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ComradeBadger

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Ack. Sticky situation(s)

I leave Uni, leaving a couple of problems:

1 girl who I was kinda ****buddies with, who things ended badly with (long story but we're cool now) who I'd quite like to get back to being 'special friends' - not quite sure how to phrase that one :p

1 girl who I slept with twice who really likes me, really really... and I think wants a relationship - she's also a good friend of mine and part of a circle of friends on my course, I also do really like her, and don't want to hurt her.

I come home to a problem

This girl, who's 16, has been txting me and calling me while I've been at uni lots. She's got a boyfriend, who threatened me over the phone while I was at uni. I'm now back home and it's really obvious we both like each other.. what can I do?
;(
I don't like the idea of hurting her boyfriend.. but you know..

I might add that she's coming to visit me in Lincoln during her half term next year, and is staying with me for a couple of nights - god knows what'll happen.

****s sake.. I just need to vent.. but feedback is appriciated.
 
**** it all, ignore it.

Do stuff for yourslef, spend some time working out or doing something.
 
well, **** them all.

i guess that doesnt help...if you have 2 ****buddies back at uni, and this one has a boyfriend, i think that you should just stick to the ones at uni...but hell why not **** them all :p
 
Dont screw peoples lives up Badgery!! You're in a position of authority over the young influential people.

Leave them both alone to get on and find other people. Get someone new :D
 
short recoil said:
**** it all, ignore it.

Do stuff for yourslef, spend some time working out or doing something.
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This over muscular man speaks the shens
 
short recoil said:
**** it all, ignore it.

Do stuff for yourslef, spend some time working out or doing something.
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Psst... he means jerk it.



Three different girls? 16? I'd say leave her to her boyfriend. ...don't even get why you'd be interested in the first place.
 
Shes 16 but she looks 17/18 easily.. and she's got a lovely personality..

Remember I'm only just 18 myself.

Oh and I have been doing things for myself, like going out drinking with the lads etc..
 
ComradeBadger said:
This girl, who's 16,
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Wait, how old are you? And you say you like her? Dude, lay off, she has a boyfriend (her age I'm assuming) and you are like, what, 20?

Edit: 18 hm? I still say lay off, stick with those other girls you mentioned.

Younger girls are always attracted to the older guys, don't let it fool you.

I really don't know where I'm going with this, I've never been good with relationships advice :p
 
You'll have to give me your number Badger and i'll come up and come clubbing with you one night :). You just need some self control though and settle down a bit instead of just popping Mr Jingles into every hole that presents itself to you, you might want to try letting yourself go a bit, might help.
 
Have a wank or something.

But seriously, I'd stay off the 16 year olds if I were you mate, and by the sounds of it you're pretty scared, so maybe just lay low for a bit. Good thing New Year isn't a very sociable occasion. :p
 
Don't be the ass who messes with a girl even though you know they have someone else. >:O

It's one thing when a person doesn't know. When someone does know.. >:O
 
Sleep with all of them as many times as possible. I don't see how you'd take any other advice.
 
ComradeBadger said:
Shes 16 but she looks 17/18 easily.. and she's got a lovely personality..

Remember I'm only just 18 myself.

Oh and I have been doing things for myself, like going out drinking with the lads etc..
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Well whoop dee doo. Why do you have to take her away from some other guy when you're also interested in two other girls? Sorry to assume, but I wouldn't think this would last very long, either. I don't mean to be harsh, really, but c'mon.

Wow my next post is 3,000. :O
RakuraiTenjin said:
Don't be the ass who messes with a girl even though you know they have someone else. >:O

It's one thing when a person doesn't know. When someone does know.. >:O
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Erestheux said:
Well whoop dee doo. Why do you have to take her away from some other guy when you're also interested in two other girls? Sorry to assume, but I wouldn't think this would last very long, either. I don't mean to be harsh, really, but c'mon.

Wow my next post is 3,000. :O
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Agreed, do the right thing Badger and just take a break from the women and think about what your poking little John into and to think that the person you're sticking it into might be misinterpretting it as a lot more then you just getting your end away.
 
Cormeh said:
But seriously, I'd stay off the 16 year olds if I were you mate, and by the sounds of it you're pretty scared, so maybe just lay low for a bit. Good thing New Year isn't a very sociable occasion. :p
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Your avatar is very suitable:

"How old are you?"
"16"
"18? Great!"
 
ComradeBadger said:
'special friends' - not quite sure how to phrase that one :p
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Friends with benefits.

Yeah, I have no advice, I just thought I'd give you that phrase.
 
