..

Depends, if you woke up and she was still in your bed, you'd feel confused. First words should be "Why are you still here?"

If you woke up and your cash / valuables were gone, you'd feel at least a bit of satisfaction that you managed to give her the AIDS before she left.

 

[Que-Ever]

Yes, and all our teachers are like: "US westerners are stupid they don't do anything and they're too lazy to study. We're better because we work harder and have more intellect." because of that.

True story.

We kill our selves studying, the average high school student sleeps at 3am, and people kill themselves for getting 'C's in tests.

Tell your teacher I'm ok with being stupid because everyone else around me is even stupider.

 

[Evo]

Depends, if you woke up and she was still in your bed, you'd feel confused. First words should be "Why are you still here?"

If you woke up and your cash / valuables were gone, you'd feel at least a bit of satisfaction that you managed to give her the AIDS before she left.

:dozey: ... :naughty:

:smoking:

 

[Fat Tony!]

Well I used to think it would be important to lose it to that special person but I can't be arsed with waiting now im in University, no time for waiting around. I voted 4th option.

 

[el Chi]

Quiet you

No I mean, not even taking their number etc etc but yeah, I do get what you mean :E

Well, Comrade "Kill me if I ever go near MySpace" Badger, I look at it like this: if no exchange of numbers has occured then that's just too bad. One is absolved of guilt. To a fashion, anyway.

"How could I tell you it didn't mean anything and that I didn't like you if I couldn't even call you? Hell, if it's anyone's fault, it's yours!"