(HelpLife2.net)So I asked someone out...now what?

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I normally wouldn't post this type of thread, but I need some advice.

I've been talking alot to a girl in my school, I found myself falling quite hard on my ass for her. This morning, as I was walking her to her locker, I asked her if I could take her out to lunch one day, not thinking that it was Monday. She laughed and was all "We're in school all day though."

I felt the mission begin failing.


Later on, right after our World Language class, I walked with her to her locker again and said " I think I phrased my question wrong this morning,I meant would you like to go out with me?"

What I got was "Sure, we should hang out and stuff."

so, here are a few questions

A) Was her 'yes' a yes that we should date, or just a yes, we should hang out as friends?

B) Well, really any advice is appreciated

-Thanks in advance
 
Have you considered bonding over a bike-ride?

As far as girl speak goes, if she had her reflectors pointed at you and was fiddling with her handlebars, she's probably being a tease and flirting - you're in. If not, you should still take that bike ride.
 
It's not a no, or a rebuff so I'd take that as a positive that she's up for hanging out. Kudos for rephrasing the question, that's takes balls ;)

Bizarre as it may seem I recommend going to www.allsp.com and watching 'erection day' which is under season 9. Cartman gives the best dating advice ever in it to Jimmy. ;)
 
Congrats to you!

Your best bet right now is to just play it cool. There's no point in rushing a relationship before you get to know each other better. Remember to stick to your own ideals and opinions. Girls don't want to date someone identical to them, they want a dynamic relationships. This can also stop the situation from turning into: "You're such a good friend and I don't want to ruin our relationship".

Finally, take it slow and don't get too attached too soon. Remember what happened last time? *wags finger*
 
As a forum-goer: Stick it in her bum

As a friend: Take it at what ever pace she likes

Edit: Also what Emporius said
 
A-Bike said:
Have you considered bonding over a bike-ride?

As far as girl speak goes, if she had her reflectors pointed at you and was fiddling with her handlebars, she's probably being a tease and flirting - you're in. If not, you should still take that bike ride.
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Don't ever leave.
 
Also don't be an expectant door mat. If a girl asks you whether you are doing anything later, always have something to say like 'I was going to go the library and study', 'I was thinking I might go and see brad' or 'I was thinking I might catch up on LOST or see a film of something' ' never say 'Nothing important' or 'I'm not up to anything'. Firstly it makes it look like you've got shit going on in your life, and secondly it provides you with an opportunity to invite them along. If they bail on your suggestion, you just flip it around to 'is there something you want to do instead?'. Never look like a no life bum.
 
Cavalry said:
I normally wouldn't post this type of thread, but I need some advice.

I've been talking alot to a girl in my school, I found myself falling quite hard on my ass for her. This morning, as I was walking her to her locker, I asked her if I could take her out to lunch one day, not thinking that it was Monday. She laughed and was all "We're in school all day though."

I felt the mission begin failing.


Later on, right after our World Language class, I walked with her to her locker again and said " I think I phrased my question wrong this morning,I meant would you like to go out with me?"

What I got was "Sure, we should hang out and stuff."

so, here are a few questions

A) Was her 'yes' a yes that we should date, or just a yes, we should hang out as friends?

B) Well, really any advice is appreciated

-Thanks in advance
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1. Do go out with her anyway.

2. Get confirmation on (A) as soon as possible. You don't want to be stuck in the friend zone when you think you're already out of it.
 
In all likelihood she feels the same way about you as you do about her. A simple test would be to compliment her on her looks a little. If she isn't attracted to you that'll be her opportunity to make it known. If she is it'll score you points.
Basically just being confident is generally a big turn-on for women. Even if you don't know what you are doing act like you do. If you get caught it'll be pretty evident you were just doing it to impress her and again you can score points if you play it off right.
 
Basically just be like Kif and stumble over your words a lot, make noises while you take a few minutes think of something to say and just make it seem like you dont have any self confidence or social ability.

kif.jpg
 
Touch your ears a lot and look at the floor when you talk to her. Girls love that.
 
Saw that one coming :P

You are right though, guess its cause I get a bad impression from "BOOBSLOL" Figigaly.
 
BOOBSLOL.

another crisis averted thanks to datelife.net
 
Cavalry said:
A) Was her 'yes' a yes that we should date, or just a yes, we should hang out as friends?
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At this point it's hard to tell. I don't have enough info to figure out what kind of girl she is. If she is interested in hanging out with just you then that is a very good sign. Be careful though...some girls will simply be nice and lead guys on this way because they don't want to say no. Those girls are rare though and it's usually pretty obvious they aren't interested(ie...flirt with other guys or have a boyfriend they are still very interested in). So be careful in case she is one of those rare bitch girls. I hate them...with a passion. By that I mean I hope they die in a fire.

B) Well, really any advice is appreciated

-Thanks in advance
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OK...so from what I can tell your definately in. You have a good chance. Basically just hang out with her. Have fun. Go out to eat(no where fancy), go to the movies, play volleyball...bocce ball, go to parties together(if your into that), hang out at your place, make cookies or whatever you wanna eat and so on. Oh...also you could try a cute fun date if your confident enough with her. I would list it in detail but most people think it doesn't work because it involved her in PJs. It has worked plenty of times for me and my friends and if you want me to I wil tell you more...but other than that just be yourself. Don't try to change yourself into someone you think she wants. You have been yourself so far and that is what has gotten her interested so don't change yourself or you might lose it. Also if you do something stupid don't worry about it. Just shrug it off, make a joke about it and move on.

As for making it more serious...wait until it becomes pretty obvious she is into you. You can tell when she is always texting you, wants to hang out...laughs at your stupid jokes/laughs when you do, sits next to you, just gives an overall positive vibe. When this happens you can work on taking it to the next level. If you want you can take her out on a fancier date or just plan something cute. When you wanna kiss her you can do something like tell her you have a secret so she leans in close...ask her some simple question and when she starts to talk go in for the kiss.

Girls aren't too hard to figure out really..most people over complicate them. Just remember they act more on emotion so start watching them and figuring out why they do what it is they do and eventually you will figure it out and you can figure out what to do next based on their actions and dating girls gets a lot easier.
 
i agree that girls like a confident guy. no one wants a shy person; thats just telling her that your weak and not man enough to do it.
 
Cavalry
(HelpLife2.net)So I asked someone out...now what?
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It's simple, kill The Batman.




(but seriously, it's not a no like someone said, so just go with le flow)
 
Depends on the way she said it but "We should hang out sometime" means you're still in friend-zone.
 
Unless she meant to hang out with your wang out.

Rock out, perhaps, with your cock out.
 
And one might even go so far as to grand-slam 'er with your manhammer.

The choices are almost limitless.
 
Slip a Roofie into Her Drink, Drag Her Out To Your Car, Rap Her, and Dump Her off In A Dumpster In A Dark Alley, Then Wash You Hands In The Sink.
 
D:

willie thats horrible!

wash your hands before sex.....
 
You could totally slip it inside her dude; just make sure she doesn't have a dog or it might bite your testicles off. Trust me, I know from experience lol.
 
TheDude said:
You could totally slip it inside her dude; just make sure she doesn't have a dog or it might bite your testicles off. Trust me, I know from experience lol.
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Hey, the good news is you can now join the church choir ;)
 
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