No, a large part of me knows it wouldn't work - I also don't like the idea of bringing someone to cheat on their bf.

I'd like to add that I've done nothing but be a mate to her pretty much, aside from the odd flirting.

RakuraiTenjin said:
Don't be the ass who messes with a girl even though you know they have someone else. >:O

It's one thing when a person doesn't know. When someone does know.. >:O
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I wouldn't - I've done it before, and I think it's not right.

With regards to what Razor said:

Yea clubbing with a halflife2.netter would be fun :D where you at anyways? - In relation to the Uni ?

Also, yea, at uni it's generally a given that a 1nightstand doesn't mean much. Thing with the girl who wants a relationship is I do really like her, but Uni isn't a time to be tied down. I don't want to hurt her though.


In conclusion: I shall see how things go when I arrive back, with the girls at uni. I shan't do anything with the 16yearold. Just be mates with her.
 
leaving uni at 18? not enjoyin uni life? even tho u are gettin all the sex
 
Screw everybody and it will all sort itself out.
 
What do you call a vagina with teeth?

Why it's a vicious c... ok I'll stop.
 
Whenever one of your women starts talking just be like "Those are valid concerns but do you want to have sex now?" If she replies with anything other than "yes" then just leave.
 
ComradeBadger said:
No, a large part of me knows it wouldn't work - I also don't like the idea of bringing someone to cheat on their bf.

I'd like to add that I've done nothing but be a mate to her pretty much, aside from the odd flirting.



I wouldn't - I've done it before, and I think it's not right.

With regards to what Razor said:

Yea clubbing with a halflife2.netter would be fun :D where you at anyways? - In relation to the Uni ?

Also, yea, at uni it's generally a given that a 1nightstand doesn't mean much. Thing with the girl who wants a relationship is I do really like her, but Uni isn't a time to be tied down. I don't want to hurt her though.


In conclusion: I shall see how things go when I arrive back, with the girls at uni. I shan't do anything with the 16yearold. Just be mates with her.
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I'm down in Grantham so will need to bunk up with you for the night :thumbs:. Last time i went out round Lincoln was a couple of weeks ago with the squadron, got absolutely pissed on Absinthe and fell asleep on the floor of some pub toilet, got kicked out by the bouncer and then caught the bus back to Grantham at 9pm, it was an all day piss up.
 
Razor said:
I'm down in Grantham so will need to bunk up with you for the night :thumbs:. Last time i went out round Lincoln was a couple of weeks ago with the squadron, got absolutely pissed on Absinthe and fell asleep on the floor of some pub toilet, got kicked out by the bouncer and then caught the bus back to Grantham at 9pm, it was an all day piss up.
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Sounds like you had the time of your life :D
 
Razor said:
I'm down in Grantham so will need to bunk up with you for the night :thumbs:. Last time i went out round Lincoln was a couple of weeks ago with the squadron, got absolutely pissed on Absinthe and fell asleep on the floor of some pub toilet, got kicked out by the bouncer and then caught the bus back to Grantham at 9pm, it was an all day piss up.
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What club did you go to/what day of the week?

Absinthe is goooood stuff :E
 
Pussies, I drink straight rubbing alcohol
 
There's more to absinthe than just alcohol, lads.
 
**** everyone. You're not going to listen to us anyway :p

What I think personally? Stay off the 16-year old. Come on.
 
STAY AWAY from 16yr old...will not go well, especially if, like your other friends, you want to just ****. Girls get attached VERY easily...sex often has to mean something (nearly always) - i had a "friend with benefit" a while back...then she fell in love with me...hmm - may not be the situation/desired result for you...i dunno, whatever floats your boat.

So be careful where you stick your plug...may get electrocuted someday <and maybe someday i will be full sure of spelling....>

Final Words: STAY AWAY FROM THE 16YR OLD; BOYFRIEND OR NO BOYFRIEND...STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Muffin Man said:
looks like youve ****ed 1 too many chicks this time badger
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Nah, at the very worst he can just be like "shutup stop talking to me" and his problems are solved.
 
**** 'em all... then choose which is the best. :thumbs:
 
heres an idea

stop bitch moaning your petty problems, grow a pair and shit on all of their faces breaking each of their hearts as the shit seeps into the pours in their skin ...travelling through the veins of lust into the heart making it explode in teenage angsty turmoil

if this tried and tested method fails you, sleep with a jack russell and get back to us on how your luxuriously delicious date with that four legged bitch hound went

am i being a cock because i have my own set of issues travelling the depths of mind and soul and berating somebody else makes me feel that tad better? maybe
 
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