ever feel like you dont fit in?

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XenoSpirit

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im shure just about evreyone has had this feeling like they just dont fit in... thare just not like anyone else... much like the 1st day of school? i find myself fitting in nicely in most any place after the 1st 5 mins... thats real life, but on the internet i find my self so much diffrent from evreyone else... a few minuts ago i was reading a few outher ppls posts then i read mine... and mine tottally runs off topic half the time and is filled with spam... douse anyone else get this same feeling on the net or is it just me? cause its really annoying me... im thinking about changeing my main language under a new name and acting like a noob from korea or someplace..
 
well, at my first day of high school-I felt like an outsider, but now I love high school.
But which grade 8 didn't feel like they fit in?
 
bah... im not talking about school... im just saying i look so diffrent from evreyone here..



почему я всегда тупоумное одним?!!!!
 
Tredoslop said:
well, at my first day of high school-I felt like an outsider, but now I love high school.
But which grade 8 didn't feel like they fit in?
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high school is miserable. be here another year or so. I hate it so much. and the people in it. oh lord someone save me.

my teachers are flakey, 90% of the girls here are ugly whores(lucky enough the pretty smart girls happen to be in classes with me), the guys act like idiots, and its full of teenagers. thats the worst part.

I can't wait til summer.

edit: ya ne znayo, trinity. mozhot byt ty prosta c'uma cashol?
 
everyone is different. Its what makes the world (or in this case, forum) go around.

I look at my posts and they look completely different then everybody elses. I post stuff that goes off topic and has spam in it, so what? Being different is a good thing.
 
This forum wouldn't be complete without you, Trinity :) lol, sometimes your postse are a little crazy, but then again, like blahblahblah said, we're all different
 
Yea be glad your different.
Ahh I see that your in Texas, so am I, thats the problem right there-living in Texas isnt good for anyone.
 
CyberSh33p said:
high school is miserable. be here another year or so. I hate it so much. and the people in it. oh lord someone save me.
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haha tell me about it Im soo glad Im out of school. :thumbs:
 
Sometimes I get that feeling to, but not here, I feel that im just as crazy as mchammer or crush :p
 
I didn't fit in with anyone till I found a group of PC nerds and gamers.
 
High School is such a ****ing piece of shit-covered arse.

Sorry, I really hate it :)

Alot of the time I feel like I don't fit in IRL, but sometimes I just say the right stuff and crack a few jokes and people think I'm a hoot. Other times it can get really awkward, but that's the way things go I guess. I'm really not a particularly social person, I straight piss some people off, I have no fashion sense whatsoever, then there's the whole social anxiety thing. Oh, and I have a big head :)

Online I'm actually kind of popular, bar a few people who I just don't get along with but that's to be expected. Idunno, I don't really dislike anyone on the boards. I disagree with em sometimes and like... rip on their mums and stuff, but it's all in good fun. The internet is a place where you can take a load off and just chat or whatever. Idunno, I've gone on a tangent here.

Lemme be the first to say I LOVE TrinityXero

=^_^=
 
I'v been in plenty of situations where i didn't fit in and I'm proud of the fact, then there's ones where I wish I did.

I think I'm mostly the same as Bad^Hat, except I don't love Trinity... sorry :( oh and my head isn't that big, plus I'm not really that sociable on line either.
 
Stephen King:

"anyone that liked high-school is either a crack head or purely stupid."

And the fact I feel left out is why I formed the 9th power.
 
DiSTuRbEd said:
News flash, YOU ARE A TEENAGER AT THE AGE OF 16......
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Sure am, but I'm not them. You, however, are, and as such I'd like to have nothing to do with you. so stop bugging me will you?
 
If You have Depression then
recreation fitness & outdoors will help you get rid of it.
Trust me Dude, you need alot of Exercises and Going outside your room. For more info about the above Exercises Visit your nearest Gym and ask the reception to help u. :D

After doing these, I am 100% sure your way of feeling will change 360 degrees.
 
MaxiKana said:
Sometimes I get that feeling to, but not here, I feel that im just as crazy as mchammer or crush :p
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hmmmm..... i cant tell if thats a compliment or not :| i fit in pretty well on the outside, but i sometimes feel to myself that i dont fit in. sure ive got plenty of friends, but sometimes i just feel COMPLETELY different to them.

and yeah.... SCHOOL SUCKS !!!!
 
