Love at First Sight

[Raziaar]

Love at first sight = A crush®

People mistake the feelings of a crush for love.

*** SEE THAT DAMN YOU! My registered trademark this time! ***

:naughty:

 

[CREMATOR666]

Oh come on! I was the one to say that first :E


You didn't see that ® there did you?

Ok then mine would be :
"Love at first sight = overloading hormones reaction (aka. horniness, and urge to reproduce, etc.) ®

:afro:

 

[Fat Tony!]

Love at first sight? Pfft. Get real.

QFE, honestly it's an amusing concept but it's not going to happen

 

[short recoil]

I have never experienced love as such so it is hard for me to say.

 

[firemachine69]

Better to have loved and lost

Nope. I can attest, I lost a dear friend, and looking back, I definitely should and would have preferred the "what if?" scenario instead of the nasty crap I've been through in the past two months. I spent four hours on the phone with a friend of mine last night, that came up often enough. She (yes she :upstare: ) was in that predicament, wanting to try out "what if's", but just reminding her to look back at what can happen in my case, for instance, made her re-consider. Perhaps recent occasions have led me to change my opinion, but dreams rock. After a bit of those, you went from a pretty big handful of possible relationship strings to just a few threads left. That's were I panicked, and I'm holding as hard as I can to the female friends I have left.

Just keep dreaming, and be happy to dream.









I'd rather be a dreamer then have my dreams shattered.

 

[Fat Tony!]

simple sollution firemachine, don't become friends with the girl before you "make the move"

 

[SimonomiS]

Love at first sight? Pfft. Get real.

Second QFE. Erm, double emphasis? Anyway, Ritz pretty much summed up my thoughts.

 

[Garfield_]

why not ? i mean everything is possible in this sick world

 

[Fat Tony!]

Apart from this

 

[Llama]

YES
Without a doubt. I speak from personal experience its possible

 

[alehm]

Anyone who doesn't believe in love at first sight has never had children of their own, and for those who want to turn that statement in a Michael Jacksonesque perversion is either still a child or has a limited concept of what love actually is.

When you boil it all down, love is an action and a commitment, not based on feelings. So yes, it is possible to love someone at first sight.... even when talking about a romantic interest.

 

[Vorac1ous]

No, because I believe you can only love a person only once you get to know them. Otherwise, you just want to bang them because they're hot to you.

 

[Ennui]

nope, there's plenty of lust at first sight but not love.

 

[sabre0001]

i think its possible but theres love and very strong lust - know the difference...

 

[Shakermaker]

July 24 1994 I met a girl. The next morning we were lovers. We married almost a year ago. Love at first sight is no myth.

 

[baxter]

Anyone who doesn't believe in love at first sight has never had children of their own

I agree.

Love at first sight? Pfft. Get real

Never met an adult I fell in love with at first sight so i agree here also.

 

[Teh_Poet]

Better to have loved and lost than have mis-spent your days wanking yourself into a blind fury for all enternity and wondering what could have been.

Try it sometime.

 

[Tr0n]

That was beautiful man...

/me wipes away the tears from his eyes

 

[Calanen]

Quote:
Originally Posted by el Chi
Better to have loved and lost than have mis-spent your days wanking yourself into a blind fury for all enternity and wondering what could have been.

Try it sometime.

I'm all for having a go - why not? Anything worthwhile always has an element of risk.

 

[Teh_Poet]

I'm all for having a go - why not? Anything worthwhile always has an element of risk.

They way I see it: better to have not loved then to have loved and lost.

Better the devil you know.

 

[Tantalus]

Some people you can just completely connect with, when you look into their eyes... it feels like you're touching their soul and they're touching yours... guess I cant describe it so until you experience it you just won't know.

Quoted for Emphasis.

 

[Raziaar]

Touching the soul? Man, that sounds kinky!

If a would stranger would stroke and caress my soul... I may be inclined to get a little bit closer to her :naughty:

 

[Pressure]

Love is ntohing but a myth.

 

[Teh_Poet]

Love is ntohing but a myth.

I feel bad for you. I really do.

 

[Lemonking]

of course why not?
it happend to me before so its true

 

[Teh_Poet]

of course why not?
it happend to me before so its true

Same here.

Actually, I saw her and wasn't sure if I'd end up hating her or loving her. I knew it would be a strong emotion. And it was.

 

[Calanen]

They way I see it: better to have not loved then to have loved and lost.

Better the devil you know.

But the first bit just means that you will never love anyone, because you can never guarantee that you will love and not lose. The only way you could was either being with no1 or being with people you did not care about.

The second bit, better the devil you know - I am not sure what you mean in this context. Do you mean that it is better to be with someone you do not love because you are familiar with them than it is to leave and go with someone unfamiliar who you may love?

 

[firemachine69]

Get ready for some mildly metaphysical/philosophical rambling.

Love is something that has to grow and flower to reach fruition. It is impossible for this to happen without the right conditions and the acceptance of the receiving party (the extension of this, in my opinion, is that there is no such thing as 'unrequited love,' merely one half of a full circle). To go metaphorical, love is like a late-blooming flower - you have to nurture it and care for it long after the seed is planted for it to blossom into a beautiful thing. I believe it's possible for the /seed/ of love to be planted at first sight, but fulfilled love takes time and effort.

Bingo.

To whomever thinks dating without being friends might work out... Oh man, can that ever be an even bigger disaster!

 

[Fat Tony!]

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