Girl help...

[oldagerocker]

Yeah dont go to school expecting to find the love of your life, the place is full of egomaniacs.

 

[Adrien C]

Hummm, we can see the un-expericend people with just their stupid coments.

A thing to learn, is body lenguage, you must know how to read signs.
Don't worry grass hopper, you shall learn with time.

BTW, when she looks at you, ALLWAYS look in her eyes, stare at them, let her know you have personallity. It allways work, specially at night clubs, they then know that you ARE looking at them in a profound way.
Hard to explain, try it, got to go, bye.

 

[Yakuza]

Yeah dont go to school expecting to find the love of your life, the place is full of egomaniacs.

Which is kinda funny cause thats exactly were I met mine.

 

[Yakuza]

BTW, when she looks at you, ALLWAYS look in her eyes, stare at them, let her know you have personallity. It allways work, specially at night clubs, they then know that you ARE looking at them in a profound way.
Hard to explain, try it, got to go, bye.

True, but this tactice must be taken cautiously. Staring into a girls eyes may leave her feeling uncomfortable, especialy if she is shy. However being in a club situation this would tend to work better as women are usualy under some kinda influence thus breaking down some of their bult up walls, making them more out going. And women who generaly hang out at clubs(at least were I live), make it pretty obvious what it is that they are selling. And its only smart strategy if you can adapt to the situation.

 

[Adrien C]

True, but this tactice must be taken cautiously. Staring into a girls eyes may leave her feeling uncomfortable, especialy if she is shy. However being in a club situation this would tend to work better as women are usualy under some kinda influence thus breaking down some of their bult up walls, making them more out going. And women who generaly hang out at clubs(at least were I live), make it pretty obvious what it is that they are selling. And its only smart strategy if you can adapt to the situation.

Indid, but no staring at her all the time, only when you meet her eye. And yeah, we know what girls are looking at clubs.

 

[Sparta]

Just start talking to her in class and shit. Or if you've got friends who know her just hang around with them some more so you get to have some actual conversations with her without looking too suspicious (such as when someone just starts a conversation out of the blue with someone they barely know).

 

[AntiAnto]

Punch her in the face then apologize

 

[Dalamari]

Like I said, whip it out and say "What are we gonna do about this honey?" whilst motioning your hands toward your schwong

 

[Capello]

How???

you don't how to flirt, have some girl you know teach you.

 

[Foxtrot]

you don't how to flirt, have some girl you know teach you.

I know, just not of any way that isn't too obvious.

 

[Yakuza]

maybe she is waiting for you to be obvious. She wont wait forever....

 

[burnzie]

She wont wait forever....

Its true, they wont.

Bite the bullet, you wont be sorry

 

[h4vvok]

If you need dating advice from a bunch of people on a Halflife 2 forum then you may be going the wrong route. Our advice wont just get you in a relationship, it will get you married. Anyways, start conversation with her, ask her if she wants to get a coffee or lunch sometime, find something she likes like a band or something, and get tickets to a show. Many ways you can go about it, usually depends on the kind of woman. Find her interests by making conversation, make her laugh, have lunch with her or coffee, etc.

 

[Foxtrot]

If you need dating advice from a bunch of people on a Halflife 2 forum then you may be going the wrong route. Our advice wont just get you in a relationship, it will get you married. Anyways, start conversation with her, ask her if she wants to get a coffee or lunch sometime, find something she likes like a band or something, and get tickets to a show. Many ways you can go about it, usually depends on the kind of woman. Find her interests by making conversation, make her laugh, have lunch with her or coffee, etc.

Going by that advice, I just noticed we share no interests...I don't even know why I liked her anymore...I will just go after the girl I should have been, the one in my English class that plays video games...and she is really hot...but considers herself a nerd so that increases my chances greatly.

 

[Kristafon]

Because the person I like is a different year I cant talk to her in class. Lives near me though, so thats a plus.

Somethings going to happen soon, I can feel it.

 

[Jakeic]

psh flirtering is easy...

smile, say funny things, and make contact (eye and body).

there you go.

 

[oldagerocker]

the funny things is the hard part i find. i have to be in the perfect mood to be funny and i rarely am.

 

[Jakeic]

they don't have to be funny, they just have to please the girl.

 

[The Dark Elf]

the funny things is the hard part i find. i have to be in the perfect mood to be funny and i rarely am.

Don't _try_ being funny, just be yourself, if your funny they notice, if not then well, meh don't worry about it. But the girls will notice if you try too hard, and thats not always a good thing, just be yourself.

 

[poksmote]

you need self confidence, and you're not going to get that by asking advice. you'll know when you have enough confidence because you'll be talking to her. once you get a conversation going, make her laugh then ask for her number. no bullshit needed, just grow some balls.

 

[oldagerocker]

yeah, i can get enough confidence eventually to start chatting to them, but i lose it straight away, i did this the other week. i said something and she couldnt hear what i was saying because the club music was too loud and i cant shout, i hate shouting and all that bollocks. so i gave up... it doesnt matter, she wasnt very good looking it was abit of practice but still, i couldnt get her interested.

 

[poksmote]

you gave up too easily. if you knew that your confidence was fading, she did as well. as for shouting... get a metal voice. girls love it when you can shut everyone up by sounding like a demon from hell. better than mumbling and going unheard at least. hehe :smoking:

 

[Jakeic]

you gave up too easily. if you knew that your confidence was fading, she did as well. as for shouting... get a metal voice. girls love it when you can shut everyone up by sounding like a demon from hell. better than mumbling and going unheard at least. hehe :smoking:

well that'd be news to me.

 

[mindless_moder]

"If you are weak, akward, shy, defencive, quiet, or even just too damned tenative, you do not have a chance."
im most of that and i have a girl friend lol..
first of all i think you should find out if she has a bf in one way or another .
then just ge closer to her ..invite her to a party or something ...

 

[statdat]

why dont you just go with her and hang out around places. you dont need a car or anything, just go around and get to know each other better and in different settings. eventually she will just start to like you if she doesnt already. and gradually you guys will just start going out.