I need to be cheered up
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Awww Fender, what's wrong? Cheer up bud, you'll always have these forums to keep your spirits up 
hmm, that shirt seems to be a bit small on her.
Kyle2 said:
hmm, that shirt seems to be a bit small on her.
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maybe i should post a picture of myself in a sexy pose :naughty:
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Kyle2 said:
hmmm maybe just my hairy crack then? :bounce:
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Fender357 said:
You spelled worst wrong, you also spelled something wrong.
I'm sorry, but I'm afraid these grammatical errors will cost you that "Cheering up" you'd like.
/me smacks you.
Just kidding.
/me stabs Shuzer and returns some of the money from your wallet.
What? A guy can't get payed for his deeds?
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Ok.... again......
My gf and I broke up. She really wanted to take a break... So you could call it either one of those.
There's this guy she has a crush on and is going to start going out with. She thinks that, because she has these feelings, she needs to see why she feels this way.
We have been going out for a long time and we are really close. We're closer to each other than we are to any one else.
The thought of her with another guy makes me feel physicly ill. And I'm very sure the thought of me being with another girl would do the same to her.
We both agreed that we weren't going to do anything stupid, like having sex with someone else. But I'm so afraid she'll start having real feelings for someone else and I'll be stuck as the really good friend who has to hold back all true emotions.
She think's I should try seeing other people too, but I cant. For me all other girls are just shut out. Its automatic, I don't give a crap about anyone else.
She is going through a lot of stress right now and I can understand needing to find out how she stands with getting feelins for other people. I just can't deal with loosing her.
She has been the only "good" part of my life so far.
Like I said.... I would never play hl2 if i could have her back right now.
My gf and I broke up. She really wanted to take a break... So you could call it either one of those.
There's this guy she has a crush on and is going to start going out with. She thinks that, because she has these feelings, she needs to see why she feels this way.
We have been going out for a long time and we are really close. We're closer to each other than we are to any one else.
The thought of her with another guy makes me feel physicly ill. And I'm very sure the thought of me being with another girl would do the same to her.
We both agreed that we weren't going to do anything stupid, like having sex with someone else. But I'm so afraid she'll start having real feelings for someone else and I'll be stuck as the really good friend who has to hold back all true emotions.
She think's I should try seeing other people too, but I cant. For me all other girls are just shut out. Its automatic, I don't give a crap about anyone else.
She is going through a lot of stress right now and I can understand needing to find out how she stands with getting feelins for other people. I just can't deal with loosing her.
She has been the only "good" part of my life so far.
Like I said.... I would never play hl2 if i could have her back right now.
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Fender357 said:
You know, trusting another human being with such strong emotions is a dangerous, and sometimes deadly, thing to do. You really should keep a piece of yourself all to yourself.
So I was seeing this one girl. She would officially be the first girl I've gone out with, anyways she popped my cherry. Now I fell in love, became completely whipped afterwards. Well she started seeing another guy behind my back, I found out and it was pretty much the worse day of my life. I went back to normal after about a week but it was probably close to what you're going through right now. Just out of curriousity, how old are you two, was she your first and is she a total slut?
btw I was 17, and yes she was a slut. NEVER fall in love with a slut.
btw I was 17, and yes she was a slut. NEVER fall in love with a slut.
i know you said not to say this but i have to say it anyways, don't make contact with her for a while until you don't care about her anymore. you'll eventually get over it, i did and afterwards i saw her and was a complete and total bitch to her than the next thing i know she wants to get back together, go figure
ok, another story. friend of mine was seeing this girl a couple years back, he gave her a $300 necklace for christmas and she just stopped talking to him completely. Just the other day they saw eachother for the first time and got along fine. He moved on after she left him. Yeah it hurt and I know it hurts but trust me you'll get over it. Just don't do anything stupid like trying to kill yourself.
