I need to be cheered up

[Fender357]

Karis... I like the stuff you've got to say.

This guy (as far as I know) isn't a jerk. From the stuff i've herd about him he is (and by the way...she said they were just kind of asking each other radom questions so the stuff she told me was kinda weird)
1) Cathlic
2) Republican
3) A Virgin

so I think she just seems somthing cute about him or somthing ( I know she's not looking to "get with him", we are too emotionaly atached for her to do somthing like that)

I'm starting to feel better.....probably because I'm getting tired. I'm just worried about tomorrow........
I dont know if I'll be able to be around her and not be all "boyfriend"ish.....

I've gotta go to sleep now....... I dont want to think about it any more....

 

[lePobz]

Fender357 I know exactly how you feel mate, you're definately not alone.

There's not a lot anyone can say or do to make it any better, other than the girl herself. Till then you're stuck in the middle, I know it sucks but you just have to hold in there and see what happens.

 

[Brian Damage]

Cheering up, eh?

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Plunk plunk plunk plunk!

Fritz!

 

[Fat Tony!]

Lol u r a genious Brian :thumbs:. Just download some new tunes, a sit back and relax, get drunk and hit on random girls

 

[Foxtrot]

All the cheering up he needs can be done by looking at Brian Damage's avatar...

 

[Dedalus]

girls are just like boys
we both got itches that need scratching
boys being boys don't hide the fact they got itches
girls being girls do hide the fact they got itches
whats the key thing is that both need to be scractched
and whats more funny is that girls itches are bigger an in more desperation for scratches

 

[Brian Damage]

Oooh ooh ooh!

The avatar comment by foxtrot reminded me...

This might cheer you up, if you've not seen it already:

 

[GhostValkyrie]

Well...thats the thing. She's had a bunch of boy friends (all of them COMPLEAT jerks) But I am the only guy she's had sex with and I've only had sex with her. And I'm the only one who treats her like a person and actually loves her.


The OTHER thing is..... some times this kind of stuff happens with us. Its rare, but it has happend before. (that was a REALLY long time ago)
I really think it has alot to do with the stess she's going through, it really ****s with our relationship.

I had hoped she would grow out of it, but she is just bearly there.
The one positive thing (for her at least) is that this guy she likes is nice (so far). He seems like a decent guy and I've got nothing against him (i just cant bare the thought of her being with him)

We've known each other since we were about 14, and now we're 19. So we've been through ALOT together.

I'm fairly sure this will end up ok. But I always have the thoughts in the back of my head that it wont.
And that scares me more than anything.

Dude, love is being able to get through things together, not taking breaks along the way. When it comes to fellow human beings, the back of your mind is what you need to listen to. The heart is misleading, and has a way of telling you what you'd like to hear. Her going through stress shouldn't push you two down, besides, you're 19 - You'll soon begin to learn you'll go through a lot with someone, only for them to purposely betray you, or become confussed.

 

[GhostValkyrie]

Ghost, i dunno man, i think that if u've been with someone a long time, breaking up is hard and keeping a part of one's self is near impossible if truly in love, because if someone is, they'll usually devote themselves entirely to that person.

That is a good point, but the truth of the matter is that almost everyone will betray you at some point. Whether it be ditching you, lying to you, cheating on you, stealing from you and your family, disowning you because the "group" doesn't like you, etc.

Believe me, I gave my heart to her, and I learned my lesson.

Another thing to take into consideration, Fender - Never go out with someone more than once. Also, if you two are so attached, why is she seeing this guy, finding out about him, etc? I'm sorry, but I seriously think this will end up with you alone, and her with him. Whether or not it does, you should at least prepare as if it were going to.

 

[Foxtrot]

That movie was cool but I was a little confused.

 

[sabre89]

Sick jokes always cheer me up.

Why did Hitler kill himself?

He saw his gas bill!!!

Hahahahhahahahahahaha.

 

[Brian Damage]

That movie was cool but I was a little confused.

Try watching it when you feel completely normal, then.

 

[The Dark Elf]

Oh my, not another one of these threads, you guys really do have lots of relationship problems ;(


Ok to be blunt, and yes Fender your not gonna like it mate sorry

a. She's over you, it was fun while it lasted but she's moved on, but because she cares about you she's trying not to hurt your feelings, if you push her though she'll not give a damn. This promise that she wont have sex with someone else is BS, its again, just so your feelings don't get hurt.

b. Your calling her other boyfriends jerks, they probably think the same about you, rise above them instead of acting like them. Take it on the chin, she's not going to be the only girl who does this to you (unless you stop dating completely heh) So best get used to it happening now cause not all women give a shit once its over

c. A lot of guys 'think' they know if some girl was a virgin before they bedded her. Very few really can tell. Chances are she wasn't.

d. Move on. Come back to it in a few years and you might be able to be friends (if you want that) maybe you'll even get back with her but don't push anything or pester her, that simply isn't going to work

I know it hurts now, if you really like her as much as you say you do, it's probably gonna hurt for a good three or four years too. Best way to deal with it is to just go, leave it all behind and forget about it best you can. Don't start getting all down in the dumps, or thinking you can't live without her, lick your wounds then maybe try be friends with her a few years down the line. Though if your still in school forget it, its just a school yard crush (regardless of what it feels like) and there's more to see out there.

 

[Bad^Hat]

Oh my ****ing god.

I know I've had my moments but I always really thought you guys were pretty mature. So hey I come across another topic about relations gone sour, seems pretty straight forward, he just needs some cheering up, right? So hey, why not bombard the guy with your own sour relationship stories, tell him against his own advice to break up with her, and even tell him what to do as if you know better. You guys need to stop being so freakin bitter once in awhile.

Ahem, this is a pretty cool flash movie if you're still feeling down - http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view.php?id=118121

 

[Non-Sequitur]

Heh. That's not too bad. Here I was thinking it was a "real" bad day. Remember, it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... and trust me, a lot of the guys here would have never even touched a woman. I feel more sorry for them.

Come back to me when you've had a real bad day, like when your father overdoses on anti-depressants while you're the only one in the house with him.