G0rgon said:
After doing these, I am 100% sure your way of feeling will change 360 degrees.
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Doing a 360º turn would put you back where you started :)
 
Shuzer said:
Doing a 360º turn would put you back where you started :)
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ahahahaha i was thinking the same thing

i remember that from Last Action hero, that cuban/columbian fellow in the swimming pool..
 
Me is teh square peg.

Me loves it.

Can't help but think that so many of the "cool" people out there look and act incredibly generic...
 
Each day I wake up in this gray old town
Each day the system tries to bring me down
With a minimum wage in the factory
I'm slaving in the Twentieth Century
And the whole damn world is gangin up
to bring me to my knees

And now the neighbors make it loud and clear
That they want no ravers moving in around here
I won't play ball, won't do as I'm told
I'd rather be a square peg in a round hole

Don't let the bastards grind you down
Don't let them grind you down


Just sing that :)
I'm not sure what I am, I fit in with some people, but I'm still odd :E
 
Tredoslop said:
well, at my first day of high school-I felt like an outsider, but now I love high school.
But which grade 8 didn't feel like they fit in?
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Ironically i felt that i fit in quite well. The irony is that i went to high school while i was still (technically) in eight grade. I took everything but english.

Now ive really found my niche though. Drama found me most of my friends, and many of them i consider to be my family, more so than my real one. (corny, i know) Im one of those few teenagers who really loves my life.
 
CyberSh33p said:
Sure am, but I'm not them. You, however, are, and as such I'd like to have nothing to do with you. so stop bugging me will you?
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Ever listen to your parents? Respect thy elders, bish. Hell I know I am a teenager because I am not 18 nor 21, which you are neither yourself. Bugging you? You are just funny to make fun of, because you are ignorant. :LOL:
 
G0rgon said:
If You have Depression then
recreation fitness & outdoors will help you get rid of it.
Trust me Dude, you need alot of Exercises and Going outside your room. For more info about the above Exercises Visit your nearest Gym and ask the reception to help u. :D

After doing these, I am 100% sure your way of feeling will change 180 degrees.
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I don't really see why you said that... but it's certainly true! :D
 
DiSTuRbEd said:
Ever listen to your parents? Respect thy elders, bish. Hell I know I am a teenager because I am not 18 nor 21, which you are neither yourself. Bugging you? You are just funny to make fun of, because you are ignorant. :LOL:
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you can't make a coherent argument and act like you are seven. you have the intellect of a headless goose.

And I'll only respect those who desrve my respect, and my dad has not earned that.

Now quit talking out of your ass or quit talking to me, pick one.
 
CyberSh33p said:
high school is miserable. be here another year or so. I hate it so much. and the people in it. oh lord someone save me.

my teachers are flakey, 90% of the girls here are ugly whores(lucky enough the pretty smart girls happen to be in classes with me), the guys act like idiots, and its full of teenagers. thats the worst part.

I can't wait til summer.

edit: ya ne znayo, trinity. mozhot byt ty prosta c'uma cashol?
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I'm with you there, except my high school is full of hot girls. They're still whores, though, and I have no chance with any of them.
 
CyberSh33p said:
And I'll only respect those who desrve my respect, and my dad has not earned that.
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Wow you have issues seriously. He gave you life, and is not good enough for you? How about you ****ing grow up. :rolleyes:
 
I know how you feel Trinity, I feel the same way myself all the time. I honestly don't fit in with others. It didn't matter if it was school, or neighborhood kids, no one really ever took me in. I've tried, hard, but it didn't matter. However, with time I came to realize I don't want to be around the typical teen anyway. To be totally honest, I'm more than happy to keep my distance. I'll do my thing and they can continue to do theirs. We shall see who is ahead in the long run :)

edit: Look at my avatar and tell me you don't want me as a friend :)
 
Yea, I had a tough time fitting in once. It was really a struggle at first, but after a while, when you finally fit in, you find that its never worth it.

So then I went back to the store and returned em' and got a larger pair. Then I fit in just fine.
 