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Kyle2 said:
Kyle's right....not only about never going out with a slut, but about the feeling. Trust me, you can fall in love with another person. When that person you love changes, it beings to die. Anything can go for this example. If the person you love forgets who they were, they suddenly change, etc. Of course, you'll mistake the dying of the love as yourself, being used to the intoxication of infatuation, but it'll clear up and you'll see things again. Being with someone is great, but in the end - things are clearer when you're alone. People can aslo keep up a decent pattern of lies and false acts for some time. Some are immune to guilt, and some cave in quickly. I was with a girls for quite a long time, cited red flags, and watched as the unfolded in front of me. Luckily, I was already on the ground before there was a fall to be broken. I was with this particular girl for almost 2 years.
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GhostValkyrie said:
BTW: I doubt you've been with her very long. The time I was with the girls I speack of isn't even long at all. My Grandparents have been together for over 50 years - That's what I call long...
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Well...thats the thing. She's had a bunch of boy friends (all of them COMPLEAT jerks) But I am the only guy she's had sex with and I've only had sex with her. And I'm the only one who treats her like a person and actually loves her.
The OTHER thing is..... some times this kind of stuff happens with us. Its rare, but it has happend before. (that was a REALLY long time ago)
I really think it has alot to do with the stess she's going through, it really ****s with our relationship.
I had hoped she would grow out of it, but she is just bearly there.
The one positive thing (for her at least) is that this guy she likes is nice (so far). He seems like a decent guy and I've got nothing against him (i just cant bare the thought of her being with him)
We've known each other since we were about 14, and now we're 19. So we've been through ALOT together.
I'm fairly sure this will end up ok. But I always have the thoughts in the back of my head that it wont.
And that scares me more than anything.
The OTHER thing is..... some times this kind of stuff happens with us. Its rare, but it has happend before. (that was a REALLY long time ago)
I really think it has alot to do with the stess she's going through, it really ****s with our relationship.
I had hoped she would grow out of it, but she is just bearly there.
The one positive thing (for her at least) is that this guy she likes is nice (so far). He seems like a decent guy and I've got nothing against him (i just cant bare the thought of her being with him)
We've known each other since we were about 14, and now we're 19. So we've been through ALOT together.
I'm fairly sure this will end up ok. But I always have the thoughts in the back of my head that it wont.
And that scares me more than anything.
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GhostValkyrie said:
When I say "a long time" I mean a long time for people our age.
From the last time this happend and we "broke up" for like a month we've been together for 3 years and 7 months. I know a lot of people have probably been with someone longer and thats great.
But I dont personaly "know" anyone who has been with someone this long.
I can only hope that it will actually help our relaitonship like it has before.
(and also she hasn't ever cheated on me and I know she couldn't, we always try and talk out our problems, this one just seems to need action insted of talking)
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its unfortunate that she sees things this way then... maybe she'll change her mind after and have a new appreciation for u.
Ghost, i dunno man, i think that if u've been with someone a long time, breaking up is hard and keeping a part of one's self is near impossible if truly in love, because if someone is, they'll usually devote themselves entirely to that person.
Kyle, are you male or female? Could be either cause u say yur cherry was popped and u were a bitch but u were talking about being with a girl.
Ghost, i dunno man, i think that if u've been with someone a long time, breaking up is hard and keeping a part of one's self is near impossible if truly in love, because if someone is, they'll usually devote themselves entirely to that person.
Kyle, are you male or female? Could be either cause u say yur cherry was popped and u were a bitch but u were talking about being with a girl.
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Oh thats the problem eh? Well let me give you some good advice, or not really advice per say, but listen anyways.
Women are fecking nuts. They are, they are phsyco, they don't have the mental capacity to allow there brain to think, so they inject emotional crap in to every situation. You will not find a sane woman on this planet no matter where you look. Your best bet is to keep in contact and see what she is up to. In the mean time find another girl to make the other jelous, she will want her man back even more if she starts to think some floozy is taking over her territory, then you will have great make up sex, and a few months later it will all happen again. Unless your married, then she won't tell you, she will just go out on her own and cheat. Unless she really loves you, in which case, she is still nuts, but you are her primary emotion.
