Girl at the checkout.. bawww :(

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So I got a bit hungry after my class today at the uni and I went to grab a muffin from the terrace cafe. I searched around for a bit and eventually came about my wits and approached the counter to check out. This extremely cute brunette offered to check me out at the far register and I proceeded to pay. While reaching for my money we had this weird moment where our eyes met and we smiled at each other.. it lasted for what seemed like a couple seconds before I handed her the two dollars and went about my way. Being the shy bastard that I am I ate at a far away table and pondered talking to her for quite a while before scooting back home.

Needless to say I never had the courage to go back and ask for her number and I'm beating myself up about it now. help..life2.net. :(

If I see her again I'll most likely ask for her number or a cup of coffee depending on how conversation goes. Just venting frustrations.. I need to be more like this guy I suppose. :laugh:

Come to think of it I need to just be more outgoing in general. This summer I've really regressed back into being a reclusive bastard. It sucks just to think about all the times I've not had the cajones to ask a girl for her digits.
 
cOjoNes.

Was she asian? cause if an asian girl makes eye contact she wants you. at least if you're a HL2.net member.
 
she would have stabed your back and take your kidneys while you where bleeding unconcious in the floor
 
Don't, she'll ruin your life.
 
Go back and buy a coffee another day and see how it goes, no big deal.
 
Eejit said:
cOjoNes.

Was she asian? cause if an asian girl makes eye contact she wants you. at least if you're a HL2.net member.
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Nope, just a cute brunette girl with maybe a single braid in her hair and painted nails. She was the hippie type, my favorite.

jimbo118 said:
Go back and buy a coffee another day and see how it goes, no big deal.
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yuh, tis the plan.
 
pics or didn't happen
 
Post your picture.
If you'r ugly she most likely doesn't fancy you and you imagined it, if you look good she would **** you.
 
Gray Fox said:
Post your picture.
If you'r ugly she most likely doesn't fancy you and you imagined it, if you look good she would **** you.
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Here's me this morning, I didn't comb my hair so it's a bit of a mess.

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Wait until you're older! Wait until you've seen the world!
Don't let women hold you back from doing the things you've dreamed!
 
Acepilotf14 said:
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Wait until you're older! Wait until you've seen the world!
Don't let women hold you back from doing the things you've dreamed!
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I'm an old salty dog, already 19 years old. I've only had one serious girlfriend really. Other than that just stupid regrettable things from my freshmen year. :o
 
Acepilotf14 said:
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Wait until you're older! Wait until you've seen the world!
Don't let women hold you back from doing the things you've dreamed!
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He's seriously considering marriage to a girl whose eyes he met for two seconds, amirite?
 
BHC said:
I'm an old salty dog, already 19 years old. I've only had one serious girlfriend really. Other than that just stupid regrettable things from my freshmen year. :o
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10 more years.
 
A girl once called me, asked me if I wanted to consider buying a new insurance or something. I didn't have the balls to ask for her number, eventhough she seemed so interested in me. Heck, she even asked for my name and address and stuff! I could've gotten laid that day.
 
PvtRyan said:
A girl once called me, asked me if I wanted to consider buying a new insurance or something. I didn't have the balls to ask for her number, eventhough she seemed so interested in me. Heck, she even asked for my name and address and stuff! I could've gotten laid that day.
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Was she asian? If she was, you're a real dumbass for letting her go.
 
use drugs to temporarily lower your inhibitions. ask her if she wants to come over and smoke some crack
 
Cool story, I love little moments like that where you make eye contact and smile. Being able to hold eye contact with girls is a great quality, it shows confidence and desire. Practise doing it more often, just hold eye contact with a girl for a few secounds as you walk past her, if she hold back smile and maybe say hi.

That's a very good excercise for getting more confident around girls which is all anybody needs to attract girls.

A while ago I decided I wasn't outgoing enough and as a result of this I didn't have enough girls in my life for my taste. So I've been getting myself out alot more, talking to strangers more. I started just talking to girls at checkouts/coffee stores or anywhere really where I had an excuse to talk ot them. They're probably bored (I know I get bored serving customers at my work saying the same things over and over again) and they have to smile no matter what you say :p.

Now I'm going out 4/5 nights a week, meeting new people every night. I can go up to a group of 5 strangers with a mix of boys and girls and just ask a question or say something and totally take over the group and sometimes makeout with the really hot girl in it or whatever. Attracting girls is just a skillset and I have so much more to learn, but the important thing is it can be learnt.

I used to get so frustrated when I had moments like described in the OP but then I started being proactive about it and it's had such a positive effect on my life. If you want me to link you to so resources or discuss it further just PM me :)
 
Maybe it's just my store, but as someone who works with and is friends with many girl cashiers, I can say that the consensus is that they HATE IT WHEN CUSTOMERS ASK THEM OUT.

Numerous times I've seen girls get really pissed when that happens. Being nice/friendly to a customer != I want your babies.
 
Yeah but if Orlando Bloom came in and asked it would be the best day of their life.

The problem is so many socially uncalibrated guys with yellow teeth and greesy hair do it. Or maybe thats just becuase my stores main customers are tramps lol.
 
...is this forum for real?

'A GIRL LOOKED AT ME I THINK WE HAD SEX OR SOMETHING IDK WUT DO U THINK GUIZ?!?!?!'

God damn, facepalm x the power of seven suns.
 
Do you not even know about eye-sex dude?
 
Solaris said:
Now I'm going out 4/5 nights a week, meeting new people every night. I can go up to a group of 5 strangers with a mix of boys and girls and just ask a question or say something and totally take over the group and sometimes makeout with the really hot girl in it or whatever. Attracting girls is just a skillset and I have so much more to learn, but the important thing is it can be learnt.
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True story!

;)
 
By whatever I'm refering to a verb, such as getting her number or her throwing my chips at me etc.
 
Having chips thrown at you is better than sex.
 
I have plans for the future that cant be interupted and although some times its emotionally painful, I try to avoid getting a girl, Ive endured it for years so im used to it now. Would have been nice to at least of had a girlfriend to know what its like back when I didnt have important things in my life, but there were just no girls in my life at all, I have had no girls even as friends before, I havent even come across a girl I genuinally fancied at all, not in real life anyway, just some guys get lucky, and I dont but I dont care anymore. I care more about my band and music than forfilling my emotional desires.
 
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