Attitudes towards the ladies in here

[Gunner]

Nah, I am in no need of such help, I've got it down.

Use viagra in that case. Hah!

 

[BBMcGinty]

What the hell is this? do you know where you are? let me help you out: this is a forum about a video game, the average member age is probably fifteen or sixteen (maybe seventeen). OF COURSE they're gonna act like dickheads. Besides that link you provided is all garbage, it's like those self-help seminars on tape it's pathetic.

I know where I am, and I'm quite sure this is the general discussion forum, not the HL2 forum. If I were to be exposed to this information when I was fifteen or sixteen, and taken heed of what's contained within that information, then my life would of been dramatically different. You are never too young to learn.

I agree, it really does resemble self help tapes etc, but this info is from people that have turned their miserable lives around, and are willing to share their lessons for the benefit of other people, not for cash. It's a simple, but glaring, difference.

Being a Don Juan will get you a woman, being a Don Juan will not get you the right woman.

True to an extent mate, that's why I mentioned that the techniques and patterns crap should be ignored. The real goal is to become a confident man, and in turn you will be able to separate the wheat from the chaff, end up with the right woman, and not settle for the first lady that shows any bit of interest in you. Too many guys settle for less because they don't believe they are good enough for anything better. You can't go through the process of elimination if you only have a limited selection to start with.

Well, that's all from me. Take it or leave it.

 

[Spartan]

I've been lurking in here for a while, and there's always one subject that brings up some very disturbing responses: Topics about the ladies.

The overwhelming attitude in the many quotes from the guys in here is one of self-loathing or a complete lack of self-confidence. I don't know what happened to these guys to become this way, but maybe this link can help.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Obviously you have to want to help yourself, but if you really want to learn to defeat the emasculated and self-loathing creature you may have become, read up on the writings contained in the link above.

Warning: The links lead to high quality posts within a forum that also contain nonsense threads on "Techniques" and "Patterns". Ignore these nonsense threads and concentrate on the threads that are linked within the link above.

If, after reading through all the "must read" posts, you don't feel a new zeal for life and a desire to improve yourself, I think it may well be time to seek professional help.

I found the above link a couple of years ago now, and belive me, it changed my world. Now everyone I meet sees me in a positive light, the ladies see this, my coworkers see this, ****, everyone around me sees this. I haven't felt so good about myself since I was a wee lad. I just needed a kick in the right direction and that link provided the boot to the arse I needed.

Trust me, if you want to improve yourself, read what is contained in the link above. You will thank me a year from now.

Hmm. I don't even know any ladies.

 

[PvtRyan]

The overwhelming attitude in the many quotes from the guys in here is one of self-loathing or a complete lack of self-confidence. I don't know what happened to these guys to become this way, but maybe this link can help.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

So I guess the general attitude of that site 'how to talk yourself into a girl's pants, anything goes' is a healthy attitude towards girls?

And besides, we're all just kidding, no less than girls making fun of guys.

 

[Yuri]

Oh, man. Thank you for such an INCREDIBLE LAUGH!!!!!!!!!

WHOOO! :rolling:

I loved the IM conversation. Classic. :E

 

[Steve]

Hey I respect woman and there rights...so don't include me in that ya'll!Most southern guys are gentlemen by the way...

yes, tr0n. yes we are. we rock, don't we, tr0n?

 

[Tr0n]

yes, tr0n. yes we are. we rock, don't we, tr0n?

Yes Steve...We are the shizzle Steve.

 

[qckbeam]

yes, tr0n. yes we are. we rock, don't we, tr0n?

I'm the only one here that rocks

 

[DoctorGordon]

I'm the only one here that rocks

Wrong. I am the Head Gringo.

 

[evil^milk]

girls don't like boys
girls like cars and money...

 

[Johan_Tayn]

I and Even...Capitalize if you wanna be a grammar nazi.

Edit:Yes I know it's not pointed to me.

Shoot, he said there while it should have been they're. They are. Not (over) there.
:afro:

I agree with Tron about Southern Gentlemen as I am one myself.

 

[Fat Tony!]

hah well I dunno there is so many of these sites on the internet all claiming that they know the solution. They all seem different as well but there is some clear simularitys.

1) If you havent got a social life, make it so.
2) Expand you social life
3) learn how to talk to girls by treating them as human beings
4) Try flirting
5) other stuff that usually differs
6) Get the girl

Everyone is different. Different methods work with different people, usually the best thing to do is to get out more and do different things to meet different people but it is not always so easy. Usually you have to wait until an opportunity arrives, grab it and then continue to stretch yourself until you have risen into the social heights. But really, words mean nothing I realise that this is what you have to do but I dont. Its all to do luck to kick start everything. Bah I dont even know what im talking about. But basically try not to become the people who write these guides :\

 

[Burn]

sure way to win my heart is to beat me at Dungeon Keeper, one or two.

Of coruse that IS impossable.....

 

[The Dark Elf]

Of coruse that IS impossable.....

of course it is

 

[Fat Tony!]

Wow people still play dungeon keeper?

 

[Foxtrot]

I don't feel the zeal!!! Nor do I want to improve, should I go kill myself now?

 

[qckbeam]

Wrong. I am the Head Gringo.

Sun worshippers such as yourself are not allowed to be Head Gringo.

 

[DoctorGordon]

Sun worshippers such as yourself are not allowed to be Head Gringo.

Good heavens, my comments in that 'sun' thread will never be forgotten or perceived correctly.

 

[Bad^Hat]

sure way to win my heart is to beat me at Dungeon Keeper, one or two.

Of coruse that IS impossable.....

Arg. I haaaaaaaaaaaaate that game...

 

[Dr. Freeman]

bliink's and Ritz's reaction to this thread was priceless for obvious reasons :E
and bliink knows i treat women fairly.. right miss. bliink?

 

[Burn]

Arg. I haaaaaaaaaaaaate that game...

*chains Bad^Hat to a wall, then sets the wall on fire.*

Burn! Burn!

 

[Bad^Hat]

*chains Bad^Hat to a wall, then sets the wall on fire.*

Burn! Burn!

*posseses an imp to go round to your house and steal your fridge*

Ow, my larynx

 

[Yakuza]

Exactly, but as i learned yesterday, finding the right woman is a lot more then just fancy moves and confidence. I met the most amazing woman over the internet a couple of weeks ago, and we hit it off straight away. I have never been on the phone or talked to anyone at all for as long as when i spoke to her, she was amazing. We met yesterday, we had the most beautiful and lovely day anyone could ever imagine, i fell undeniably in love but she just didn't feel that spark. And we talked about what the future would hold for us, before we walked back to the station and for 30 minutes, we just held each other close, listened to each others heartbeats and breathing and kept each other warm on the cold station platform. The train pulled in, everyone got off, we got up, just cuddled each other and hugged each other for what seemed like an eternity, she kissed me, before i got on the train and cried my eyes out and came home, like i said, finding the right woman is more then just some fancy moves and i would rather have the right woman over any other woman any day of my life.

That sounds nice and all, but what the guy says is the truth. This is a battlefield of the mind, all these things he is talking about is on How to get your foot in the door. The point is that you still have to start somewhere. The right women just doesn't fall out of the sky. And from what you said this girl may not be interested.

I am willing to bet that you would not have talked with her the way you did on the net if you had met her inperson for the first time (never had talking with he at all).

 

[Javert]

Yes Steve...We are the shizzle Steve.

Tr0n, you're great. ^_^