Women are fecking nuts. They are, they are phsyco, they don't have the mental capacity to allow there brain to think, so they inject emotional crap in to every situation. You will not find a sane woman on this planet no matter where you look. Your best bet is to keep in contact and see what she is up to. In the mean time find another girl to make the other jelous, she will want her man back even more if she starts to think some floozy is taking over her territory, then you will have great make up sex, and a few months later it will all happen again. Unless your married, then she won't tell you, she will just go out on her own and cheat. Unless she really loves you, in which case, she is still nuts, but you are her primary emotion.
lmao jon, i'm a guy. i use the term wether i'm talking about a guy or a girl. it's common in my area.
btw fender, i really doubt she was a virgin. it's not the first time I've heard that.
this may seem a little off topic but do you play paintball at all fender?
btw fender, i really doubt she was a virgin. it's not the first time I've heard that.
this may seem a little off topic but do you play paintball at all fender?
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Kyle2 said:
u use the term getting yur cherry popped if yur a guy? hmmm never heard a guy use that before. I QUESTION YOUR MANLINESS!! lol jj, ....bitch haha jj again
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Ugh that sucks. If there was anything real between the two of you, chances are things will clear up after a while. (Mabey not as soon as you would like though. Kinda like HL2, for example.) Whatever you do, don't spend all your time worrying about her. Life is short. After you start feeling normal again, start looking for others as well. As unbelieveable as this may seem right now, there ARE other chicks out there in which you will feel the same way about, given enough time. If this is a bump in your relationship, let it be a bump. That guy could be a complete jerk (hopefully not, for her sake, but the wrong guys do often find themselves with the right girls more often than not). That guy could end up being Mr. Perfect and merrying her as well. As much as it sucks she has every right to go and see if he is. Don't worry about it, you don't have time to waste. Don't go off looking for girls when you still feel like crap, but after it's all over go ahead, and don't be afraid to break up with them if the girl in question wants you back. Life sucks. They'll get over it just like you will.
Oh, yea, and as for that pic of a chick everyone seems to be posting, here's mine. (not 56k freindly)
What's up with all this obsession with REAL chicks anyways?
Oh no.. oh no... here it comes... he can't say it again... can he?...
If this dosen't make you feel better, nothing will.
Oh, yea, and as for that pic of a chick everyone seems to be posting, here's mine. (not 56k freindly)
What's up with all this obsession with REAL chicks anyways?
Oh no.. oh no... here it comes... he can't say it again... can he?...
If this dosen't make you feel better, nothing will.
alright screw it i'm just gonna get to the point, i need to get to bed. fender, i happen to live in santa clarita, if you've never heard of it think magic mountain. anyways there's a few of us going out to corona next weekend for a paintball scenario game. I figure you could use the stress relief after a situation like this (hell i went paintballing the next day after i found out my girl was cheating on me). anyways if you're interested send me an email at [email protected] if it's full, keep trying
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Kyle2 said:
Alright... THAT was the last post I read before I posted my last comment. Here's what I have to say after reading all that.
Watch the relationship between her and him. I doubt she'll be too afraid to talk about it. Usually 3rd parties can tell what the end of a relationship is going to be before it ends. (no, you are not a 3rd party cause you currently care so much that everything you see will be twisted in your favor. But you can still try to get the gist of how it's going.) Still looking for someone else isn't that bad of an idea, but don't if you think this new b/f of hers is going to be a jerk and the relationship end before it begins. It'll cause a new obsticle of breaking up with THAT girl to get back with her.
I'm going to bed now.
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Kyle2 said:
Ha...no way man.... I KNOW she was a virgin. I know everything she's done with other guys. She almost had sex once, but she just ened up kicking the guy in the stomach. (he's on the list of people i'd love to tourture)
And anyway we were both WAY inexperianced and it sure as hell wasn't easy the first time. (and there are some things that sort of scream "virgin" when you get to them, If you know what I mean)
And no....I dont really play pin ball much. ( I like it.... just not super into it)
