Kester^
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dude, youre not exactly helping yourself with that attitude
I don't see why. Just because you meet someone is a club doesn't mean you have to sleep with them instantly. I knew Nic, my fiancee, for 3 years before we got together, and in that time nothing sexual happened, even though I used the approach I have said earlier. Although a hell of a lot of flirting happened in that time.
It doesn't matter who you approach a girl, it's what you then do that decides whether there is a worth while future. Out of the hundreds of girls I've pulled at clubs I slept with 7, and none of those were on the same night I met them. 3 were long term relationships, the others were just really close mates, who I had no strings sex with.
I prefer to know a girl before I put out. Far too much is put on sleeping with as many girls as you can when you are a guy. People really need to get over that. Just play the field without sleeping with them, find who you really like, and then work on that girl to make it more than just lustful attraction. Hell if you really want to and it makes you feel better, tell you mates you slept with them all. If you have game, they'll believe you regardless.