I almost never say anything so ive never really fit in but im tolerated by most people. I dont really care much, I usually perfer to be on my own then with other people.
 
Generally speaking I've found that in social situations I do well. People find me funny etc. But I really hate it. I need to be on my own a lot more than most people.

I really need to apologise to HL2.net though, even though most people wouldn't know who I am, when I do reply here, I'm usually feeling grumpy. I'm usually quite affable, honest.

Teenagers of high school age feel a strong need to "fit in" and "be accepted" and unfortunately I think this is something that society still promotes, or at least doesn't attempt to quash. On some levels you do need to fit in, with laws and socially acceptable behaviours, but there is room for individuality.

One of the worst things a person can be in my opinion is a sheep. The sad thing is, most people are. The even sadder thing is those that aren't sheep are ostracised for it.

All I can say is be yourself and don't worry about what other people think. The majority aren't thinking at all.
 
I agree on a lot of points, but maybe for some odd reason, my high school is *very* different from the stereotypical ones. Everyone is really accepting of everyone else, and there aren't really those clean-cut status niches of students. There's only a few unpopular kids, and they still hang out with some of the more popular kids at the school. It's like one big family.

But on the other hand, I can see that I'm a lot like Pendragon or Bad^Hat. The odd time, I can act really smooth and confident with girls, and people I just want to hang out with, but mostly it gets really awkward, and I can't think of a single thing to say to anyone. Plus there's the whole social anxiety thing, I can find myself intimidated by social interaction at times... I want to be able to just slip into a big group of people and just be normal, but I always find myself talking about 2% of the time, and never really able to fit in. It really gets me down sometimes, when I'd think of the state of my life: just a few "good" friends, never had a girlfriend (that's what I hate the most about me :( ), just not being able to talk to people, no job, few hobbies, all that good stuff :flame:

But, I still love high school. It's a lot better than elementary, I never fit in at ALL from grades 1-8. It's a lot more fun now. And things are changing for me. I'm starting to get over my social anxiety, and making a lot more friends, I can act more like myself a lot more of the time. So... Really, I've got little else to say. [/SELF-INDULGENT RANT]

I guess there's a moral to it though, that there's hope for everyone, no matter who you are or what you're like. Basically, if you know some people who are really accepting, just befriend them. Your friends don't care if you're an idiot sometimes, or if you're sort of an outsider. Everyone's got their problems.

(Heh, it felt kind of good to let that out, I feel better :) )
 
High School isn't really a time for learning. It's mostly the time when social development occurs. Are teenagers more worried about a test or where the party is at for the weekend?

I was miserable when I was in High school and I am still misrable now. Most people my age just want to get f***ed up. Been there done that. I outgrew that stage a while ago. I am a 40 year old man trapped in a 20 year old body. I can either go to a party and hang out with a bunch of drunk idiots or sit my ass in front of the tv. I choose the tv.

I don't fit in and I never will. People just don't understand me.
 
IonGorilla said:
I almost never say anything so ive never really fit in but im tolerated by most people. I dont really care much, I usually perfer to be on my own then with other people.
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i'm the same way, except maybe not with your last sentence; i don't think i've figured that out yet. i have no idea why i got so quiet; i think i used to be really talkative in preschool and maybe up to first or second grade, but i got more quiet after that. maybe it was the "overly sensitive" issue -- yeah, one of my elementary teachers apparently had written some kind of evaluation, and that's what i got put down as. kinda strange; i remember birthday parties and recess used to be really fun, but later i just didn't talk as much and really just stopped fitting in. it's weird i guess. i used to tell myself, "oh i'll talk more next year" or "in high school things will be better." they're not... but starting maybe last year, it seemed like things started feeling alright, probably because i just didn't care as much.

stigmata said:
mostly it gets really awkward, and I can't think of a single thing to say to anyone. Plus there's the whole social anxiety thing, I can find myself intimidated by social interaction at times... I want to be able to just slip into a big group of people and just be normal, but I always find myself talking about 2% of the time, and never really able to fit in. It really gets me down sometimes
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yeah, i'm like that too. sure, i want to be able to say more, but i seriously can't find anything to say. so i'm just there feeling like the lame person who's there, but not there, if that makes any sense.
 
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