Best friend is sleeping with ex-girlfriend

Pesmerga said:
Sure is virgin around here.

I'm just trying to lighten this guy's spirits up and you come in here telling him his best friend is going to commit suicide, and you think I should go away?

Fvck you.
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haha calm down its a joke, dont freak out. I was saying it was you posing in the picture...trying to show off those legs..
Sure is hostile around here.
 
Sure is can't tell each other is making a joke around here.

You should video tape them having sex and then sell it on the internet, and give us a link to a free version.
 
Man, all you can do is realize she's just another girl. Sure, you may have had feelings for her, but if it didn't work then it's not going to. There's someone for everybody, and just because some people can't find theirs doesn't mean it's not true. You'll find your girl someday. Don't let this bitch **** you up and steal your thunder. Rub her face in it. Prove you are better by not giving a shit. You can make different friends, you can get a different girlfriend. People come and go like weather, so don't let these two hurt you.

That's my 2 cents. :p
 
Moving on is hard, it's true, but obviously your best friend wasn't truly looking out for you as best friends should.

Y'know, I think I'll just quote Pulse, otherwise I'll end up repeating him.

Pulse said:
Heh I too just came out of a 3 year relationship with a girl who said she loved me more than anything and that I'd have to be the one to break up with her, that is until she called it off! It hurts like hell and I can imagine it's a lot worse as your best friend has got with her, but you've gotta move on. Exclude those two from your life as they clearly couldn't give a shit about how you feel and get on the pull sunshine.
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Man law is bullshit when your heart is entwined with the matter.
 
Pesmerga said:
Just remind yourself that the person you think is your best friend is actually just a douche bag who happened to run into your life.

Also remind yourself that you really don't have any true friends.
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Holy shit, I actually agree with this guy.
 
If you feel as strongly about the situation as you clearly do, it's not very "best friend" behaviour of him to go through with it. Though it is probably your own fault for denying how you felt before the situation started, so you really just have to live with it. Still, I know I'd never touch anyone my best friend ever went out with. Simply out of the question entirely; there's an emotional attachment you form with someone you go out with, especially for 3 years, that isn't ever going to go away.
 
^So true, how could your friend not think that it would make things atleast..akward between the two of you?
 
I appreciate all the replies, even the purely humorous ones. I just found out like 2 days ago they had been seeing each other for a couple months. It hurts like hell, but I'll live.
 
Man law is perfectly acceptable. If your friend is in the wrong, go **** his shit up.

Alternatively, was it clear that the girl wasn't fair game if she was your ex? What sort of time frame are we dealing with here?

Not enough information to draw a complete picture here.
 
Pull away from the two of them for a while until they're through, or you're over it. It sucks, but one bad call isn't worth losing your best friend for GOOD. Just take a break from them.
 
I agree, pics are required sooo we can.... urr... connnnnnecttt on a moooore emotional level with you?

Yes that'll do.
 
OK...

OK....

OK

Everybody stop talking. PUT DOWN THE ****ING KEYBOARD. There is only one solution to this problem.

It is not "talk to him about how you feel".

It is not "stop being a pussy she's fair game" (I like this one too though)

And it is not "they are shitty friends".

It is this...

DON'T ASK THE ****ING INTERNET FOR ADVICE.

The internet is going to net you millions and millions of opinions. All valid of course, right down to "kill them both and sex the bodies", because we all have different views on life, and we all handle our problems differently.

The only true answer is do whatever the **** you want to do, damn the opposition. If you want to murder them and sex the bodies, do it. If you want to stop giving a **** cause she's fair game, do it. If you want to talk to him about it, THEN ****ING DO IT.

BUT DON'T ****ING WHINE ABOUT IT ON THE INTERNET. YOU WON'T GET ANYTHING DONE
 
Hey guys, remember those threads sinko made to whine about stuff?
 
Krynn72 said:
Hey guys, remember those threads sinko made to whine about stuff?
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Oh god yes I do.

That kid was such a ******.

BUT NOW HE DOESN'T JACK OFF TO MAN PORN!

(as much)

Srsly though. I learned the hard way. I'm doing everything in my power to make sure it's even harder for him.

SRSLY THOUGH.

Think about it, if you just ask on the internet and pick somebodies suggestion, where the **** does YOUR opinion come into play?

(that was for real serious)

I HAVE POINTS TO MAKE, DON'T YOU WORRY!
 
TBH, its really none of your business. She ain't your girlfriend anymore.
 
Atomic_Piggy said:
TBH, its really none of your business. She ain't your girlfriend anymore.
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I'm pretty sure he doesn't want it to be his business either, but when she's involving herself with people in the same social group as him it's not exactly an easy thing to just ignore. :dozey:
 
But what if shes hot? Man law says; if shes hot, then man law is irrelevant.
 
Poke holes in his condoms and replace her birth control pills with something.

Then stab him.

And her.
 
STFU about man law already.

Not really your business. If it bothers you/they're near you a lot, avoid them.
 
Corp. Sheepo said:
Not really your business. If it bothers you/they're near you a lot, avoid them.
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Sometimes easier said than done, esp if she's intent of rubbing her new relationship it in his face. Women can be quite vindictive you know. :dozey:
 
I know, but if he's draggin her around everywhere and OP can't deal with it, the best he can do is try to avoid them until he can deal with it.
 
I read the thread title as "John Travolta is sleeping with ex-girlfriend".

how disappointing. :frown:
 
Darkside55 said:
When one of our friends broke up with his girlfriend, the whole lot of us were on that shit within the hour. Three of us took her to dinner that very night and were like, "Sup, baby?"
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unless the "girlfriend" was actually a drawing of some half-naked anime woman/prepubescent girl/animal hybrid I'm calling shenanigans
 
Wow, love the internet tough guy stuff "I'd punch him in the face" etc. sure you would, lol. Sorry that it's hard on you OP, but she's not your gf now, she's fair game as others have already said, and contrary to what some people are saying here, there's no reason she should be "off-limits" to your friend unless you were still together.
 
Zeus said:
Wow, love the internet tough guy stuff "I'd punch him in the face" etc. sure you would, lol. Sorry that it's hard on you OP, but she's not your gf now, she's fair game as others have already said, and contrary to what some people are saying here, there's no reason she should be "off-limits" to your friend unless you were still together.
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No ones saying that a mates ex is wholly offlimits, but generally you let the whole thing bed down for an appropriate amount of time to find out whether it's actually 'over' (and not just a lovers tiff) and that either party has moved on emotionally. I doubt very much whether anyone saying 'fair game' would particularly like if the day they bury their father, their mother turned up with her new 'fancy' man pawing all over her. A degree of social decorum in all matters is no bad thing. :rolleyes:
 
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