Help with a girl

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Pesmerga said:
Quite an array of feelings, here at halflife2.net. I can agree that the general consensus is to do rather than not to do. Life favors those who act, even recklessly.
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ebus, dont go all paranoid, give her some breathing room, nothing turns off a person like someone who's overly eager (although a mustache/pirate patch covering an empty socket is kinda a turnoff too)
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yeah. This because...

the chase is everything. it's born into everyone. even animals don't want to eat dead prey, they want it alive and kicking, not spoon fed.

even if a girl is freaking beautiful like you've never seen, if she came up to you and said, "do me right now" and you didn't know her, you would think there was something wrong with her.

Is she dying tomorrow? she must have a disease and be a whore! it's a trap! etc., and you will hesitate.

however, that same girl gives you a chance for you to do at least a little chase then you will go after her.
 
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Seriously, there have been cute girls in almost all of my classes since college started. I really liked this one girl in my English class last semester. She was totally beautiful--she had nice hair, pretty eyes, a cute face, was the perfect size, had a really pleasant voice, was smart, and nice. I never asked her out or anything because I was too much of a pussy. I totally regretted that in-between semesters and thought I'd never meet another girl like her ever again. "What are the odds I'll ever find another girl like that?" I'd ask myself.

BAM. Next semester (right now) there's another one.

Lesson learned: There are SO MANY cute girls out there that you are going to like. There are TONS of them. So don't worry if this girl doesn't work out. Give it a shot, obviously. I should have. But, if you get turned down or are too afraid to say anything, don't worry about it. Give another one a shot next semester.
 
VirusType2 said:
This ^


The minute you write to a forum about a girl... you already know the answer, you just want to be connected to her somehow so you are telling us about her. but it's fun. something to talk about.

if you don't just stop liking her you won't ever get her. Stop wanting her, and maybe you will be able to be yourself around her again and maybe she will like you again. Damn, if only I could take my own advice because I'm like you sometimes.


Most importantly, if you think that she only wanted to be friends, then you mustn't tell her you like her or anything like that because then she will begin to avoid you and be uncomfortable being your friend and you will never be able to win her over then for sure. Just be happy to see her, and be happy for even that one second that you spend talking with her because some other poor guy didn't even get that.

If you are getting crazy about her and just can't help it, then challenge yourself to not feel pain and not care about her; because strong survive. Strong willed. Dig deep. Do you really care? Is she the last girl on earth? No.

In reality she is just a girl who happened to be around you long enough to share some words and now you want to **** her.

Just think of ways you could get in that kind of situation again, on a trip with other girls so you can meet someone else. Join these events. Do things. (man this is good advice)


I don't know, I ****ing suck at relationships. Maybe you could try to eat a bunch of sugar or drink som beerz and get a buzz, and then just tell her you love her as you grab her and throw up and pass out, and maybe that will break the ice and then next time you see her...

whatever you do don't be uncomfortable around her. clear your mind. I have to be honest, the only times I've ever had success was when I was either very confident and having fun and playing around saying whatever came to mind, or when they actually came after me. Oh yeah, and also friends can help.

if you just continue with your goals in life as they were before you met her she will like that much more and will see you just living your life and she will be in your life sometimes, but if your entire world stops and you obsess about her then it's over for you.
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Not entirely true.

Imo, if you really like a girl then things will always be kind of awkward and painful around her if she just wants to remain friends and you don't at least try to elevate things.

I don't mean the "lol omg so hot cute" kinda crush, I mean like, if you actually like somebody.

If you play your cards right and aren't creepy about asking her out, then you really have nothing to lose. Sure, some girls are a little less capable of not being awkward after something like that than others, but the most you can do as a person is just treat her just as you did before, as if nothing happened.

Like I said, if you're not stupid or creepy about doing it, and you two already have a really strong connection as friends, then I really doubt she'll avoid you outright after that. Just keep talking, and eventually it'll just blow right over your heads, and you two can be friends as if nothing happened.

But yeah, other than that, THIS ++++. It's a million times easier to hit on a girl you're not 100% mentally occupied with, than it is to hit on somebody you think is special to you, and whether or not she really is "special to you" is all mental. You are, for the most part, in control of how your emotions escalate.

I dunno, maybe I just have a hard time outright "forgetting" about people and eliminating them from my life :x
 
Leak into circulation that you like her. Word of mouth works. She'll know it, but you won't know she knows about you kn owing you like her, and you'll definitely see signs from then on.
 
L3N!N said:
Leak into circulation that you like her. Word of mouth works. She'll know it, but you won't know she knows about you kn owing you like her, and you'll definitely see signs from then on.
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That's the absolute pussy way to do things.

If you want her to know that you like her (and ****, YES YOU DO!), then just balls up and ask her out.

If you get it around, purposefully, via word of mouth, then you'll seem like a total creep.

"Ew, that kid likes me, and he's telling everybody? WTF??? WHY DOESN'T HE JUST ASK ME OUT ALREADY?"
 
If she's going to get awkward towards you because you asked her out, she's a stupid **** and doesn't deserve to be your friend, imo.

You can't tell I have personal feelings towards this, can you?
 
CyberPitz said:
If she's going to get awkward towards you because you asked her out, she's a stupid **** and doesn't deserve to be your friend, imo.

You can't tell I have personal feelings towards this, can you?
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Yeah, it shows that there's really not much of a friendship going on if she ignores you afterwards :|
 
And your heart will be crushed, and broken, as if nothing more than a crumpled paper cup that happens to pump blood around your body and also represents love, for some reason.
 
From my experiences theres something you gotta remember about girls.

Don't ever be a good friend to a girl. Be an acquatience. If you become a good friend, then they wont want to mess up the friendship by going out with you.

Don't be to outright with a girl you've never really talked to, otherwise you'll come off as creepy. Try and be introduced somehow.

Once your introduced and you see her around or something say hi and tell her that you two should hang out some time. Try and get her number. See a movie, go to a party, just chill.. something. This will let her know that your interested in her. If your already at a party you can skip this step. Just give some attention to her by telling her to dance with you. If your a bad dancer, no one gives a shit. No one is gonna dislike you for being a crappy dancer. However, being a good dancer never hurts.

If you two do get the chance to hang out, go in for a kiss or something before you leave. Or while your watching the movie, at the party, whatever. Be patient by either going for the kiss when it feels right or setting up the situation so it feels right. (If your at a party play some music that you two can dance to and kiss her at the end of the dance. If your alone watching a movie together. Tell her you have a secret for her, and kiss her. Ask her out after you kiss her or don't depending on what your looking for.

If at any point your rejected get over it and move on. You will be rejected at some point. There are tons of beautiful girls. You might be hung up on one girl for a while that ends up rejecting you, but you'll find another girl that you will be just as hung up on.
 
NEVER blatantly tell a girl how you feel about her, unless the deal is already set. Trust me on this- it's always too early.
 
JNightshade said:
NEVER blatantly tell a girl how you feel about her, unless the deal is already set. Trust me on this- it's always too early.
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You can't ****in expect to get anywhere if you don't ask her if she wants to hang out sometime :|
 
It's not a bad idea to tell a girl how you feel if it's already obvious. But don't go up to a girl and tell her "I really like you, lol". That shit works for freshman year of highschool but not much elsewhere. Infact, you should never really tell a girl how you "feel", you should show it and act on that feeling, instead.

Of course "I love you, too, honey" is a terrible lie we must all commit at least once.
 
Not too sure why, but I've always had it really easy with girls. They come up and talk to me... mainly because everyone at my school knows I don't give a shit what they think, or don't care to know them, so they don't want to miss a chance I guess? I don't consider myself a good looking guy though, (I'M SO MODEST! ^^) so it has kinda always freaked me out.

But I find that it gets girls (in your league, of course) if you look them in they eyes as you walk by, and if they look at you, just keep looking like you are amazed. Trust me, if they are at, or below your level, they will come up and talk to you, that is, if your a pussy. if you're not just walk up and say "Lets go **** sometime." but not that straight forward. Though that is essentially what you're saying, and they know it, they think you're a pig if you lead them to think that you don't think they have any self esteem.

Btw, don't believe any of this, because I'm bullshitting you.

Nah, just have a good time with them, like one of your buddies, and if you feel more connected to them after a long time like that, you're a good match. (And be sure that when they don't realize you're joking, make it insanely obvious in the middle of it, cause otherwise they're likely to stomp off angry.)
 
sure baby, i'll take you to dinner, then shout you a drink...



....then take you home and make you mine :naughty:




whaddya reckon?
 
Koola Mena said:
sure baby, i'll take you to dinner, then shout you a drink...



....then take you home and make you mine :naughty:




whaddya reckon?
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*High pitched Latina woman accent activated*
OOH KOOLA! YOUSA MAKEA ME SO HORNY! ME LUV YOU LONG TIME!

*High pitched Latina woman accent deactivated*

So uhh... On topic... err... grow... a pair?
 
Van_Halen said:
*High pitched Latina woman accent activated*
OOH KOOLA! YOUSA MAKEA ME SO HORNY! ME LUV YOU LONG TIME!

*High pitched Latina woman accent deactivated*
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From a technical standpoint, that's an annoying Vietnamese woman accent.
 
Van_Halen, I just clicked you Sig link...

LOL!!:LOL::LOL:

It just moves around the screen, Alt+F4 doenst do much, but nothing Task Manager can't sort out :D
 
I've been rick-rolled, now the FBI are on their way to my house to arrest me...:|
 
In response to OP, you already know you don't have a chance... that's it!

What IS shit is knowing you can hit some fine piece of woman... but you have been kicked out of uni halls for a month because term time is over and you have to go like 250 miles away until next term begins!!!
*hulksmash*
 
Sulkdodds said:
Here's a tip.
Don't **** in parks in bleedin' winter.
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Lol, I remember this one time, me and my girl went off into the woods to have sex since her parents were home, and I was doing her doggy style, and suddenly some adults walked by.

Imagine their surprise. I was ****ing her like an animal.
 
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